Taurus man wants a baby??

My Taurus boyfriend and I are long-distance and have been together for six months. He tells me all the time that he is working towards stabilizing his finances so he can move here. He wants to "go straight to the top and take me with him", wants to marry me, tells me I'm the love of his life. I feel the same way.

We saw each other two months ago and had a birth control mishap that resulted in a chemical pregnancy (i.e. early miscarriage). When I told him I was worried about how I was feeling and what I was afraid was happening, he said "well, if it happens, it happens, I guess I'm moving sooner than we thought". He told me whatever happened, we'd get through it.

He also told me that it doesn't matter if I'm on birth control or not; it wouldn't stop him from making love to me exactly the way he wants to.

My bull has never given me a reason to doubt him or not to trust him... is this his way of telling me he WANTS a baby with me? I'm confused because I'm so used to men balking at the idea of pregnancy but he is completely calm about it. I might not be able to get back on my birth control due to insurance issues and I'm worried about the outcome if I can't, because if he's not serious, chances are VERY HIGH that we'll conceive again. I've already had twins!

I want children with him too, but I'm worried about the timing. I don't know if he genuinely will just be fine with it either way (whether I end up pregnant prematurely or not), or if he was trying to make me calmer when I was going through the chemical pregnancy stuff. Thoughts?

Only way to find out is to make him pregnant.

I think its fabulous that he's discussing the future.

However.

How many single mothers and fathers do we have to see before we all get more serious aboutul commitment and children.

There is no absolute certainty that a man or husband will stay with you after or before a child.

Doesnt mean that you cant increase your odds for a successful outcome.

Stable finances

Stable commitment

Stable living conditions

Marriage

Well, he didnt say he wants a baby. If he wanted a baby-he'd say that. Or thats how I think. Ive said the same thing to a guy and it happened with me although I never got pregnant, thank GOD. Its just, or was esp at the time my outlook on life. Deal with things if they come-a child isnt the end of the world. But I didnt tell him, I want a baby with you, no.

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I think its fabulous that he's discussing the future.

However.

How many single mothers and fathers do we have to see before we all get more serious aboutul commitment and children.

There is no absolute certainty that a man or husband will stay with you after or before a child.

Doesnt mean that you cant increase your odds for a successful outcome.

Stable finances

Stable commitment

Stable living conditions

Marriage

planned parenthood is a great thing this needs to be taught in schools tooo

He didn't say he wants a baby.

Saying he doesn't care about the consequences of unsafe sex doesn't mean he wants to impregnate you.

He said that whatever happens you'd get through it together. Which for all you know he meant he would've driven you and paid for the abortion.

Your in your feels so your getting ahead of yourself.

Next time he brings up marriage and talk of forever ask him for some more concrete details. Or ask him where he sees himself in 5 years. If he doesn't mention kids in that future picture odds are he doesn't want to put a baby in you.

You should have insisted on having protected sex until he moves to your state.

Once the ring goes on the finger the condom can come off.

Tell him I'll only fuck my husband raw.

It's beyond me how people can 'fall in love' in 6 months. What's that about?

Yeah he wants a baby.