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What's up with taurus males??
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The week after he asks me if i want to go to the cinema, but with our mutual friends...like a group thing...which really confuses me and lets me know it's not a date...he walks me home, talks to me as a friend would and gives me a hug...A HUG?? i was sooooooooooo disappointed...
We seldom text each other during the week...i take initiative (yes scorpio girls do that if they're into you) and ask him over for dinner at my place. He says yes, he comes over, everything goes smootly, he's very affectionate, interested, caring...just perfect!
After that we exchange messages one time a week, he asks me how i am, but does not make the effort to see me...I on the other hand want more of him, but will not nag him for a piece of his time, and risk sounding needy...although i said i would miss him last weekend, which i should'nt have...
sooooooooooooooooooooooo after that...i reallly like him, and he knows it by now... but i dont know what he's waiting for, soooooooooo damn slowwwwwww. I meet him in July and i've seen him only 5 times. Maybe i'm being too intense about it or too demanding, but i feel that maybe i'm wasting my time with him, and who knows, maybe he's seeing other people...
I'm an intelligent woman and after reading several posts on this scorpio/taurus match... think now might be the time to run for the hills, and completely forget that he exists...yep...sounds like a good plan...until i catch myself thinking of him for no bl**dy reason...sooooo annoying!
Taurus males...help me out here...
We seldom text each other during the week...i take initiative (yes scorpio girls do that if they're into you) and ask him over for dinner at my place. He says yes, he comes over, everything goes smootly, he's very affectionate, interested, caring...just perfect!
After that we exchange messages one time a week, he asks me how i am, but does not make the effort to see me...I on the other hand want more of him, but will not nag him for a piece of his time, and risk sounding needy...although i said i would miss him last weekend, which i should'nt have...
sooooooooooooooooooooooo after that...i reallly like him, and he knows it by now... but i dont know what he's waiting for, soooooooooo damn slowwwwwww. I meet him in July and i've seen him only 5 times. Maybe i'm being too intense about it or too demanding, but i feel that maybe i'm wasting my time with him, and who knows, maybe he's seeing other people...
I'm an intelligent woman and after reading several posts on this scorpio/taurus match... think now might be the time to run for the hills, and completely forget that he exists...yep...sounds like a good plan...until i catch myself thinking of him for no bl**dy reason...sooooo annoying!
Taurus males...help me out here...
no worries there...i broke up with him because i followed my gut...and i'm very happy with that decision. I rather be alone than with someone i dont feel great with 🙂
soultalk:
"Also are you bulls very careful about what you write? You can be very passionate and sweet when talking, but rather cold when communicating in writing."
-- totally agree! sounds like a safety first thing, makes no sense though...
"Also are you bulls very careful about what you write? You can be very passionate and sweet when talking, but rather cold when communicating in writing."
-- totally agree! sounds like a safety first thing, makes no sense though...
Posted by soultalk
Hope you did not break up with your Leo in a hurry over this taurus. Before long you might see your ex has moved on while the bull is still trying to make his mind about the next move, or whether to even make move.
HA! You better believe it! I hope you didn't either. I'm dealiing with one now and I hope someone tells you the straight up truth and not sugar coat what you could possibly have to deal with. Not all of them are the same but there are many women who are having similar experiences. Get ready & take notes. LOL.
Posted by soultalk
Makes you mad like he is almost treating you like a stranger.
oh yes, makes it seem like he actually doesnt care...but then again, maybe he doesnt.
Posted by IamawineloverHA! You better believe it! I hope you didn't either. I'm dealiing with one now and I hope someone tells you the straight up truth and not sugar coat what you could possibly have to deal with. Not all of them are the same but there are many women who are having similar experiences. Get ready & take notes. LOL.click to expand
i could use some "just move on already?!" not that i'm not telling myself that already 😉
but please...straight up truth is what i want and need. *pulls out the notebook*
Posted by scorpioglitterPosted by IamawineloverHA! You better believe it! I hope you didn't either. I'm dealiing with one now and I hope someone tells you the straight up truth and not sugar coat what you could possibly have to deal with. Not all of them are the same but there are many women who are having similar experiences. Get ready & take notes. LOL.
