Posted by Vicktoria
No, you're not wrong and he's a loudmouth jerk for not respecting the relationship.
"He even went as far as texting somebody I know about my kinks when he got angry at me."
Do you see what he's doing? What an azzhole.
Posted by Gobby
RISES... treetrunking common sense, which comes with some maturity...
Posted by leeberated
I think I saw this clip, where Spirit talks about circle and square relationships. Very insightful! It’s helped me move on from past relationships, especially ones where I thought everything was fine, but maybe I was the circle!
Posted by saggurl88
Sounds boring though.
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Text can be very ambiguous, even if someone is really trying to say something and in a certain way, it might not come across the way they intended.
She obviously wants to reconnect, and she's acknowledging that you've made it clear that she is out of your life. She is telling you she misses you and wants back in. It takes guts to admit that. She's not just saying "Hey, what's up?".
I'm thinking she's trying to save some pride here and dignity.
Perhaps she's upset at you for something, that you're not aware of. Perhaps she's experienced some growth and wants you in her life but perhaps your relationship now has to change.
I agree that her comment about being on her level was a bit too much. It was like she was trying to save face before having a real conversation.
I'm also thinking that you are both showing a bit of your stubbornness.
Be cautious. Connect with her face to face. Be open. Be forgiving. Be smart. If you are both such good friends then you need to both be candid about the past, present, and future.
Posted by Yodi
Why don't you ask her what she meant by that?..
I took it as.. let's talk it out instead of ghosting eachother like we've been doing.
Edit:: why did ya'll fall out? Maybe that has something to do with her making that comment and why you took it to mean jealousy..
Posted by Basorexia
No one knows what he's thinking.
Sounds like he's not ready to see you dating someone else and that's really his problem not yours.
The issue here is you're letting him interfere in your dating life. As long as you keep doing that you'll be exactly where you are now confused and upset.
Posted by xXxAliiciaXxXPosted by queenmyPosted by xXxAliiciaXxXPosted by queenmy
😅 how so?
His behavior when you didn't feel comfortable kissing him that night.
You mean the fact he's avoiding me now?
I don't know the guy, but based on what you've stated about him both past and present, I gather that you're more of an outlet for him than anything else.
He doesn't seem genuinely interested in you.
He seems like he's going through some things in his personal life and he was looking to you to "relieve" him of some of that stress that night.
When you bailed, he gave you the cold shoulder. You had one job and you couldn't do that for him.
You're looking at him through hopeful eyes because you've always had a crush on him and you want him to feel the same.
He told you long ago that he only saw you as a friend and then ghosted you. He's just not that into you.click to expand
Posted by jukey
Too much room for embellishment. Probably best to be brought up in an honest 1-on-1 chat where other things attracted you to each other