Taurus man leading me on?

Means he's a brick shy of a load with no conscience. And you OP should keep the fantasy in your head where it belongs.

YEP fire. "married and off limits."

Maybe the only accomplishment he is after is getting his wick dipped. Open your eyes. Flattery does not a man make.

Why would he need to produce friends for her, does she not have her own merit as a human being? I can't imagine one goes out to cull friends for their spouse unless they've got them locked up like a bird in a gilded cage. I would be worried about such actions from a married man. I'd bin that on actions alone. A married man need not *show me* that he loves his wife...as if he were 'forbidden fruit' to dangle before me therefore making him more "enticing". Blech. If his woman is in on these shenanigans I'd wonder if she had a screw loose. As to calming her suspicion. If it's a sound relationship there wouldn't be any of it. You'd simply be an acquaintance or friend.

hey, maybe his wife likes women too,
and they're trying to have a threesome with you.

Him inviting you over for dinner, with his wife,
means that they're gonna seduce you into a threesome, hahahaha. 😛

But seriously,
don't go for married people, don't be a mistress.

It would be cheating for him, unless his wife does it with you also.

If you can accept that, then come over and have dinner with them, see if you can like his wife too. LOL 😛

Posted by firewaterearth
It means that he is married and offlimits. You can do better than flirting with some unavailable man.

It means he is married and shouldn't be flirting with anyone else except his wife.



If a single guy flirted with you OP would you flirt back?

there are 30 years your senior, and he's flirting with you, and he's married, and he wants you to come over, meaning that if you're in your 20s, they're in their 50s, you don't think people in their 50s like threesomes?

the scenario is this,
A) you're mistaken a fatherly interaction with sexual interaction.
B) this guy is a freak and wants to seduce something young and fresh just for pleasure.

if it's A, then you got some issues and you gotta work on yourself,
if it's B, then you know for a fact as you're reading this,
that if a guy communicates sexually, while being married,
and he wants to meet his wife, then he's gonna use you
and toss you when he's done with you.


you have to ask yourself these questions.
A) what do I want?
B) what does myself want?
C) what does he want?
D) what does he want for himself?
E) what should I do with a situation seemingly chaotic like this?


I don't know the first 4,
but I know the last answer,
you need to get the fvck away from it, right now.

or a few months from now, you'll log on, looking for me,
and I'll be there to tell you, "I told you so".

Take it from me,
an enlightened Taurus who's come from the Darkside.



Look, if you like the guy, and have no moral issues, then do it.
Because you're only looking for someone to give you the cue that you should go for it, aren't you?

but just keep it in mind that these are all the warning signs of a sh1t situation,
and if you just want to satisfy your urges, be prepared to leave as soon as you're done with the deeds,
carrying with you the feeling that - "now I am this guy's mistress, I was just a toy that he used for the moment"



and beware of the mistress karma,
it's one of the heaviest karma in existence,
it'll hit you years later, like a cruel thief in the night.
it'll hit you when you least expect, bringing you to your demise.

by the way, ellesque, you have yet to write in your "Why?" thread. 😉

That or he really likes looking at that onion. Makes him cry. 50 ain't dead. 😛 I'd still be suspicious. Certainly wouldn't go into someones house just because they've flirted with me. I might wind up on Missing Persons and be sequestered in a basement somewhere.

How bout you vomit up the whole bilious stew of it so we can inspect it in the light. Because where it stands right now the while situ reeks of a pile of pig shit out in the sun. Sounds like quite a piece of work this Bull. Mmm. Let's see.

Strike 1: He initiates flirting of a sort. Not the welcome kind. Trowels that on nice and thick. Comes off as charming, interested. Underneath this all is a lizard licking its lips.

Strike 2: Clearly he likes his conquests on home turf. Mmmm ever see an Ant Lion? Look into it.

Strike 3: He invites you there, minus his wifes presence ( which should all be screaming "Cheating Fucktard!!" in your head by now.. ). Pays in CASH ( not traceable via bank statements, credit card receipts, etc. )..and for the final coup de grace..as if all this bullshit wasn't enough: You are beneath notice in the presence of his peers.

Your internal antenna should not just be vibrating slightly at all this, it should be singing "Ave Maria" in 1st soprano with an entire orchestra behind it.

Now, providing you are not having a go at us and sincerely confused1..hope this cleared it all up for you.

Posted by confused1


On our outings, he has paid everything in cash and fails to acknowledge me around colleagues. He will talk to other people and completely ignore me and not introduce me.

he is a creep

why do you keep wanting to know? why are you still asking all these question?
I'm sure a snake or a tiger does strange confusing things sometimes too, before devouring its prey.

everybody already told you no, you should put on your guards and shields and get out of there,
before they cast some infatuating spell on you and it's too late.
There're some real evil, fked up people in this world.

A Taurus man can turn into either a tyrant dictator, or a chauvinistic hedonist.
At least the tyrant has honor, this guy seems to be the latter.


You sound like a fish swimming on the ocean floor, being enticed by one of those ugly spiky fishes with the light bulbs hiding behind rocks, I forget what it's called, somebody tell me what that fish is called, lol. 😛
but you get the point.

Angler fish, and good analogy.

?stonefish

creepy old married guy fish?

There is actually a longhorn cow fish which would also be appropriate in this situation. Very toxic.

Or a fuji fish.

Make that *fugu*.

I am never going swimming again😢

Awww, course you will. Nothing like a good skinny dip in the moonlight. *patting hand* Let's go get waxed and check out mens arses.

damn, there's thousands of types of fishes.
it makes me wonder if the Pisces is as diverse as well.

I recently saw this book called, "how to survive a Pisces"

hmmm, interesting. 😛

Posted by venusianbull
Awww, course you will. Nothing like a good skinny dip in the moonlight. *patting hand* Let's go get waxed and check out mens arses.

As it happens we have a little beach like that here🙂.....you don't even need to be waxed.
You can observe them from the footpath en route to the picnic spot.
You must come - I know you are landlocked😢

Posted by Minotaur
why do you keep wanting to know? why are you still asking all these question?
I'm sure a snake or a tiger does strange confusing things sometimes too, before devouring its prey.

everybody already told you no, you should put on your guards and shields and get out of there,
before they cast some infatuating spell on you and it's too late.
There're some real evil, fked up people in this world.

A Taurus man can turn into either a tyrant dictator, or a chauvinistic hedonist.
At least the tyrant has honor, this guy seems to be the latter.


You sound like a fish swimming on the ocean floor, being enticed by one of those ugly spiky fishes with the light bulbs hiding behind rocks, I forget what it's called, somebody tell me what that fish is called, lol. 😛
but you get the point.

?firefly squid

101 lakes in the area, but no ocean. Boooooo. *perking up* No waxing you say?

LOL "How to Survive a Pisces". I'd have to survive myself. Seems to be going alright so far. 😛

"I emailed him telling him he was pleasant and very beautiful. His response, "If we are going to keep this up, you should come to dinner sometime and meet the family".

What does that mean??"

Hell maybe I'm naive too LOL but it appear he may just have an open marriage and can't get physical until he get wifey's opinion because she may wanna tap that ass too.

To alleviate your confusion, please stop flirting, complimenting excessively, chasing a married man and you won't feel confused.