TAURUS MEN—

ARE TAURUS MEN ALWAYS SOOO HARD TO OPEN UP?
ive been tlaking to one for a couple motnhs now, and the topics havent progressed... he just talks about fluff.... i try to open him up sometimes, but he wont budge.

i cant tell if hes into me or not.

he became distant for awhile... hes back and forth now.

where as the first month and a half he was very clingy

whats up with him?

I find in the Taurus males I know that they are more guarded in general. Keep things close to the vest. Flighty and overly verbal feminine attributes make them want to sequester themselves in the darkest and most dank man cave and hide. "My God woman, would you look at the time already? I've got to rebuild an engine, weld this homage to modern man AND build a cabin by FIVE!"
And to be perfectly honest, a lot of Bulls I know would rather sit there like a monolith and grunt at you rather than have a convo bleeding with the exact ( and most perfect ) shade of peach on the latest frock. That one syllable response that encompasses all they want or need to say. And by heavens you should understand that because he's very important, thank you very much.
Some are extremely inept at getting feelings and so on across. It sticks in their throat like a hairball and you could possibly reach spinsterhood waiting for them to yack it up onto the rug.
NOT that they cannot engage and be witty, charming and altogether wonderful, but it's on their terms. So, I would hazard a guess that because you are both Bulls, you are *pushing* him to try and get him where you'd like him to be, and he'll set down on his stubborn ass and do what it is they do. Which is pretty much what they damned well please. "Unstoppable force meets unmovable object" is how one Bull mate of mine described our dynamic.
It sounds like he had a bit of a crush, and is now just doing what we BOTH do. And that is take a back seat, throw our legs up, get comfortable and observe. Like two hands on either side of a mirror. Close, but not quite touching. Just keep being you, and he'll keep being him. One of you may ( or may not ) decide to reach through the looking glass and haul the other close, but remember also..Taurus is an ATTRACTOR. And many of us want the man to take the lead, some of them will not and want YOU too. But two Taureans together, someone is going to have to bloody jump, or neither of them will. Just some food for thought.

thankyou! that was very beautifully written 🙂

I agree, im pushing him, and he's just chilling lol

altho the other day was funny.... i messaged him online... and he said he finished writing his lyrics.... i asked if i could see.. ebcuase he always sends me them... but he said no... i asked why... he said: too much typing.
so i siad: aahhhh lol so i was put on the backburner eh
and hes like: LOL YESS... as a matter of fact im just typing them out to her as we speak.

i said: LOL
then i dropped it....
i havent messaged him after that... next day he texts me saying: hmm i didnt hear from u at all on this lovely day lol
i said i was busy.. hes like: sure sure... u didnt message me since i told i wrote my lyrics for another girl lol
i said: yeah i did!, i said : LOL

hes like: lol cleaarrlllyyyyyy u were upset lol
i said i wasnt he didnt believe ... lol

then after that he always says theres another girl lol

LMAO I love that little test. Erm, not. "Oh really? Another girl, how FASCINATING." Seeing if you get your knickers in a twist or not. Works both ways there home skillet, I've got a date. *slow dissolve*. BWAHAHAHA. Love my Bulls, but sometimes this Cow would deeply enjoy placing my own hoof straight up their fudge factory. 😛

And do you know what else? I wouldn't change any of them for the world. Each of my Bulls are unique, and with all of them there lies a thread of commonality that is both refreshing and very much treasured. It's like "Oh THERE you are!" A recognition of the same mindset, values and appetites. Perfectly content just blabbing, music swapping, laughing like a loon, goofing off outdoors or just reading. It's all okay in other words. No need to impress, I can just be myself. They can be themselves, and THAT is perfectly fine by me. Cut eyes at someone like "You bored?" and get back the mental "NOPE". 🙂

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And do you know what else? I wouldn't change any of them for the world. Each of my Bulls are unique, and with all of them there lies a thread of commonality that is both refreshing and very much treasured. It's like "Oh THERE you are!" A recognition of the same mindset, values and appetites. Perfectly content just blabbing, music swapping, laughing like a loon, goofing off outdoors or just reading. It's all okay in other words. No need to impress, I can just be myself. They can be themselves, and THAT is perfectly fine by me. Cut eyes at someone like "You bored?" and get back the mental "NOPE". 🙂

I agree 100% .... in the very beginning hes like"i jsut dont understand whats so special about me"
i said..... becuase i can be myself with you... its easy... its refreshing.

i dont have to watch what i say at all..... and he agreed.

i mean he calls me poop, poopla, doodoohead, bean sprouts, lol the most lamest things he could come up with.... and i find it chamring. LOL

and finally....... its someone that you dont have to worry about them leaving you..... even as a friend they will stick around..... they arent easily offended 😄

FEMwild..... come to think of it, i think it is a taurus thing.... because i always come up with random things to call ppl..... i just never had it done to mee... lol so it was weird.

and yess... it is charming the way he tried to make me jealous.... i had a Scorpio try, but he was mean about it lol

and also... if i think about it... in most my friendships, im always the one listening, and never giving any information about myself.... i forget that he is the same sign as me.... lol so neither of us is opening up.... becuase we are used to being the listeners 😛

Oh yes, if I give someone a nickname, it's because they're in my circle.
Here's a little smackeral of Tau/Tau dynamic at work. I went to England, not only to see it because I've always wanted too..but also to visit my mate. No monkey business, I took over his bedroom and his buns hit the settee for the week.
I wanted to cook for him, show off a bit. I slid the thick chops and their surroundings in and he took one couch and I the other for some telly. He drifts off, I drift off. I woke up and pulled dinner out ( it was fine ). When I came back out to the lounge he wakes up, sits up, slams both hands on his legs and looks at me like "Well WOMAN?! Man is hungry here!" This didn't offend me in the least, as a matter of fact I was amused. I grinned and made him a plate and served him. It was silent eating, still mentally smiling at the "Lord O' The Manor" business..but all of a sudden he just looks up from his plate and said "This...is bloody GORGEOUS, thank you so much." I puffed up and really broke out in a grin then. When I filled the sink with water to wash dishes he said "Leave it!" I just cocked a brow and said "Tis DONE MAN!" and went back to business.
We were in the pub, just talking and having our drinks, went outside for some air, still talking. Get up to go inside and one gent looks at me and said "Are you two married?" I said "He'd ruther have pins inserted into his eyesockets." and kept on trucking. When we settled down I said "That bloke thought we were married." I get back a grunt. LOL
Another..we got out of the cab ( he gave the driver a dressing down, while I was silent and observant, rather in awe of the magnificence of the tirade actually.. ) and when I turned to close the door he just looked at me. That was it. I walked up alongside and we walked back to the flat.
He closely watched the wonder and flat out awe on my face in Westminster Castle, pleased to be sharing history. I really had to compose myself afterward, it was almost sensory overload. He sidled up to me at the wall where I was leaned over looking outward at the trees and said "You alright?" I said "Oh yes, I'm fine thanks."
^^^ Point to all this? That it's comfortable really, the flow. Not a tremendous amount of wondering what the friggedy frack is going on in someones head. Grandiose gestures and statements aren't really necessary, it's like a favorite pair of jeans. All broke in and the ones you grab for each and every time. 🙂

aawwwww... that was soooooo beautifullllllllllllll 🙂
sooo simple and yet sooo overwhelming 🙂

thankyou for sharing that 🙂

oohhh btw.... im on the aries/taurus cusp
and hes on the taurus/gemini cusp
😛

Uhoh...now there's 4 of us running loose on society. LOL