The Drama Begins

Hi Taurus people I had previously posted here about my relationship with a taurus men with whom I have a child, you can click on my name to get more feedback. I am here to give an update and also ask the infamous question, why does it take a taurus men so long to make a move and when they do it too late, why wait so long. Me and the taurus had just been friends since the birth of our child in Nov I still had feelings wasn't sure about him so I let it go. I recently in January meet someone who I really adore a Sagg of all signs but I guess his pisces moon is what truly makes us a good couple. I just return home from Mexico, I told the taurus I was going out to town I gave my mom his number in case of emergency so he texts me while I am out of town and says, "Send me a pic of you so I can store it in my phone" OK no problem so I did just a regular pic, he texts back "no a sexy pic, like the ones you had in your phone before just ones of me dress up in a short dress or whatever. so I respond why? you don't deserve to see all this sexiness that is me just playing with him a little he respsond and I quote " I desire to see it all, Like I have before" I respond and maybe I shouldnt that yes, you have seen it all before but that was a while ok, If I remember I will send you a pic when I have time no response from him and this all happen yesterday. No texts from him today and I think I will just leave it alone and act like it never happen or do you taurus people think I should respond or say something. the thing is I now have this guy I like and if I respond to the taurus what if those feeling comes back and I am not a two timer person only one man at a time so I am kinda stuck one side is like keep seeing the sagg and just continue to be a co-parent relationship, the other side is like call him find out what this is about and maybe there can be another chance so confuse I guess I should just let it all play it self out which it will eventually.

I think you are right Bella, I need to just be very upfront with him and let him know.

Purpledot, you have made a very good point he took me for granted all those months and althought I still haves some feelings I think I can forgive for the sake of our daugther but I will never forget and it wouldn't be a healthly relationship for that reason. I do though feel like there was so many things left unsaid and for once I would like to put everything on the tables our feeling, regrets, etc and just be over the past and all the negativity that took place. I think that is the big issues CLOSURE I yearn for that.

Thats why I love taurus people, you give great advice and always make sense. I think like you said when we both moved on that was closure before I didnt think of it that way, when I talk to him I will defintely ask those question but as I have been thinking about this situation, my life is great right now and any changes would just cause drama and bull shit in my life.

Well it happen, I slept with my daugther father it kinda just happen We were talking flirting to each other which was partly my faught I started the conversation but innocently enough and now I feel really bad only becuase I like the Sagg. Now that I got that outta my system and it wasn't the same after so long of being apart I feel that now I really know the Sagg is where I want to be.

@Bella EXACTLY, I had to get that feeling or yarning for him out of my system but I hope that doesn't make me a bad person OH well, what the Sagg doesnt know want hurt him it was only and will only be that one time.

Well it happen again, and this time it was GREAT. I gotta figure out how to turn off that attraction I think it is too strong and it doesnt help that I havent really been spending time with the Sagg becuase of his busy schedule.

Bella you are so right it is bigger than ALL THREE OF US and it is only getting worse. I still like the Sagg, I still communicate with him I know he likes me a lot and this makes me feel so bad. The taurus he is just being very persistent with his actions of course not words you know how bull men can be all actions and little words shall I say. This weekend he text me wanted to hang out and I told him okay he was watching that mayweather fight and was taking to long I told him I would see him Sun cause I was getting ready to go to a Birthday party he had the nerves to get upsate and say I suck in a joking way and that I haven't change yes this kinda piss me off so whatever I went out I told him I would text him when I was on my way home so needless to say he text me first and we meet up at my house after both of out parties I am sure you all know what happen next but I know soon I have to make a decision about this situation I havent seen the sag and we are meeting Thursday to go out so I will see how that goes but I just feel torn with the bull it's just a connection just something that I thought I was over the only problem with him is it took him so damn long a year and now he wants to really try to make something out of our relationship he hasn't said anything yet but I can tell by his action it's coming just by the constant texting and keeping in contact and the saying I haven't change like he is leading to something. The Sagg even though we havent seen each other in a like a month he talks about marriage and gets angry when I don't call him, I just don't want to hurt either or lead either on so I hope this month will give me the chance to see what they both are made off and who will be the best for me and with the bull he is going to have to open up a little more so I can figure out if we want the same thing, my plan is I will not be alone with him so his eyes can't seduce me until I figure out what to do.