Understanding the Bull (Taurus Male}

Sorry its lengthy, but I just need truth in all this

**** Round One ****
When I first met my Taurus I was distant with him. All his feelings we're taken lightly by me. He was very passionate, and persistent. Time drew on and he was a bundle of feelings when it came to me. He'd always ask to Glide, or Skype. We'd talk from day til dawn texting, or even talking over the phone.

"Baby, I miss you. I love you. When can I see you?" He'd always initiated wanting to see me. He would even get upset with me when I wouldn't openly show emotion, or compassion. We argued a lot about that.

Eventually I started to like him. We finally went out on a movie date. He was distant with me, but loving all at the same time. Does he like me or not? I wondered. The following two days after that he was even more distant. His responses were less, and even on one day in particular he disappeared on me for the entire day.

Out of fear of being played with by him, I told him "I don't see a purpose in us." with that he asked why over, and over again. I didn't bother to explain. I was done with the situation or so I thought..

I regretted. He ignored my attempts to talk,and I even apologized for leaving so coldly. Finally my "pestering" got me somewhere, and he agreed to see me. Upon seeing me everything sort of went back to how it was. He even cuddled with me that same day.


*** Round Two ****
Now I am open with everything I feel for him. Its good times when we are together, but when we are apart he's distance, sometimes responding quickly, sometimes not at all, or it's a several hour delay.

When I last saw him he needed me for a ride, but he thanked me sincerely. We kissed about three times. He was sweet, and gentle.

After parting he goes back to this distant fellow. If it matters about a week ago he said, "I love you." has not said it sense though.

I finally got fed up with his distant, his confusion, and the cat and mouse game. I sent him a LONG text telling him EVERYTHING I felt for him. The good, and bad. I even said "Can I just fuck you, and leave?" I honestly wanted to see if that was ALL he wanted.

He says "Nah,that's a bad idea. I think we should probably just be friends at this point." I told him I couldn't be a friend to him, and he was cold about it saying "Cool." so finally he says "My heart is non existent right now, I apologize for hurting you if I have. I cant be romantically involved. It would be better if we were just "cool"

Also by the way;

I agreed. We had a small conversation and like always he dissappered on me. I haven't said anything to him all day, and neither has he.


To be fair, when we first met he was doing well. NOW his financial situation is terrible, his dad is sick, and he just lost his car. He never really asks me for anything though. This may be the culprit, but I don't know if I should stick around truly, he barely talks to me as it is, do I still see him? I care and he knows that if nothing else. I don't know what to do.

Posted by BeaCancer91


*** Round Two ****
Now I am open with everything I feel for him. Its good times when we are together, but when we are apart he's distance, sometimes responding quickly, sometimes not at all, or it's a several hour delay.

When I last saw him he needed me for a ride, but he thanked me sincerely. We kissed about three times. He was sweet, and gentle.

After parting he goes back to this distant fellow. If it matters about a week ago he said, "I love you." has not said it sense though.

I finally got fed up with his distant, his confusion, and the cat and mouse game. I sent him a LONG text telling him EVERYTHING I felt for him. The good, and bad. I even said "Can I just fuck you, and leave?" I honestly wanted to see if that was ALL he wanted.

Is this your first time dealing with a Taurus man?!?!? It sounds like it.... It also sounds like you have no patience at all. Dealing with a Taurus man takes a great deal of patience and time. Him not contacting you in an hour or more doesn't mean that he does not care. I am quite sure he has a life, right? You blew off the handle for something as simple as him not getting back to you when you wanted him to? No Bueno. Taurus men do not like conflict, nor do they like to be disrespected! They won't accept it at all! You showed him your true colors by reacting in this manner.

He says "Nah,that's a bad idea. I think we should probably just be friends at this point." I told him I couldn't be a friend to him, and he was cold about it saying "Cool." so finally he says "My heart is non existent right now, I apologize for hurting you if I have. I cant be romantically involved. It would be better if we were just "cool"

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...hence the reason he up and ran away from you.... You're a cancer just like I am, right? I am dating a Taurus man. You have to be very gentle and understanding with them. This is what they are attracted to. They do not like hot headed women who can not control their emotions. They also do not like to be told what to do and how to do it. Use your femininity and gift of persuasion to get what you want from them. But you also got to have PATIENCE!!! Now, I would suggest waiting for a Taurus man or women to tell you how you can recover from this mishap, because I have no clue. And like most men, when Taurus men don't have everything in order (including their

.... (including their finances and family drama) they are not ready to dive into something with great responsibility like a relationship. Especially one where the chick (that would be you) sounds super needy and clingy and needs his attention 24/7. Don't be the "clingy cancer" type. But I wish you the best of luck 🙂

Thank you dear. Yes I am a cancer, and its my first time.

I actually never blew off the handle for him missing in action. Never have I said "Why aren't you responding." There would be times he'd apologize at length for his disappearing acts "I'd say I understand. You have a life." That would be that, and we'd carry on with conversation.

Its rare that I blow up,I actually am very good at keeping my cool, but I blew up on him because he always brushes of how I feel, I will tell him how I feel, and he wont ignore it, but he wont directly talk about them either, they get brushed off to the side, and I get pissed, and we argue.

This actually happened yesterday. I told him how I felt about him

Argument... I shut up about it.. HOURS later he says "Are you done being extra?"

I blew up with that long text telling, i love you, and why I do..


this is the only time i blew up, but I can understand his distance now just by looking back at situation, I don't know what a Taurus will say, but i think i just need to give him time..hes got a lot on his plate, and I'm making the load heavier..by doing this..he will get back in touch with me if and when he wants to.

Im just wondering what actions are correct..

Support. Understanding . Patience. Consistency. Drop by quick messages and never expect a response. when he comes around say sincere messages and thanks him for coming around n that you are happy for his return . He's busy with things right now and it seems like while you are going on an emotional ride he is weighting things up thinking whether or not you can be that woman he needs. Emotionally strong? Can you be together in the long run ? What kind of mother would you be? All that logic stuff.., We are strange, if we don't see potentials for long lasting relation most likely we will put our feelings aside and move on .

Posted by SunTauVenGem
Support. Understanding . Patience. Consistency. Drop by quick messages and never expect a response. when he comes around say sincere messages and thanks him for coming around n that you are happy for his return . He's busy with things right now and it seems like while you are going on an emotional ride he is weighting things up thinking whether or not you can be that woman he needs. Emotionally strong? Can you be together in the long run ? What kind of mother would you be? All that logic stuff.., We are strange, if we don't see potentials for long lasting relation most likely we will put our feelings aside and move on .

Very true!