Dating a Taurus

This is my story,
I met this taurus guy online more than a year ago, he chased me for 5 months, we finally went on meeting eachother last May, (he lives in another country) before we met we didn't communicate very often, when we did via email it was all day, then weeks, months, nothing.. I didn't mind since i had never met him i didn't wanted to attach alot of feeling to it.. He told me he wanted me, he feels love for me etc etc, when i met him he couldn't take his eyes of me, he was a little quiet, which i didn't mind.. We had a lovely walk through his city, he wanted to get a drink at this establishament, i didn't, then there was a miscommunication were i thought we were going to leave and he thought we were going to get a drink, i left without saying anything, because i thought he would come with me.. Which wasn't the case and i got upset and took a cab to my hotel.. I told him i didn't liked it he didn't took me back to the hotel (it was very late after midnight) he said "how could you leave like this?" Next morning he says "after leaving me alone with 2 beer, i've had enough" and "it's not for me" i was quiet shocked since i just got there and had another 2 days which we planned to spent together.. I tried to make him meet me again while i was there, it didn't work.. He later emailed if i got home save and "i don't think we should be in contact anymore" i explained alot of my decision that night, it didn't help, it's 3 months ago now.. I tried calling him in june and a few days back, he answered and hangs up before i could say anything.. I really do like this man, did i screw up for good? Some astrological info: i'm libra sun with venus in scorpio conjunct my asc, he has sun, mars and venus in taurus, our moons are air, gemini (me) and he's aquarius. I do not know his rising.. Any advice is welcome

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Venus in Scorpio strikes again... We do love our little 'obsessions'!

Always obsessing over people we think we like but if we just cleared the crap from our eyes and actually questioned our feelings to see if they're genuine then we'd realise there's no merit to them and they're not justified at all.

Please think of ten genuine things you like about this guy and why you like him. I doubt you have three that stem from reality, the other seven will be figments and fabrications courtesy of your head... And Venus in Scorpio...

What you just said Agent makes a lot of sense to me with what I'm going through with my Taurus. I was wondering why I felt like I was obsessing and it's my Venus in Scorpio. I need to read up on that cause I've never felt this strongly about anyone. My Taurus doesn't treat me bad or anything and requires space just like me.

He chased me last year for 5 months, messaging me he's in love, etc, i thought it was a creep, when we started talking i started to like him, both our lives were a little fucked up last year to meet so we decided this year. I left him alone after his email, i called him only twice in 3 months, i'm allready getting over him. Thanks for reply guys!

Posted by cancergoddess143
?!?! This story is pretty self explanatory... He is not interested in you anymore! You should really consider moving on. He won't even answer your calls then when he does he hangs up in your face. Come on now! Get the hint! He even emailed you and told you that you both should not talk anymore. And you claim that he was chasing you for 5 month?!?!? I highly doubt that given the fact that you clearly stated that from the beginning your communication with him deteriorated over the 5 month period. My questions is, why would you travel to another country to meet a man who only answered your emails once or twice a month?

It sounds like he wasn't all that into you from the beginning given the fact that due to a SINGLE miss-communication he said "F@# $ IT" and did not want to talk to you anymore. If he was really interested in you he would have never dropped you like a hot tamale just after one miss-communication.
I am sure you are not going to get the advice of "Oh, just be patient" or "don't worry, he will come around". Sorry, but this Taurus man is avoiding you like the plague. Wish you the very best of luck at moving on with your life.

He chased me last year for 5 months, messaging me he's in love, etc, i thought it was a creep, when we started talking i started to like him, both our lives were a little f*cked up last year to meet so we decided this year. I left him alone after his email, i called him only twice in 3 months, i'm allready getting over him. Thanks for reply!

luckysky,

I don't like meeting a guy online. Sure is... it's different.

Taurus folks loves a love that grows Organically. Meeting Naturally. from time to time seeing you and

spending time with you and knowing you maybe there is still hope for investing slowly emotion...

But hey, I guess you made him turned by just leaving and did not say anything because of *I thought*

assumptions. lol

Noonie,

I'm Venus in Scorpio so I recognised the possible main issue straight away, aside from the fact this guy clearly is just not that into the lady who posted.

I have found myself obsessing over people over the years and it can be pretty bad. Then when I wake up and smell the coffee I think 'he wasn't that nice anyway!' Or I think 'wtf did I like about this dude—' Usually we like the IDEA of something or someone before we genuinely like the person etc. It's a bad habit but if we can recognise this then it's easier to deal with.

I have found myself obsessing over my own Taurus man. The stark reality at the time when I met him was that I thought he was nice, good fun etc but I was happy to walk away and not look back (circumstances were a little different) so I like to remind myself of that when my obsessing gets too much!

KittyKnitter,

wow. so how's the relationship going within 6 yrs? keep chatting?

You lived together or what? just curious. Married with him now? 6 yrs is too much if not married.