Touchy-Feely Taurus woman with my Leo partner

Hey, this Taurus female colleague has started to act strange around my Leo. She is getting married this summer to a younger Cancerian boy but when she is around my husband she is touching his legs, his arms while sitting next to him and talking to him. When I noticed that, in a subtle way, I changed my place and I sat closer to her and I tried to do the same to her. But she backed off and seemed distant. She didnt' touch me back.

She is also smiling and licking her necklace while looking at my partner. Her body language gives all the hints that a website '10 ways to understand if she is attracted' would indicate. When he is not around, she asks about him (even about his sign).

And she was supposed to be MY friend!!! I introduced her and her Cancerian partner to my Leo after having spent some time with her and she acting like a good friend.

Once she asked me about our sex life and complained about hers. I didn't wanna say anything at first but then I told her about my anorgasmia. I didn't see her for a while. Then, she came to my city for two weeks and all these apparently 'flirtatious behaviour' started.

She always told me how she was touchy-feely and she was getting along with males rather than females when she was in her 20s. (She is 34 now). She told me she had three best friends who were male. Then, she ended up sleeping with each of them and after finding out about this, they accused her of being a cookiemonster.

Now I am really intrigued. Is she (subsciously maybe) attracted to my Leo or is she just super friendly with him? As a moon in taurus (sun in cappy), I am aware that I am an insecure, possessive and jealous type. So, I don't want to do injustice to her but my gutt say I should beware.. what do you say??

"She is also smiling and licking her necklace while looking at my partner. "

LOL! Whoah!

If a Taurus is looking at you (or anyone else)and licking something....there is delight in store for someone. 😕
Seriously,I'd only tease my man like that...not someone elses.
Heck,I ran in to walmart last night to get a thingamajig.I got in line behind this younger couple and as the woman was unloading their cart,the guy kept looking at me.she knew he was trying to look at me...and it made me pretty uncomfortable.
he did the corner of the eye trick...the butterfly watcher trick....and then the hit and run trick.he REALLY wanted to make eye contact,lol.
he was not unattractive,but he belongs to someone else.I live by the do unto others rule,even with strangers.
I'm not even going to make eye contact with someone who I know is unavailable,and I'm damn sure not going to flirt and hurt some woman's feelings...friend nor stranger.

"Now I am really intrigued. Is she (subsciously maybe) attracted to my Leo"

My opinion...she has a Leo moon or rising. 😉

"She told me she had three best friends who were male. Then, she ended up sleeping with each of them "
I would not trust her as far as I could spit....especially since you (mistakenly imo),told her of your ao.

Thanks Bella, she is very Extroverted. So, you might be right. She might have a Leo rising. I am lucky that my Leo does not find her attractive and told me that he felt uncomfortable (even 'sexually harassed') by her touchy-feeliness. He agrees that we need to keep distance with her. I am sure that she does not represent all the Taurus ladies but her subconscious is so apparent. She cannot hide it (or maybe does not even bother to). Last year, she said unconsciously 'nippls' (instead of nibbls) and 'blwjob' (instead of blwdry) during a daily conversation with a male colleague which she thought was attractive (although she was together with her cancerian at that time). Ther is somt wrong with her and I am really sorry to lose such a great working partner 😢

😢

Sounds like she either has really low self esteem,or she's a sex-aholic :/

that's a shame.maybe you can talk to her about it,as a friend?

I dunno :/ She has self-esteem issues for sure. But if I try to talk to her, I am sure she will go defensive and accuse me of seeing her friendliness as seductiveness. I am not a poker face so the last time I met her, I was cold and distant. She told me she was feeling some wall erecting between me and her but she was still very much interested in my Leo. Asking questions about him. My Leo is now in the city where she lives with her Cancerian for two weeks.

As an explanation for the 'wall' thing, I said I was feeling down lately and was feeling super jealous about women approaching my guy. She did not take it personal tho. She told me she would watch him very closely!!! I did say nothing but of course called my Leo to say that he should avoid her.

buy him a big can of mace.

