taurus playing middlewoman

If you were truly upset about this, you would have already confronted her. If her brother isn't contacting you and he ditched you, then that's between you and him. His sister might have a genuine interest in being your friend, especially if you're close in age.

I'm not sure what you mean by Taurus women having an "altered" perception of love or how it goes hand in hand with refusing to do anything we don't want to do (hopefully everyone is this way and doesn't do something they don't want to do).

As far as what she's getting from this: I think she may just genuinely tring to be your friend. You didn't state how long you dated her brother, but if you hung out with her while you dated her brother, then take it at face value and accept that she may still want to be your friend.

If all else fails, do the Taurus thing and confront the sister and ask her if she has an ulterior motive.

I think you're waaaayyyy too suspicious - sounds to me like she just thinks you were good for her brother and that she may sense he realizes that but is too stubborn to admit it....we're very protective of the people we love - especially siblings, if she didn't really think there was something to it I don't think she would be telling you all of that.....
what do you mean what is she getting out of it ? are you listening to yourself? what could she possibly get out of it except her brother's happiness?

angelfish: you're right. i am suspicious. i'm just trying to make logical decisions and keep my emotions in check.

"I think if she really wanted to be friends, she would at least stop mentioning him in our conversations."

Us Bulls are not mind readers. If you don't tell her you aren't comfortable with her talking about her brother, then she's going to keep thinking you don't mind.

I'm still cool with some of my brothers exs, but I know better than to mention my brother to her unless we're really talking junk about him. I pretty much stay friends with people I think are cool until and unless they do something disrespectful or shady. Maybe she saw a difference in her brother when he was with you and she really has a interest in getting to know you so she can see why exactly he dropped you and if she needs to play rematch maker. I know I've done that a couple of times where I thought my brother was wrong about someone or I knew someone was interested in him...I'm really friendly with my sister in law, more so with my other siblings, because shes my brothers wife and I love my brother dearly and if shes doing him right then I can love her like a sister. She might question my motives because I wouldnt say her and I are close by any measure, but I just sincerely accept her because my brother did.

you know she may be mentioning her brother because she feels it's the only connection the two of you have - it may be her way of opening up a conversation....It does seem a little odd she would go to so much trouble to be your friend, but on the other hand, maybe she's hoping if you guys start hanging out then her brother will start missing you....like I said she may just have thought you were really good for him.

houstonpeach - what are you talking about ? I'm reading your mind right now...and I'm enjoying the show....who's that tall handsome cowboy? hmmmm—

hey angelfish - no tall handsome cowboy here...your wires are crossed. My guy is only 5'10" and out of town at the moment. 😢

oh reeeeaaalllyyy.....well then I guess you two have some things to talk about when he gets back - don't worry I won't tell him about this mystery man ;0)