i could use some "just move on already?!" not that i'm not telling myself that already 😉
but please...straight up truth is what i want and need. *pulls out the notebook*click to expand
LOL they are slow movers. You can't push them into doing anything whatsoever. They move at their own pace. You really, really, really (did I say really?) have to be patient. It's no joke. Keep yourself busy. They require space and when that times comes, let him have it. Let him come back to you. I remember reading somewhere that said it seems like you're a widower when dealing with a male Taurus. HA! If that's not the truth, I don't know what is. 🙂
Posted by soultalkPosted by IamawineloverPosted by scorpioglitterPosted by IamawineloverHA! You better believe it! I hope you didn't either. I'm dealiing with one now and I hope someone tells you the straight up truth and not sugar coat what you could possibly have to deal with. Not all of them are the same but there are many women who are having similar experiences. Get ready & take notes. LOL.
i could use some "just move on already?!" not that i'm not telling myself that already 😉
but please...straight up truth is what i want and need. *pulls out the notebook*
LOL they are slow movers. You can't push them into doing anything whatsoever. They move at their own pace. You really, really, really (did I say really?) have to be patient. It's no joke. Keep yourself busy. They require space and when that times comes, let him have it. Let him come back to you. I remember reading somewhere that said it seems like you're a widower when dealing with a male Taurus. HA! If that's not the truth, I don't know what is. 🙂
But the problem is even when you show patience this here now gone again keeps on repeating. So you talk and talk and then nothing for months. Then again talk and talk then again next few months nothing. When does this rinse repeat stop?click to expand
I absolutely agree. I'm going through it now. This is the second time this has happened and all I can say again is that it's on when they are ready. Not to say that it makes ir right but that is how they operate. It has been said that it's their way or the highway. Well, for me I let them "think" that but I am my owm woman and no one can conrol me. So if I am willing to accept him back then so be it, if not it's his loss not mine. I think it stops when and if they finally decide that you are the one. Pay attention to what he does more so than what he says. Actions speak louder than words.
Hahaha, Taurus guy here... 😛
Well, let me tell you this, if the roles where in reverse you would react the same... I know, cause I am dealing with a Scorpio that after 10 months does the exact same thing with me, and I really really care for her and want her by my side.
Anyway, I believe it is true that with us, as with you, you need patience. What might have pushed him back the first round is the fact that you where involved. We respect that, and so immediately back off. But, I will say this, it is usually hell for us to back off when we have feelings for you, but we still do, because a good mate will not ask you to stop dating someone else in favor of us/you.
Next, like you, we also need assurance that you are interested, this means words, not just actions. If I am in his situation, I would almost want a voiced invitation that you are available and would like someone to approach. Note, someone... You could probably tell him you want him closer, but I don't know him so I can't say how he will react. By saying someone you might 'open' the floor to 'competition', which could drag him out, or do the opposite, but like mentioned before I don't know him.
We, like you (getting kinda boring doesn't it 😛) over think things because we want to be 'perfect' to our potential partners. I want my love interest to see I am the best option out there. (Yes, you can ask my Scorpio love interest and she will most likely tell ya because I had mapped it in my mind down to a T, which is probably bad, but I want her with me, not some douchbag like before)
Overall, I feel that in his case he really is interested but doesn't know how to handle it. My situation is slightly different but currently I back down a bit because I am so afraid I would smother her and then end up being friend zoned, which I don't want. So I am forcing myself to move back, I want her to miss me, I want her to think of me. In your case, it is already happening, you need to react on it. You need to be spontaneous with these emotions in some way and only to him.
Although we, I do believe most of us, love to engage in public displays of affection (also keeps a-holes at bay lol) the deeper stuff needs a whisper, a gentler touch, and much more privacy to fuel intensity. Because we have that drive and that passion. Not lust, don't do that, we still have moral (Although I don't know how many actually use it, I know I do.)
Anyway, hope this helps.
Well, let me tell you this, if the roles where in reverse you would react the same... I know, cause I am dealing with a Scorpio that after 10 months does the exact same thing with me, and I really really care for her and want her by my side.
