Taurus man wanting to keep things casual

I hope someone can shed some light on my situation, I met a Taurus guy and when we started see each other casually for 2 weeks. I told him one day that I wasn't looking for a relationship like that, because he was ingnoring me and wanted to see me just for sex, so was better for us to stay friends, but from that moment he started to pursue me, telling that he felt lucky to have met me.

Later we dated for one week but nothing changed, when we were alone he was super sweet, but he kept his life "private", didn't invite me anywhere during the weekend and went out by his own, he just checked in with random texts asking if we could meet for a coffee during the week. I gave the cold shoulder being vague and disappearing for few days and he didn't contact me.. I randomly met him one day and I talked to him without showing that I was angry or anything but he didn't text anymore.



what did I do wrong? Is there a way to make him reconsider?



thanks,

C.

what do you want from him? give examples of how you would like him to behave, do, etc.

then tell him.

stop being vague and playing games.

say what you mean, mean what you say and let your behaviour reflect your words. if you don't want to be in a casual relationship, so putting yourself in a casual relationship.

you also have to realise that you can't have a relationship similar to a couple that has been together for decades when you have been together for two weeks.

it takes time to create and strengthen bonds. realise you are at the beginning of an interaction and let your expectations reflect that.

Chiarass

Here is what happened.

You gave up the panties prematurely, and your insecurities kicked in.

You wanted to regain some sort of control in this situation, so you pretended to be aloof and casual about the entire thing.

When he pursued you, you asserted that nothing changed.

Actually it did.

He contacted you to meet you for coffee, not for sex.

..And was still sweet to you when the two of you were alone.

He's moving slow and is keeping his private life...well..private.

This is called a slow gradual courtship.

You received what you asked for, and he gave it to you.

It was just not in the speed that you wanted it.

You resorted to 'games' again.

And he simply called "Game Over."

Here is your answer.