SaggiMom77
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Taurus Scared the Shit Out Me! :O
Butthurt because you refused a gift. He doesn't see the sense in pouring money into it when you could have something new he can provide.
And welcome to the Pasture. 🙂
"Next thing I know he flies of the handle yelling that I'm ungrateful and how he's just trying to do something nice for me and how I make everything harder than it has to be."
I'm not a dude,but sounds like he's been feeling this for awhile?
I don't normally fly off the handle like that,unless frustration has been silently mounting for awhile.but,my mars is in Taurus...his may not be.
I'm curious what your charts look like,it's very uncommon to find a Sag and Bull together at all, let alone for so long.
I'm not a dude,but sounds like he's been feeling this for awhile?
I don't normally fly off the handle like that,unless frustration has been silently mounting for awhile.but,my mars is in Taurus...his may not be.
I'm curious what your charts look like,it's very uncommon to find a Sag and Bull together at all, let alone for so long.
Posted by BellatheBull
"Next thing I know he flies of the handle yelling that I'm ungrateful and how he's just trying to do something nice for me and how I make everything harder than it has to be."
I'm not a dude,but sounds like he's been feeling this for awhile?
I don't normally fly off the handle like that,unless frustration has been silently mounting for awhile.but,my mars is in Taurus...his may not be.
I'm curious what your charts look like,it's very uncommon to find a Sag and Bull together at all, let alone for so long.
I have NO idea why he flipped out. I mean, he expresses everything else to me. I would think he's not frustrated I mean we communicate our feelings.
But here are our charts.
MINE:
Sun Saggitarius 9?? 44' in house 6
Moon Leo 18?? 41' in house 3
Mercury Capricorn 0?? 51' in house 7
Venus Scorpio 27?? 26' in house 6
Mars Leo 10?? 49' in house 3
Jupiter Cancer 3?? 46' in house 1
Saturn Virgo 0?? 27' in house 4
Uranus Scorpio 13?? 47' in house 6
Neptune Saggitarius 15?? 37' in house 6
Pluto Libra 16?? 1' in house 5
Ascendant Gemini 18?? 13' in house 1
Medium Coeli Aquarius 27?? 37' in house 10
HIS:
Sun Taurus 9?? 25' in house 11
Moon Taurus 11?? 45' in house 12
Mercury Taurus 29?? 44' in house 12
Venus Aries 26?? 11' in house 11
Mars Cancer 20?? 47' in house 2
Jupiter Taurus 8?? 5' in house 11
Saturn Cancer 26?? 59' in house 2
Uranus Scorpio 4?? 55' in house 5
Neptune Saggitarius 13?? 27' in house 6
Pluto Libra 9?? 33' in house 5
Ascendant Gemini 19?? 5' in house 1
Medium Coeli Pisces 0?? 13' in house 10
Posted by SaggiMom77
how I make everything harder than it has to be.
^that
he wasn't arguing about the car. he was arguing an overriding sentiment. so tell us...
how do you make life difficult and otherwise annoying?
taurus likes to presume it's practical, prepared and secure. where buying a new car when you're just about finish paying off an old one seems like an impractical move, how many times has your car been in the shop? how much money have you sunk into it? how does it affect your ability to get around?
regardless, the issue is not the car and you should really think about how/why he feels that you complicate your life together and work on addressing that issue because buy the car or get it fixed, if the core issue remains unresolved, you will have more "fights" in the future.
if what you posted reflects birth times, you also have oppositions in your charts that could be at the root of some of the conflict. ie...
Challenging aspects: Moon square or opposition other person's Venus
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/moon_venus_aspects.html<BR>
Taking each other for granted and failing to give praise or acknowledgment for favors is an issue that you will have to deal with. Self-indulgence can also make life a bit difficult. Living beyond your means or seeking to keep up appearances will eventually create strain in your relationship. Take time to identify what's the most important value to strive for in any situation You will also learn how much to compromise and when it's too much, even for the sake of peace.
Although there is a natural appreciation and liking of each other, there will be times that you won't appreciate each other's habits. Or possibly your values are in conflict. Those will be difficult and frustrating times. You may feel undervalued or misunderstood by your partner. The affection is still there but you'll have to work on the breach or any damage to the self-esteem of your partner. It's important that you put effort into cherishing the good qualities that each of you have, even though they may be very different from your own. When you are in conflict make sure you don't disparage your partner just because you don't like their choices. Be sure to give credit where and when it is due. It's easy to take the good graces and support of your partner for granted but it does harm to the goodwill of your relationship, long term. The purpose of this aspect is to teach you cooperation, negotiation and compromise.
Moon square Moon
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html#Moon% 20square
This comparative combination makes it very hard for you to understand each other's moods and emotional responses. You may be from very different family and cultural backgrounds. Your moods are sort of out of phase, making it hard for you to do the same things at the same time. It's hard to see eye to eye on family, domestic, dietary, and financial affairs. If the Moons are in cardinal signs, you may act impulsively without consulting one another. If the Moons are in fixed signs, you may disagree over stubbornly held emotional attitudes and patterns. If the Moons are in mutable signs, you may feel nervous and irritable in each other's presence and will bring out unpleasant memories.
Challenging aspects: Moon square or opposition other person's Venus
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/moon_venus_aspects.html<BR>
Taking each other for granted and failing to give praise or acknowledgment for favors is an issue that you will have to deal with. Self-indulgence can also make life a bit difficult. Living beyond your means or seeking to keep up appearances will eventually create strain in your relationship. Take time to identify what's the most important value to strive for in any situation You will also learn how much to compromise and when it's too much, even for the sake of peace.