Anyway, I believe it is true that with us, as with you, you need patience. What might have pushed him back the first round is the fact that you where involved. We respect that, and so immediately back off. But, I will say this, it is usually hell for us to back off when we have feelings for you, but we still do, because a good mate will not ask you to stop dating someone else in favor of us/you.
Next, like you, we also need assurance that you are interested, this means words, not just actions. If I am in his situation, I would almost want a voiced invitation that you are available and would like someone to approach. Note, someone... You could probably tell him you want him closer, but I don't know him so I can't say how he will react. By saying someone you might 'open' the floor to 'competition', which could drag him out, or do the opposite, but like mentioned before I don't know him.
We, like you (getting kinda boring doesn't it 😛) over think things because we want to be 'perfect' to our potential partners. I want my love interest to see I am the best option out there. (Yes, you can ask my Scorpio love interest and she will most likely tell ya because I had mapped it in my mind down to a T, which is probably bad, but I want her with me, not some douchbag like before)
Overall, I feel that in his case he really is interested but doesn't know how to handle it. My situation is slightly different but currently I back down a bit because I am so afraid I would smother her and then end up being friend zoned, which I don't want. So I am forcing myself to move back, I want her to miss me, I want her to think of me. In your case, it is already happening, you need to react on it. You need to be spontaneous with these emotions in some way and only to him.
Although we, I do believe most of us, love to engage in public displays of affection (also keeps a-holes at bay lol) the deeper stuff needs a whisper, a gentler touch, and much more privacy to fuel intensity. Because we have that drive and that passion. Not lust, don't do that, we still have moral (Although I don't know how many actually use it, I know I do.)
Anyway, hope this helps.
Posted by OmagaIII
Hahaha, Taurus guy here... 😛
Well, let me tell you this, if the roles where in reverse you would react the same... I know, cause I am dealing with a Scorpio that after 10 months does the exact same thing with me, and I really really care for her and want her by my side.
Anyway, I believe it is true that with us, as with you, you need patience. What might have pushed him back the first round is the fact that you where involved. We respect that, and so immediately back off. But, I will say this, it is usually hell for us to back off when we have feelings for you, but we still do, because a good mate will not ask you to stop dating someone else in favor of us/you.
Next, like you, we also need assurance that you are interested, this means words, not just actions. If I am in his situation, I would almost want a voiced invitation that you are available and would like someone to approach. Note, someone... You could probably tell him you want him closer, but I don't know him so I can't say how he will react. By saying someone you might 'open' the floor to 'competition', which could drag him out, or do the opposite, but like mentioned before I don't know him.
We, like you (getting kinda boring doesn't it 😛) over think things because we want to be 'perfect' to our potential partners. I want my love interest to see I am the best option out there. (Yes, you can ask my Scorpio love interest and she will most likely tell ya because I had mapped it in my mind down to a T, which is probably bad, but I want her with me, not some douchbag like before)
Overall, I feel that in his case he really is interested but doesn't know how to handle it. My situation is slightly different but currently I back down a bit because I am so afraid I would smother her and then end up being friend zoned, which I don't want. So I am forcing myself to move back, I want her to miss me, I want her to think of me. In your case, it is already happening, you need to react on it. You need to be spontaneous with these emotions in some way and only to him.
Although we, I do believe most of us, love to engage in public displays of affection (also keeps a-holes at bay lol) the deeper stuff needs a whisper, a gentler touch, and much more privacy to fuel intensity. Because we have that drive and that passion. Not lust, don't do that, we still have moral (Although I don't know how many actually use it,
Sorry but my computer is acting up. All that is great but also confusing for those who don't think the same. If I am told "When I am ready, we will catch up" my option I feel is to leave you alone. Why would I initiate contact after that?
I understand what your getting at. With my current interest I got a reply similar to what you mentioned. I don't think it is an option, I think it is a choice. If I decided there and then, screw this I am out of here, I wouldn't have gotten to know the most wondrously beautiful, attractive and emotionally deep woman I have ever met. (It's a given I also wouldn't be in this predicament, although I still believe she is worth it, I have to be patient with her. Like the opposite of what is happening here)
Look, you don't need to smother or be over bearing. It is like people advertising a job. They state ridiculous requirements in some cases to filter the junk from the treasure. Just cause you don't have the qualification doesn't mean you can't get the job, you just have to approach it differently. I want my love interest, so I am still around, I just change the way I do things. I am still there, and I build the foundation that I want us to have with one another.
