Posted by borzoiPosted by sweetpea2977
Tell his ass to 'Man Up'! His procrastinating ass has a lot of nerve!
He should be giving you a portion of his check since his ass can't carry his own weight 😒
This dude takes criticism like how a vending machine takes wrinkly dollars..
He gets super defensive and denies everythingclick to expand
Posted by AbbyNormal
Here’s the deal, if you aren’t emotionally mature enough to distinguish feelings of intimacy and sexual feelings there is your problem and it won’t end here. The grass is always greener so to speak so you really need to connect with what you are grateful for in your current relationship. You can have deep meaningful friendships with the opposite sex but there must be a clear line or you would be in a sexual relationship. Does he express sexual interest, or does he simply appreciate your intimate friendship as you seem to his? These are the kinds of things you have to ask yourself to make wise decisions for your life. Are you the type of person who can have a completely platonic yet intimate (meaning deep and meaningful) relationship with someone of the opposite sex? Are you serious in your current relationship and up front with your friend? If you are even considering leaving your current guy, you probably need some time alone to sort your feelings and priorities out. There has to be real love and trust in a relationship to have friends of the opposite sex and not cause problems.
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStorm
When you say you “came across this guy” while you were in a committed relationship, so you mean at the time you initially met him you were already involved with your boyfriend? Or did you know him prior to getting in a relationship with your longterm partner?
😁 giggle at your detective Scorpio probing
I don’t understand some people. Lol setting themselves up for failure then wondering why butter happens the way it does.
It would be one thing if she had developed feelings for this guy BEFORE she committed to her longterm partner. But the way she makes it sound, she was already committed when she met the guy but still exchanged contact information and became chummy with the new guy behind the back of her boyfriend and she’s now surprised that she can’t focus on her relationship. 🤨 you don’t sayyyy 🤔😒click to expand
Posted by ELIGABPosted by sweetpea2977
Well I've only known one with three boys. I witnessed her hard-heartedness towards them. No hugs or kisses. No 'I love you'. Just, anger. Screaming, swearing, acting crazy 🤦 She was a piece of work. Would kiss and hug on a dude before loving on her children. But would wonder why they'd act out. Hmm. She was good at keeping a clean home though and food on the table 🙄
That's my grandmother... all she ever cared about was money and raised one successful Taurus that just as cold hearted as she is. The both only care about how much money you're worth and what you can bring to the table.... Matter fact my grandmother married my cap grandfather for money with a 30 year age difference.
My best friend had a baby with a cap lady and she already had previous children she couldn't take care of. Like she kept having children to keep the men around.
With that being said my mother never gave out any hugs or kisses due to being raised by two caps that only cared about social status
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Posted by Havoc077Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by Havoc077Posted by sweetpea2977
Men will do ANYTHING to get between a woman's legs. Anything. Please don't be so naive.
Yes. It's typical of a dude to have "game" and finesse a woman's panties off 🙄 He knew he could have sex w you within 30 days. Now that he has, the mystery and anticipation has decreased.
Some of you girls/woman do TOO MUCH, too soon. Then when things change you then wonder why. I don't get it.
This butter ain't true though. I've straight up had sex with a girl I met within a WEEK and was ready to set the foundation for a relationship right then and there. I don't think withholding sex changes much - in fact. I would say withholding sex does nothing but teach a man how to game harder. The more a fuccboi invests into getting your pusspuss the harder he will try. The fuccboy thirst does not simply cease, if anything, it grows because you've now identified yourself as 'hard to get' which only feeds into their ego more.
Have sex with who you want to, when you want to - just know that people have varying levels of patience for game and you gotta have DISCRETION and note the nuance in behaviors for each one.
Do you date dudes?
If you don't have experience in that department, then who are you to say that this isn't true? It is, on MANY levels.
Withholding sex doesn't equate to "playing hard to get" necessarily as much as it can SIMPLY mean, lets set a foundation without the sexual distractions.
If the f---boy mentality doesn't cease THAT is all the more reason why dudes NEED to be screened and understood before a woman gives so much to him without him even trying.
I can only imagine why you are defensive about this.
Btw, meeting someone within a weeks time and deciding to "set a foundation right then and there" is crazy as hell. (How much do you KNOW about someone to want to "set" anything? 🤔) Which is EXACTLY my point. No offense.
First off, I don't have to date dudes, I am a guy - raised around five other guys. Since you want to come at people crazy, let me set you straight because the only person here that's defensive is you, projecting your disgusting beliefs at people and attacking them for telling you the truth - you can't judge someone's character solely based on their sexual proclivities.
I can only imagine what a sad bitter betty you are IRL since it's clear this isn't even about a woman choosing to screw who she wants, it's about you being able to attack men. Your assertion was garbage, you made a sweeping, generalizing statement about men and that is my problem with your post. Women that end up taking your ratchet ass advice end up holding out on sex and STILL get played.
Amazing that you think you have any right to attack my character when you're the one with serious baggage regarding men. Pack it up Mrs. Butthurt nobody wants to hear your butter anymore. I feel sorry for you having internalized misogynism so much. Yes, 'giving it up too quickly' is rooted in misogyny and slut-shaming, dare I explain that to you too?click to expand
Posted by Arielle83
Sorry, but you are way too treetrunking easy.
You and her both want what you can’t have.
She didn’t want you when she could have you.
Now you’re serious with a live in family and all of a sudden she’s in “love” with you?
Don’t tell me it’s real because it isn’t.
She just got wet knowing you could crawl like a cookiemonster to her.
You just cheated. She’s saying she loves you after 2 weeks. How the treetrunk could she love you? She just talked random love bomb bs to see if she could take you from another.
You don’t feel anything for your live in gf, so you’re treetrunking her and her daughter long term. She could be with someone that actually could love her and protect her.
That isn’t you.
Go with the second chick because you will see her act snd game ends once she sees you are serious.
Might as well dump them both.
It’s a game