Taurus-Leo— HELP

Oh yeah, I have read other post about Leo's being hot/cold...my leo hasn't disappeared on me yet, the longest we've gone without talking is 2 days....is that a good thing or should I expect that to change? I'm just trying to play it cool....

Being a bull we tend to push, and push, when we want something to go our way so its very difficult for me to understand leos and how much I should and shouldn't contact him. He will tell me he will call me back and when he doesn't...I don't call him either, then he'll pop out of the blue and say where have you been? Why didn't you call? I'm too confused.....................I'm used to getting MY WAY!!! UGHHHHHHHHHHHH

Hey msmonae - I did get your pm and responded; however, my browser closed when sent, so hopefully you received it so I don't have to type all of that up again.

As I put in the PM, me and my Leo are no longer, but I did learn A LOT about myself from that relationship. One thing I will say is that both Taurus and Leo have huge egos! Check yours at the door if you want to make this work. Now, with that being said, that does NOT mean being a door mat, or allowing him to boss you around (they can be arrogant such and suches 🙂) It means that if you are feeling something about/for him, let him know. I kept my emotions very much in check the whole time we were together because I didn't want to be "that kind of woman (needy, over emotional, etc)", but by the time I opened up (mind you, this was after like almost 3 years) - it was too late. There was a major factor that led to our demise, and as much as I wish I could say I wish I'd never been involved with him, it was an invaluable learning experience, and I can never lose that. Your Leo has the same b/d as my ex-Leo, so I can say from experience with my Leo, he did NOT ever lie, and I appreciated that more than anything. If he said something, he meant it. He was playful and everything, but if you wanted to know something and asked him, he would tell you the truth. So, if you have a thin skin, tread very lightly with that, as he probably will be brutally honest about things, and they don't expect the same thing, they DEMAND the same thing in turn. They don't want a lot of BS around them in matters of the heart. My Leo liked my confidence, independence, self sufficiency and fact that I had my own life and didn't wait around for him. BUT, he hated the fact that I was still very close with my ex-fiance, and that I have a lot of male friends. Sorry, but I don't give up my friends for anybody; especially not a man! Friendship is priceless - men come and go. Also, if you are around his family and friends (as I was too with my ex- Leo, and he would make a BIG deal about that) it does mean a lot, because just like us Taureans, we don't let a lot of people around our inner sanctum unless we really like them (well, I know I don't), and Leos from my limited experience, are the same way.

Good luck!

Thanks for the responses tiffanyrose & USCTaurusGal....and @ taurusgal sorry to hear that but I do agree if my situation ends up similar to yours it will be a learning experience for me..this is my first experience with a fire sign, and boy oh boy he has me hot! lol

But I mean what about the mixed signals? I mean do either of you have any advice about that? I'm really confused and trying to figure him out...

I don't think they look at it as mixed messages; they are just doing their thing. I didn't get many mixed messages per se from my Leo experience, but that's because I was also doing my own thing. I'll say that they appear to be "in the moment" type of creatures. They don't think about every single thing that they are doing at every moment of the day. They are simply - living their life. If he says he wants you to be a part of his life, he does, but remember that's on HIS timetable, which may not be yours. They will NOT be rushed/bullied/coerced or put into an ultimatum situation, and if they feel backed against a wall, they will pounce; stroll off; lick their wounds (if any) and then come back later to check on the carnage. Also, if you want to know something, don't beat around the push or play passive aggressive types of games - just ask him, and when he tells you, just believe it, unless you find reasons (later) to disbelieve what he has told you. I wouldn't say make yourself less available, I would simply say for you to live your life. If he calls and you want to go out with him - do it. If he calls and you want to go out with him, but you have other plans - go on your other plans. He may sulk a little because he didn't get his way, but ultimately, he will gain a higher ground of respect for you too. They don't like to feel pinned down, remember, Lions are roamers. They like to do their thing, and then come back to their den of solitude. That's another thing, my ex-Leo was VERY friend and family oriented, and he would do anything for them. Yours probably is similar, in that his friends opinion of you means a lot. I don't know exactly how long you have been seeing one another, or if you are in an exclusive relationship with one another, but I wouldn't take anything for granted, and unless you are in a committed, exclusive relationship, don't be surprised if he is seeing others. Not that I'm saying that's a bad thing, but if you are looking for an exclusive relationship, and he isn't then it will not be, because he likely will not do anything he doesn't feel like doing - until he feels like doing it.

Posted by Ike 2.0
"They will NOT be rushed/bullied/coerced or put into an ultimatum situation, and if they feel backed against a wall, they will pounce; stroll off; lick their wounds (if any) and then come back later to check on the carnage"

The predator cannot be bullied by the prey 😛

Hmmm...I don't know; there is a lot of bullying that can take place w/the right outfit, candles, liquor and a box'o'toys! LOL.

Quit coming in here riling us bulls up 😉

Thank you soooo sooo much for all the words of wisdom, and encouragement....i will apply them and come back with an update! 🙂

Posted by Ike 2.0
Haha Ms Monae did you curse me out or something 😛


"That's hot."

I knew you would get me 🙂

Not at all...I could never do that to a leo 🙂 lol

Update...

Ok so I have taken all of your great advice and....last light we had a 2 and a half hour long convo, and he told me that he likes having me around, and really likes me, and would like to see where things go "in time" but right now he is just "doing him"...ok thats fine, as I will do the same....

Fellow tauruses....do you find it hard to ignore the person that you like? I'm trying to catch on to this whole leo game thing...lol if it were up to me it would be on and poppin' everyday/night if you catch my drift (wink wink)...anyway I'm just trying to play everything cool and not be too clingy but not ignore him to the point where he feels as though I am not serious about what we're trying to build on...

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
what's your moon and venus Ms.? I'm always curious to know.

Well I'm still learning this astrology, and what it means but I am a capricorn rising, my Moon is in Sagittarius and Venus in Aries....so...what does all that mean? lol

Posted by MsMonae

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
what's your moon and venus Ms.? I'm always curious to know.

Well I'm still learning this astrology, and what it means but I am a capricorn rising, my Moon is in Sagittarius and Venus in Aries....so...what does all that mean? lol

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Can Anyone Give Me Some Insight— lol