If you make it an option, then you are also no longer an option for the person you are interested in. It is only once we get past this block that you can actually have great things happen, but we are also impatient. I don't know, most people say 'Good things happen immediately', I say 'Great things take time' 😉
Look, you don't need to smother or be over bearing. It is like people advertising a job. They state ridiculous requirements in some cases to filter the junk from the treasure. Just cause you don't have the qualification doesn't mean you can't get the job, you just have to approach it differently. I want my love interest, so I am still around, I just change the way I do things. I am still there, and I build the foundation that I want us to have with one another.
If you make it an option, then you are also no longer an option for the person you are interested in. It is only once we get past this block that you can actually have great things happen, but we are also impatient. I don't know, most people say 'Good things happen immediately', I say 'Great things take time' 😉
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Y'all gonna need a support group up on this board soon for all the women who are stressed the hell out from trying to date a Taurus male. This shit is bananas.
LMAO!!
Hahahaahaha I feel the same about Scorps... 😛
Posted by robyn808
but seriously you guys? We all talk about having patience and giving things time, but its been more then a few months. I look at what I would do in this situation, and I'm not one to let my self wonder for long if I really want to know something.
But when I turn that around and put myself in his situation. I would not advise anyone to tip toeing around a topic with me, its just going to prolong it, cus sometimes if you don't ask, I don't know that you wanna know. Like you could hit me with a brick, but sometimes if you don't say it flat out I'm not sure, and it can be hard to move forward with something I feel unsure about.
But I'm saying if she is ready to give up, she's really not risk anything by laying all her cards out before she walks away, the tables may turn... you never know.
Very true! For me, a week or so ok. I can deal but when it goes as long as months? I have an issue with that. My thing is say what you need to say and let's move forward. The stalling for months on end can drives anyone crazy and they may begin to lose interest.
Posted by Iamawinelover
LOL they are slow movers. You can't push them into doing anything whatsoever. They move at their own pace. You really, really, really (did I say really?) have to be patient. It's no joke. Keep yourself busy. They require space and when that times comes, let him have it. Let him come back to you. I remember reading somewhere that said it seems like you're a widower when dealing with a male Taurus. HA! If that's not the truth, I don't know what is. 🙂
ok, i get the patient bit, i understand...but if this goes on for months like some of the other women have experienced? --how much patient is enough -- because i'm a woman, not a saint 😉
Posted by OmagaIII
Hahaha, Taurus guy here... 😛
Well, let me tell you this, if the roles where in reverse you would react the same... I know, cause I am dealing with a Scorpio that after 10 months does the exact same thing with me, and I really really care for her and want her by my side.
Anyway, I believe it is true that with us, as with you, you need patience.click to expand
OmagaIII -- i really appreciate your point of view and feedback...i think you are right about some things, what more reassurance does he need? i said i would miss him last weekend because i wouldnt see him (he already had plans) and of course, he didnt reply...i am so not saying anything of the sort again, self-respect and all...
Posted by robyn808
"Look dude, I'm into you, and totally into getting to know more of you, and I got the impression we were on the same page about that. But you're soooo dragging your feet here, and its giving me a different impression. I don't know whats going on, with you or your life, but for whatever reason this isn't happening. If your in a place where you're ready to make something happen, and your interested in what can happen here, then this would be a great time, but If this is all it's gonna be, cool! it was nice to meet you."
robyn808 i like the way you think...i might just try something like that (maybe in a bit more gentle way) if nothing changes soon...i mean if he doesn't want me, or cant make up his mind, someone else sure will...i cant keep doing this for long, its not healthy.
Posted by IamawineloverPosted by robyn808
but seriously you guys? We all talk about having patience and giving things time, but its been more then a few months. I look at what I would do in this situation, and I'm not one to let my self wonder for long if I really want to know something.