Although there is a natural appreciation and liking of each other, there will be times that you won't appreciate each other's habits. Or possibly your values are in conflict. Those will be difficult and frustrating times. You may feel undervalued or misunderstood by your partner. The affection is still there but you'll have to work on the breach or any damage to the self-esteem of your partner. It's important that you put effort into cherishing the good qualities that each of you have, even though they may be very different from your own. When you are in conflict make sure you don't disparage your partner just because you don't like their choices. Be sure to give credit where and when it is due. It's easy to take the good graces and support of your partner for granted but it does harm to the goodwill of your relationship, long term. The purpose of this aspect is to teach you cooperation, negotiation and compromise.
Moon square Moon
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html#Moon% 20square
This comparative combination makes it very hard for you to understand each other's moods and emotional responses. You may be from very different family and cultural backgrounds. Your moods are sort of out of phase, making it hard for you to do the same things at the same time. It's hard to see eye to eye on family, domestic, dietary, and financial affairs. If the Moons are in cardinal signs, you may act impulsively without consulting one another. If the Moons are in fixed signs, you may disagree over stubbornly held emotional attitudes and patterns. If the Moons are in mutable signs, you may feel nervous and irritable in each other's presence and will bring out unpleasant memories.
Tubby's right,and also both of your mars' are square the other's mercury,so you don't understand or care for the other's way of doing things.
I do see the binders though,that have kept you together.conjunct ascendants are a powerful thing,as well as mars and venus' both ways.
and even moon/venus and moon/moon.
All in all, if things have been as mellow thru the years as you depict....you're doing quite well.
But,you do need to get to the deeper issues if you can,because it sounds as though they are starting to fester.
I do see the binders though,that have kept you together.conjunct ascendants are a powerful thing,as well as mars and venus' both ways.
and even moon/venus and moon/moon.
All in all, if things have been as mellow thru the years as you depict....you're doing quite well.
But,you do need to get to the deeper issues if you can,because it sounds as though they are starting to fester.
"I don't really know what I did wrong".
Nothing. You did nothing wrong.
He suggested you buy a new car. You said you didn't want to - for valid reasons.
End of story.
Nothing wrong in that.
Let him sulk. He'll get over it.
As for him being angry - it's probably a whole pile of little things that have reached a head and it's come out during the car-talk session.
Nothing wrong with saying no. Everything wrong with being a rude angry person because you hear the word "No".
It's not a "gift", it's a huge whack of bloody debt for something you don't want and don't need.
Nothing. You did nothing wrong.
He suggested you buy a new car. You said you didn't want to - for valid reasons.
End of story.
Nothing wrong in that.
Let him sulk. He'll get over it.
As for him being angry - it's probably a whole pile of little things that have reached a head and it's come out during the car-talk session.
Nothing wrong with saying no. Everything wrong with being a rude angry person because you hear the word "No".
It's not a "gift", it's a huge whack of bloody debt for something you don't want and don't need.
Well, he just got home from work a few minutes ago. I'm trying to keep my composure for the kids but my heart is in my stomach. I don't know if he's over the fight or if he is still mad.
I guess there was more to the fight but I don't know what could've caused it. He expresseses other issues and irritations. I really don't know what the problem is.
Hopefully we can just talk this out and have wonderful makeup sex.
😢
I guess there was more to the fight but I don't know what could've caused it. He expresseses other issues and irritations. I really don't know what the problem is.
Hopefully we can just talk this out and have wonderful makeup sex.
😢
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Hi! I'm SaggiMom77.
I'm the mother of 3-year-old Taurus twins and a Taurus Husband. Living with a bunch of stubborn guys, I guess you could say I'm well acquainted with the sign of Taurus. Oh, I'm a Sag.
So, I've known my Taurus for over 24 years and we've been married for 10. We don't really argue. We're more prone to 'bickering'. Eventually one of us gives in (usually me, he's so damn STUBBORN) and we end the discussion. BUT, there are those rare moments when bickering escalates into talking loudly which transits into arguing which turns into a FULL BLOWN fight. I'm talking about one of those door-slamming, sleep-in-separate-rooms, ignore-each-others-existence the next day fights. I can count on my hand how many times we've had 'fights'. I can actually count on my hands how many times I've seen my Taurus actually get MAD. (And that's like 24 years of memory)
Yesterday, we fought, and today, he's ignoring me. No kiss goodbye. He just hugged the kids and left. (Ouch)
I really don't understand why he's so mad. My car is in the shop. Don't ask me what's wrong, I have no idea. So my Taurus suggested that I just get a new car. I asked "well is my car fixable" and he said that "it is fixable but what's the point of having it repaired constantly when I can just get a new one." The reason I'm so hesitant towards getting a new car is because I'm almost done paying it off. I have like 4 more payments and I'll be done. I find no point in quitting now and paying a whole new car note. I basically tell him no. I'll just get it fixed. Next thing I know he flies of the handle yelling that I'm ungrateful and how he's just trying to do something nice for me and how I make everything harder than it has to be. Now, I'm not the type to let a man just talk smack but I was scared! (Not scared as in he'll hurt me, he's not abusive, or stupid) I've never seen him so upset. He just stormed out of the house. Luckily he didn't wake up the kids. A few hours later he came home and slept in the guest bed room.
Now we're not talking. I'm not sure if I should apologize even though I really don't know what I did wrong. I'm actually a little shaken up by how rude and angry he was. I guess I'll see what he's like when he gets home.
You Bulls, y'all are somethin else.