If a taurus man is with you for 16 years and never propose to you or marry you what does this mean....Give me your opinions.....
Taurus man question
More information if you please. Monogamous relationship..are you under the same roof..have you brought it up, what was the response..are you putting up with it..have you voiced your concerns. Does he consider you his woman, on and on we go.
Posted by venusianbull
More information if you please. Monogamous relationship..are you under the same roof..have you brought it up, what was the response..are you putting up with it..have you voiced your concerns. Does he consider you his woman, on and on we go.
Long story but I have been having an intimate relationship with a taurus man that is in a relationship with another women. He lives with this women and they have two children ages 16 and 2....He contacts me all the time wanting to see me and wanting to stay with me..When I agree to see him i don't hear from until he wants me again...I'm just so sick of his shit but I love him so much at the same time....I just don't know what to do.....
Posted by SEXYMISSPosted by venusianbull
More information if you please. Monogamous relationship..are you under the same roof..have you brought it up, what was the response..are you putting up with it..have you voiced your concerns. Does he consider you his woman, on and on we go.
Long story but I have been having an intimate relationship with a taurus man that is in a relationship with another women. He lives with this women and they have two children ages 16 and 2....He contacts me all the time wanting to see me and wanting to stay with me..When I agree to see him i don't hear from until he wants me again...I'm just so sick of his sh % #but I love him so much at the same time....I just don't know what to do.....click to expand
So essentially he's been having his cake and eating it too for going on 20 years. You are his mistress. Whether he cares for you or no, he will not leave his children and wifey. You've made it entirely too convenient for him. Oh what a smile that man must wear. When he wearies of reality and its pressure he's got the love and care of you. Not seeing him enough to not be sprung over him all this time. Just feeding you enough to keep you that way. You madam, are the world famed and acclaimed 'other woman' and he's a cheater. On her and you.
Posted by venusianbull
So essentially he's been having his cake and eating it too for going on 20 years. You are his mistress. Whether he cares for you or no, he will not leave his children and wifey. You've made it entirely too convenient for him. Oh what a smile that man must wear. When he wearies of reality and its pressure he's got the love and care of you. Not seeing him enough to not be sprung over him all this time. Just feeding you enough to keep you that way. You madam, are the world famed and acclaimed 'other woman' and he's a cheater. On her and you.
ITA!
it doesnt matter that they aren't 'married'..they have children and live as married people. You are a side-track, a toy, from his mundane life.
Oh and i should add..I said that because i know. been there and done it myself. Not proud of it either. I eventually left but that doesn't mean all men/women will.
"I'm just so sick of his shit but I love him so much at the same time....I just don't know what to do..."
You know what to do...yank off that doormat sign on your back and leave.
You are an option...Please love yourself, you deserve to be first not second (his option).
You know what to do...yank off that doormat sign on your back and leave.
You are an option...Please love yourself, you deserve to be first not second (his option).
Just an opinion. Would you like to be in this state where you care for some1 and he doesn't reciprocate.
He come to you only when he needs you and not when you need him. I think its very clear that he is just having fun at your sake. I think you deserve some1 better than him, someone who can be with you when you need him.
He come to you only when he needs you and not when you need him. I think its very clear that he is just having fun at your sake. I think you deserve some1 better than him, someone who can be with you when you need him.
Posted by SEXYMISS
Long story but I have been having an intimate relationship with a taurus man that is in a relationship with another women. He lives with this women and they have two children ages 16 and 2....He contacts me all the time wanting to see me and wanting to stay with me..When I agree to see him i don't hear from until he wants me again...I'm just so sick of his shit but I love him so much at the same time....I just don't know what to do.....
lol...reading the OP, i felt sorry for you. it's like oh damn, she's been in a committed relationship for 16 years and...
then you post this and it's like oh, she's a home-wrecker. makes perfect sense.
If he has not commited to you he never will.Even when he does he will not be fully commited.He is set in his routine.
Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free? imjustsaying.
I feel for you. Im in the same situation. I go back and forth bc I love him so much and we have so much in common. We go back 20 years since high school. We're in our 30s now and we have a history. I know his past and present but she has his future. He says he loves me and I believe him bc as a Pisces I feel it. He won't leave bc of the kids. He is so stubborn. But I called it off finally after seeing him 2 years straight and I have a baby from him too. I've never told his live in girlfriend and he doesn't help me with my baby. We decided it was best that he stay out of her life and recently I decided it was best that he stay out of mine as well. He's hurt me enough and I will be waiting for him til his kids are 18 then hell just find another excuse. Girl love yourself. Keep busy and rememeber the best revenge is to be happy and successful. I miss my taurus best friend. We talked about everything and the sex was great but he cldnt man up to take care of our baby together or isn't man enough to be with me. I told him to find me when he was ready to give himself to me fully and wholeheartedly but in the meantime I'm not waiting.
