Tell me about Taurus Man with Virgo Children.

My Bull has been making some comments about getting more time with my son.

dont ask me how long we have been together we are evolving naturally and wonderfully. but the intro with my son just happened about 4 months ago and its been limited time. we haven't really dont anything all together just manly hanging out. But He says he really hasn't gotten a lot of time, with him to really talk or have a conversation. mainly because im there, im obvious insecure about him and not wanting to scare him away with my child and all the things that come with having a sassy 8 year old son. but he said last night "when i get more time with him i do want to talk to him a little about you and i and him" he also mentioned "i just want him to know im his friend but i im not going to sugar coat things when he's not doing the right thing" - my son can be a bit of an asshole. We are not compatible signs so its been challenging.

i love my child and work really hard to give us a stable and respectable life and home, i also love my Taurus, he is everything i want and would love for us to evolve together in life. im at this point though in our relationship where my child has a lot of control of the relationship now. i just want them to mesh, i want to help guild that and i wanna to understand some of challenges i might come across in the process.

How my child feels and engages with my Taurus is big for me. big for any mom. i want my son to respect my Taurus, because i know my Taurus wants to be a good male influence on my child. but my Taurus seems so strong and stern already and is my son going to be able to adjust to that?



What can you tell me about?



Taurus Sun

Taurus Moon

Aries Mercury

Cancer Venus/Mars

Leo Jupiter

Aquarius in Saturn



Virgo Sun

Scorpio Moon

Virgo Mercury

Virgo Saturn

Cancer Mars

Virgo Venus

Aqu in Jupiter

seriously no one can help me understand this?

Posted by Fortuna
I don't have any experience with this, but with the info you presented. I would be cautious about anyone wanting to spend alone time with a child to 'talk.' For obvious reasons.

If the adult wants to win the child's confidence and respect, there will have to be opportunities for this to occur (not just some talk). The adult should lead by example, have patience, and actually be an adult. Spend quality time with the child, as in fishing or playing games or sports, going to events where there are learning opportunities science fair, or arts fair, or whatever the kid enjoys learning, but *always* in a group setting. If the child wants to talk to the adult, they will, setting alone time isn't necessary.

I think some "talk" won't convince a child, the adult actually has to invest time and show by actions, not by talking, that they're trustworthy and can be someone to look up to.

the pedo thing really bummed me out.

I know what yours saying but seriously that isn't it. im past that as ever being a possibility



but the rest, thank you. was really good advise.

my boyfriend has made comments about wanting to get to know ethan, that he really hasn't had that opportunity to pass the "my moms boyfriend" stage and cross over to "my Friday and moms boyfriend stage" - this is my first serious relationship since my split from my sons dad (4yrs ago) and the first person I have introduced to my son. I just need some guidance and understand on how A. how to make this transition and if there is any personality things I should know what the 2 of them.

SOS