But when I turn that around and put myself in his situation. I would not advise anyone to tip toeing around a topic with me, its just going to prolong it, cus sometimes if you don't ask, I don't know that you wanna know. Like you could hit me with a brick, but sometimes if you don't say it flat out I'm not sure, and it can be hard to move forward with something I feel unsure about.
But I'm saying if she is ready to give up, she's really not risk anything by laying all her cards out before she walks away, the tables may turn... you never know.
Very true! For me, a week or so ok. I can deal but when it goes as long as months? I have an issue with that. My thing is say what you need to say and let's move forward. The stalling for months on end can drives anyone crazy and they may begin to lose interest.click to expand
i think i will start to lose interest soon too...dont know how much respect i can have for a guy that is afraid of his feelings, or worst is not sure of what he wants. If he wants to get to know me, we can be friends...but dont get possessive on me when i talk to other guys because that is not acceptable.
Well, ultimately it is your decision. If you'r not into waiting this out, stop thinking of him and move on. The fact is, he is already in your head, and you want to push him into something because you want it, with not much consideration for him it seems.
Do you even know what is going on in his life? Family, work, other lingering annoying relationships or commitments we honor? Ladies are apparently good detectives. What gives? I still believe that if the tables where turned, you would react the same way. And don't tell me he doesn't open up to you or whatever. What, you haven't tracked him down on something like FB?
You don't push a bull around. Doing that provokes him into being the stubborn creature people talk about, constantly doing it is like provoking a scorpio with a short stick, you are gonna get a trampling. And believe me, I think out of this combo a taurus is probably one of few who can handle a scorpio sting and pay it back 7 times. Telling someone your gonna miss them doesn't equal 'Look I actually am interested in you'. So here, I am also inclined to follow through on what robyn808 said. Maybe direct, but at least it ain't cryptic. You had a guy, are you over him, is he over you, will the guy come back while he is with you, blah blah blah. These are all the things we consider. Scorpio likes these spats from time to time, we don't. Do you want him because their is a void, or because of who he is? Again, like scorpios, we sense the difference a mile away. We also sense BS and usually know more about our partners than we tell, because it is in absolutely everything you do and say. Being slow and steady makes us observant. You'r looking for a thrill, then you have the wrong guy. We don't do minute thrills, we aim for life long satisfaction.
You assume he should smell that you want him. And if you don't know it by now, NO man ever picks this up. Much like NO woman does either lol
I think you need to be careful with your pursuit, especially if this is the type of approach your aiming for, because you WILL push him away, or, you'll start dating and it won't last beyond 3 to 5 months, with a hellish amount of emotions. Basically, the bad type of scorpio and taurus relationship And I can almost guarantee that. Nothing to do with him being afraid or whatever you are convincing your self. We function pretty damn well our way without being provoked by those who don't know us. 😉
Do you even know what is going on in his life? Family, work, other lingering annoying relationships or commitments we honor? Ladies are apparently good detectives. What gives? I still believe that if the tables where turned, you would react the same way. And don't tell me he doesn't open up to you or whatever. What, you haven't tracked him down on something like FB?
You don't push a bull around. Doing that provokes him into being the stubborn creature people talk about, constantly doing it is like provoking a scorpio with a short stick, you are gonna get a trampling. And believe me, I think out of this combo a taurus is probably one of few who can handle a scorpio sting and pay it back 7 times. Telling someone your gonna miss them doesn't equal 'Look I actually am interested in you'. So here, I am also inclined to follow through on what robyn808 said. Maybe direct, but at least it ain't cryptic. You had a guy, are you over him, is he over you, will the guy come back while he is with you, blah blah blah. These are all the things we consider. Scorpio likes these spats from time to time, we don't. Do you want him because their is a void, or because of who he is? Again, like scorpios, we sense the difference a mile away. We also sense BS and usually know more about our partners than we tell, because it is in absolutely everything you do and say. Being slow and steady makes us observant. You'r looking for a thrill, then you have the wrong guy. We don't do minute thrills, we aim for life long satisfaction.
