What do you need for reassurance?

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Shy_Taurus
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Most important for me is reliability.

If we text even once every day or two but then I go three days without hearing. But if you still have a few dates up your sleeve or a FWB you need two phones and only give me number for one and leave it at home.. Because if I don't see or hear from you on Friday my imagination will start wondering and I will be a texting pest while you are having wild crazy sex with FWB. I will try to be mature and the more reliable you are the more I can deal with reality. That's what I keep telling myself.
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Posted by Shy_Taurus

Most important for me is reliability.

If we text even once every day or two but then I go three days without hearing. But if you still have a few dates up your sleeve or a FWB you need two phones and only give me number for one and leave it at home.. Because if I don't see or hear from you on Friday my imagination will start wondering and I will be a texting pest while you are having wild crazy sex with FWB. I will try to be mature and the more reliable you are the more I can deal with reality. That's what I keep telling myself.


Thanks for this. This is interesting because I have been not wanting to bombard him with contact but clearly you need regular contact. Because I am always initiating it that’s why I spread it out a bit. To be fair he always talks A LOT when I call tells me everything that’s happening, where he is going and who with. I’m just not used to initiating it all that’s all.

Do you tend to hold off a bit and let the person come to you until you’re sure?