Libranwoman1985
@Libranwoman1985
8 Years
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Looking for some insight. Recently met a Taurus man and confused by his actions. Will try to keep it as simple as possible.
We met about a month ago at a wedding. Hit it off right away, ended up spending a large portion of the night together. Didnt see each other again after that.
Fast forward to 10 days ago. I went to my friends house (bride and groom) and he was there. He was getting ready to leave when he saw me come in ended up staying a few more hours. We picked up where we left off and we're getting along well.
I was back there the next day and he ended up showing up after work. My kids were with me so he met them. They all got along so well it was almost eerie. We ended up staying late and spending the night there. Nothing sexual happened, we just enjoyed each others company. It was amazing... So many things in common, so much smiles and laughter, finishing each others sentences. Nothing I have ever experienced before.
The next day was my birthday, hosted at my friends house, he came again. He was extremely flirty with me all night. His intentions were obvious. Obvious enough that a friend stated she didn't realise I had a boyfriend lol everyone could see it. The party ended and he was the last one there with me. We stayed up until 3 am laughing, talking, eating spaghetti lol. It was just really good. Almost too good.....
I ended up sleeping with him. I have never moved so quickly with any man. It was intense. We didn't go to bed until 730 in the morning.
Next morning when we got up, he asked for my number, put it in his phone then we spent the day together. After parting ways we were texting often.
His replies were consistently within minutes and he asked lots of questions and was very friendly.
I decided to be brave and texted him saying " I like you.... Would love to get to know you better... I'm a slow mover but you definitely have my attention and I want to know more"
That was the exact moment his fast replies stopped. The moment he stopped initiating conversation. The moment he started ignoring my texts.
I was confused. Left it alone. 2 days later sent a message saying "getting a complex over here lol unsure if your silence means you're busy or the feelings are possibly not reciprocated. I'm OK either way just uncertain and don't want to be bothering you if there isn't mutual interest
Suddenly within a minute he replied. Said I'm so sorry been busy with work had a hectic day....
But nothing since and it's been nearly 48 hours since that message. Tried to initiate once more today, he's been online but hasn't replied. I'm really confused.
Being busy is one thing but ignoring someone comes across very different.
**disclaimer... I DO move slow lol I know it's hard to believe with him meeting my kids and me sleeping with him but I feel incredibly connected to this man. Never slept with a man before 6 months of dating before and my kids have only ever met 1 man part their father in the 7 years I've been single.