Posted by LadyLionness
Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free? imjustsaying.
Why buy the whole pig when all you want is a piece of sausage?
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPersonPosted by LadyLionness
Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free? imjustsaying.
Why buy the whole pig when all you want is a piece of sausage?click to expand
LOL Yeah, but he ain't the one here posting about how he's had this mistress for 16 years, but she wants her freedom to be with anyone and everyone she chooses, won't commit to him so they can be a proper couple... how it's tearing him apart to love and want to be with this woman, but all she wants is to call him up every so often for a little of the ol' slap and tickle, like he's nothing but a breathing male blow-up doll to her.
I hate to tell you this, but you are the side piece/jump off. He will never marry you. And apparently his relationship with HER is going well enough because they are making babies. Hes got a friggin two year old! Why does any of this not register? No way youre hanging out w/ a guy for 16 years waiting for him to marry you when he has a family w/ someone else. So, Im inclined to believe that you are a troll. This is just too ludicrous for words.
I hear you Nefer...I was just letting off some steam.
OP should stop putting out and tell this guy to sort out what he wants.
The guy needs to grow a pair of testicles up and pick a side - stop treating 2 women like shit.
Wife should dump his sorry ass and kick him to the curb wearing only the shirt on his back.
**knowing some expert is going to slam me I am still going to write this......if a nice SINGLE guy came along I am pretty sure the OP would rather be porking him than this married dude.
All very well for people to snipe at her "go get your own man" - they never back it up with 'you can date Joe Bloggs ph # xxxx-xxxx who is single and looking for a great relationship.'
Back it up with something.
There should be enough people on the planet for everyone to have a slice of the action. I am sick of hearing about some folks double dipping when others are missing out.
OP should stop putting out and tell this guy to sort out what he wants.
The guy needs to grow a pair of testicles up and pick a side - stop treating 2 women like shit.
Wife should dump his sorry ass and kick him to the curb wearing only the shirt on his back.
**knowing some expert is going to slam me I am still going to write this......if a nice SINGLE guy came along I am pretty sure the OP would rather be porking him than this married dude.
All very well for people to snipe at her "go get your own man" - they never back it up with 'you can date Joe Bloggs ph # xxxx-xxxx who is single and looking for a great relationship.'
Back it up with something.
There should be enough people on the planet for everyone to have a slice of the action. I am sick of hearing about some folks double dipping when others are missing out.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
What does my Taurus man want? This is a long distant relationship, everything was going perfect than he broke up with m
I'm looking for advice with my Taurus man. I met him a few months back and surprise surprise, I'm head over heals for hi
Ok so me and this taurus guy were talking on the phone and i became at a lost of words and starting ramabling and laughi
Hi I met a Taurus man and it went really really well we seemed to click both of us had been watching each other for ma
In my Opinion i'm very compatibile with this sign, they are very sensual, and rugged usually (steamy ideas). Help me in
I have a friend who's a Taurus, owns a bar and is very friendly with everyone. I'm married (but seperated) lately I've n
How do I go about it? I wear feminine clothing, soft fabrics, and fragrance every time I see him. I have soft skin, s
Hi, I've a first date with a Taurus man tomorrow night, we have been talking, exchanging emails (including pictures),
Okay, I have two car issues that I need a little advice on. 1) My headlights seem to be a little low. My taurus bf po
relationship with a Taurus man?? Doesn't seem like it ever happens! If it has/you have one, how did it start?
Aii i have a sistation with a taurus guy so if your willing to listen then ill begine and your advice would be appreciat
What have you found? I am really in shock about the very dark side. We are all humans but this is taking the cake.
Before anyone says I thought you love them? I do. And I am still with mine. Hiya forum. I've been away. We've settle
Hello all, I'm a virgin to the Taurus board. I used to give advice about Virgo men on their board, so now I've shifted o
SOO... IVE BEEN ANNOYING THIS TAURUS GUY... apparently.... lol and he said hes going to stop tlaking to me... i said alr
Met Taurus Guy only a few weeks ago and he's 7 years younger. I had to say that he APPEARED to be all man, all about the
ARE TAURUS MEN ALWAYS SOOO HARD TO OPEN UP? ive been tlaking to one for a couple motnhs now, and the topics havent prog
I need help quick The Taurus man that I fell for hard, keeps talking to me after I told him to stop contacting me and
I've read that Taurus men play their cards super close to their chest. So if one opens up and tells you their feelings a
Help with a Taurus man Hello I am kind of new to all this, but I decided to see if I can get some advise. My friend