You assume he should smell that you want him. And if you don't know it by now, NO man ever picks this up. Much like NO woman does either lol
I think you need to be careful with your pursuit, especially if this is the type of approach your aiming for, because you WILL push him away, or, you'll start dating and it won't last beyond 3 to 5 months, with a hellish amount of emotions. Basically, the bad type of scorpio and taurus relationship And I can almost guarantee that. Nothing to do with him being afraid or whatever you are convincing your self. We function pretty damn well our way without being provoked by those who don't know us. 😉
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Y'all gonna need a support group up on this board soon for all the women who are stressed the hell out from trying to date a Taurus male. This shit is bananas.
lmao
i mad I was one of em
i just dont see how they are supposed to be the most stable and loving creatures?
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Y'all gonna need a support group up on this board soon for all the women who are stressed the hell out from trying to date a Taurus male. This shit is bananas.
LMAO
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by bkbella86Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Y'all gonna need a support group up on this board soon for all the women who are stressed the hell out from trying to date a Taurus male. This shit is bananas.
lmao
i mad I was one of em
i just dont see how they are supposed to be the most stable and loving creatures?
LOL. Apparently not.
And I've been one of them too. Haha. So which sign is stable? Let me know so I can put it on my wish list.click to expand
Us Capricorns for sure! Tooting my own horn. Yes I am! We are very stable people.
Hmmmm...
Let me get this straight. You were both into each other when you first met... now here you are after 2 months have passed and nothing else has happened. Does that about sum it up ?
I see. Is this because you are a 'traditional' woman... waiting for him to follow up on what he started ? You will be waiting a long time. You see... THIS is entirely up to YOU ! HE isn't going to chase you... he WON'T chase you... and it is going to take nothing less than for you to throw yourself at him... to make it clear that you are interested in more.
By now... if I were HE, I would think that you were not interested enough and be on my merry way. Pretty simple really. He already MADE his move... twice it would now seem.
Someone bold... someone fearless... someone that just says 'fuck it'... THIS is the woman that will get his attention... the crazy one... the one that takes what SHE wants... the one that possesses everything he lacks.
So... either YOU go for it... or YOU drop it... there is no more middle ground.
Let me get this straight. You were both into each other when you first met... now here you are after 2 months have passed and nothing else has happened. Does that about sum it up ?
I see. Is this because you are a 'traditional' woman... waiting for him to follow up on what he started ? You will be waiting a long time. You see... THIS is entirely up to YOU ! HE isn't going to chase you... he WON'T chase you... and it is going to take nothing less than for you to throw yourself at him... to make it clear that you are interested in more.
By now... if I were HE, I would think that you were not interested enough and be on my merry way. Pretty simple really. He already MADE his move... twice it would now seem.
Someone bold... someone fearless... someone that just says 'fuck it'... THIS is the woman that will get his attention... the crazy one... the one that takes what SHE wants... the one that possesses everything he lacks.
So... either YOU go for it... or YOU drop it... there is no more middle ground.
David13 - I thought Taurus' don't want the girl that they know they already have? Plus I thought they want to be the ones in control?
DAVID! You're back!! 🙂
We were just talking about you the other day and peeps saying they missed you!! 😉
We were just talking about you the other day and peeps saying they missed you!! 😉
@Steph, they will lead, but they need to know that you're in step with them... get it?
Posted by PiscesSteph
David13 - I thought Taurus' don't want the girl that they know they already have? Plus I thought they want to be the ones in control?
Depends on the girl ! Taurus doesn't necessarily want ALL the control... otherwise you would see them always paired up with submissive types... which is seldom if ever the case.
Posted by lildol
DAVID! You're back!! 🙂
We were just talking about you the other day and peeps saying they missed you!! 😉
REALLY — You just know all the right things to say, don't you !!! 😉
oyoyoy! Taurus's get more confusing the more I read! haha Then you throw in a moon, a venus and a mercury and I am lost.
I'm like this Taurus a lot. I will be interested in a women but not be able to make the first real move, even tho I might want to. In a way I think it's uncertainty, the chance of rejection if terrifying to me. It'd feel easier if I knew for sure. I went on a few dates with a Cancer over the summer and I met her halfway on the first kiss and that is by far the best I've done as far as making an initial move. I'll usually tell someone how I feel to know instead of anything physical. No this hasn't worked out for me. If you want him I saw try something, see what happens.
