Why do Tauruses love teasing and sarcastic joking so much? Is this a way for them to "get out their feelings" without actually saying it?
Teasing
Sometimes it can be used to break the ice yeah. But mostly I've just noticed that I feel calmer and more stable when I can laugh at myself or around someone I like. When my sense of humour dies, I don't feel as good and it can really make me depressed or unhappy.
The teasing would merely to keep from things getting to dull and serious and the only time he would make such teasing and sarcasm 'cut' would be if he was mad, hurt or resentful.
If it bothers you just let him know, he can hopefully adjust - but if you can learn to laugh along with him at your little habits and faults without taking them personally (which is hard I know) you will be all the better for it.
The people I work around usually know there is a smartass sarcastic remark or something funny coming when I pull back a bit and smirk to myself with my eyes lit up 🙂
The teasing would merely to keep from things getting to dull and serious and the only time he would make such teasing and sarcasm 'cut' would be if he was mad, hurt or resentful.
If it bothers you just let him know, he can hopefully adjust - but if you can learn to laugh along with him at your little habits and faults without taking them personally (which is hard I know) you will be all the better for it.
The people I work around usually know there is a smartass sarcastic remark or something funny coming when I pull back a bit and smirk to myself with my eyes lit up 🙂
Well the guy that I'm talking to doesn't really make fun of me or himself so much as he just tries to act like I don't really mean anything to him. And I have to think that his actions show me that he likes me bc he will call me every night and talk to me for hours and hours, but he speaks to me as if I mean nothing to him. He always teases me about other girls that like him until the point that he realizes I'm actually getting upset. It's almost as if he wants to push my buttons sometimes.
"The teasing would merely to keep from things getting to dull and serious and the only time he would make such teasing and sarcasm 'cut' would be if he was mad, hurt or resentful... ...The people I work around usually know there is a smartass sarcastic remark or something funny coming when I pull back a bit and smirk to myself with my eyes lit up"
-LOL! That is so me! hahahahah My Virgo friend will sometimes tell me "Geez, you are the most sarcastic person I know!" I like to mess with him... but it's out of looooove 😛
It's a way to keep things light and fun 🙂 Sometimes I'm not sure if a guy means it when he says stuff like why I play with his feelings... I take it as a joke because I don't see why in the world he would say something like that... and right this second I just had the thought that maybe they have been interpreting what I say the wrong way!! .. or too literally lol And with that in mind I can see how someone who has feelings for you would be more sensitive to what you say right? Of course, freak, what a dumbass *slap myself*
... well up until they sit me down, look me in the eye and make some things clear hahahah "OHhhhhhhh I see now" lol
On a diff. note... lets not forget what we all learned in first grade. Teasing can be a clear sign of affection 🙂 Irregardless of the joke...
"..as he just tries to act like I don't really mean anything to him."
- Hmmm, well as a Taurus myself I really don't think he does it on purpose. I think he likes you. Sometimes we do it to hide our feelings. Sometimes to keep someone at a distance. But keep in mind that actions speak louder than words... and he is calling you, talking to you for hours rather than those other girls he mentions... =D I'm under the feeling you didn't notice when he wrapped himself around your pinky! lol
-LOL! That is so me! hahahahah My Virgo friend will sometimes tell me "Geez, you are the most sarcastic person I know!" I like to mess with him... but it's out of looooove 😛
It's a way to keep things light and fun 🙂 Sometimes I'm not sure if a guy means it when he says stuff like why I play with his feelings... I take it as a joke because I don't see why in the world he would say something like that... and right this second I just had the thought that maybe they have been interpreting what I say the wrong way!! .. or too literally lol And with that in mind I can see how someone who has feelings for you would be more sensitive to what you say right? Of course, freak, what a dumbass *slap myself*
... well up until they sit me down, look me in the eye and make some things clear hahahah "OHhhhhhhh I see now" lol
On a diff. note... lets not forget what we all learned in first grade. Teasing can be a clear sign of affection 🙂 Irregardless of the joke...
"..as he just tries to act like I don't really mean anything to him."
- Hmmm, well as a Taurus myself I really don't think he does it on purpose. I think he likes you. Sometimes we do it to hide our feelings. Sometimes to keep someone at a distance. But keep in mind that actions speak louder than words... and he is calling you, talking to you for hours rather than those other girls he mentions... =D I'm under the feeling you didn't notice when he wrapped himself around your pinky! lol
*under the impression
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im only sarcastic when im upset, i become a total smart ass.
i tease for ego boosts only.
i tease for ego boosts only.

I tease for many, many reasons.
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