LoL :-)) I just remembered that her rising is Capricorn, not Leo. Maybe her moon sign is, who knows :/ Bella, do you think I should send her an email to back off before she turns back to her city and starts to call my partner? or should I let my Leo avoid her for some time until she gives up on us?

Coming from a Leo, i bet ur Leo loves that female attention, BUT he needs to man up and tell that girl to back off because its really disrespectful to both of u. And you can tell her to go touch her own man damnit! i would ;p lol

Yes. "Let's get something straight my little flower, that there is my chew toy. I will thank you not to touch him. If you feel you cannot control yourself, why, I'll help you out some."

Posted by delishhh
Coming from a Leo, i bet ur Leo loves that female attention, BUT he needs to man up and tell that girl to back off because its really disrespectful to both of u. And you can tell her to go touch her own man damnit! i would ;p lol

yepp my gutt feeling says so too. But he is not genuinely interested in her because she is not reeally that pretty. But my insecure soul is wondering what happens if the next one is pretty 😢

venusianbull, I loved your little letter LOL

😄

"But my insecure soul is wondering what happens if the next one is pretty "

and that is the heart of the matter.

has he ever given you reason to not trust him?

Posted by BellatheBull
"But my insecure soul is wondering what happens if the next one is pretty "

and that is the heart of the matter.

has he ever given you reason to not trust him?

NOPE. he is hundred per cent clean, honest, angel.

that taurus girl does not get it. Both me and my partner are avoiding her. Luckily she did not call him (yet) as you know they are at the same city now. She sent me today a short FB message asking if I was feeling better (assuming that I was down lastly). I did not respond. Should I avoid contact (the 'disappearing' act the tauruses love?) in order to avoid drama? should I give another hint by posting on FB a text like 'how to understand your friend has crush on your partner?'
would she get the hint and back off? or should i really be explicit and confront her?

It depends on how good of a friend you consider her,Darlin'.
If you want to just be done and get rid of her...ignore her.
If you want to be sure she absolutely understands how you feel,what you feel,and why you feel it...you're going to have to (wo)man up and just be honest and open.
by doing the later...you are going to find out how good a friend she is,because she will either(A) Feel terrible about her actions/perceived actions and appalogize and never do it again...or (B)Keep doing it,because she's not a friend...OR (C)
Think WTFFFFFFFFF? I'm just doing me and this insecure woman is thinking I'm trying to steal her man?

In any of those scenarios if she is a real friend/decent person she is going to start watching herself very closely around your Leo,and giving neither of you any reason to wonder or worry.

I don't have time to figure out people's hints and silent treatment(games/drama)...if you are mad at me or unsure of me in some way,just come out and be open and honest.
Sure,if I feel I'm being misjudged or wrongfully accused...it's gonna piss me off,and you are going to know it.but,it's all out in the open that way,everyone has an idea of what's going on and a fair chance to deal with it.

*snort*
look at the way I spelled apologize....lol.
To much crack in ma coffee this morning. 🙂

Posted by BellatheBull
*snort*
look at the way I spelled apologize....lol.
To much crack in ma coffee this morning. 🙂

Thanks a lot Bella! It seems that I am going to follow your first suggestion. I am gonna ignore her because she won't be physically around me or husband (because she is getting married and has already moved to another country).
She and I had some ideas like writing a project together. If she sends me an email, she will ve very surprised how I already disappeared. I hate dramas (moon in taurus). So, I won't confront her. I already confided in her my little crushes. She might use them against me to get to my hubby :/ So, the best seems to keep quiet (and ignore her emails) until she figures out that we don't want to hear from her again. my hubby did already delete her from his FB friends list. I feel bad by cutting it off like that (without explanation) but unfortunately she caused/deserved it.

just a quick note. i found her chart. her venus is in aries and her moon in aquarius