Posted by David13Posted by PiscesSteph
David13 - I thought Taurus' don't want the girl that they know they already have? Plus I thought they want to be the ones in control?
Depends on the girl ! Taurus doesn't necessarily want ALL the control... otherwise you would see them always paired up with submissive types... which is seldom if ever the case.click to expand
I proved David"s theory right with my current bull. His Venus in Aries .. N my Venus in Gemini helped as well. If I didn't throw myself at home I will probably be hanging around waiting as well!! I found out he was a Taurus and I made my decision there n then! I knew if I let him escape I will probably never have a chance with him :p
ok so i have to be patient and let him know i want him, i can do that 🙂
Posted by David13
Hmmmm...
Let me get this straight. You were both into each other when you first met... now here you are after 2 months have passed and nothing else has happened. Does that about sum it up ?
No, thats not it. I met him in July and since i have seen him every 2 weeks... and we do exchange messages once a week (usually i initiate)...and i am not "traditional" as you mentioned, i just give as good as i get.
Maybe I am overthinking it and being impatient, but i really like him and i want to get to know him better, and I find it difficult at this pace.
But now i see (after all the feedback i've gotten) that he might actually like me, and if i am just able to hold my fucking horses and be patient, it might work out...
Posted by David13
Hmmmm...
Let me get this straight. You were both into each other when you first met... now here you are after 2 months have passed and nothing else has happened. Does that about sum it up ?
I see. Is this because you are a 'traditional' woman... waiting for him to follow up on what he started ? You will be waiting a long time. You see... THIS is entirely up to YOU ! HE isn't going to chase you... he WON'T chase you... and it is going to take nothing less than for you to throw yourself at him... to make it clear that you are interested in more.
By now... if I were HE, I would think that you were not interested enough and be on my merry way. Pretty simple really. He already MADE his move... twice it would now seem.
Someone bold... someone fearless... someone that just says 'fuck it'... THIS is the woman that will get his attention... the crazy one... the one that takes what SHE wants... the one that possesses everything he lacks.
So... either YOU go for it... or YOU drop it... there is no more middle ground.
Thank you for this David. Helps a lot. I see now that my Aires Venus helped me and I see why now.
Total side note. .. you look JUST like my Aires ex who I cannot stand with a passion. YOU on the other hand are awesome. I am in NO way thinking you are anything like my Aires ex. Just wanted to point that out.
"I just give as good as I get."
😢
No no NO !!! HE has enough patience for the BOTH of YOU... this I assure you ! I am sorry to tell you this, but YOU must be the aggressor ! You met him two months ago... you see him every two weeks... you exchange messages every week... THE END. What IS THIS ?!!
Yes... you are overthinking EVERYTHING ! Two months of being 'patient'... how is that working out for YOU ? To 'give as good as you get' won't cut it... it is only going to keep you right where you are now. Taurus/Scorpio relationships have their perks... that is of course if it ever gets started. SOMEONE is going to have to START IT... and that SOMEONE is going to have to be YOU ! Start by looking at him the way that he told you NOT to look at him (TWO MONTHS AGO)! THAT was when you ALMOST had him ! Lay one on him the next time you see him... just to see what he does ! REALLY... it doesn't take much.
The time for thinking about it all again and again is over. STOP with this counter-productive 'thinking' and just act out on your own impulses ! Make this happen !!!
😢
No no NO !!! HE has enough patience for the BOTH of YOU... this I assure you ! I am sorry to tell you this, but YOU must be the aggressor ! You met him two months ago... you see him every two weeks... you exchange messages every week... THE END. What IS THIS ?!!
Yes... you are overthinking EVERYTHING ! Two months of being 'patient'... how is that working out for YOU ? To 'give as good as you get' won't cut it... it is only going to keep you right where you are now. Taurus/Scorpio relationships have their perks... that is of course if it ever gets started. SOMEONE is going to have to START IT... and that SOMEONE is going to have to be YOU ! Start by looking at him the way that he told you NOT to look at him (TWO MONTHS AGO)! THAT was when you ALMOST had him ! Lay one on him the next time you see him... just to see what he does ! REALLY... it doesn't take much.
The time for thinking about it all again and again is over. STOP with this counter-productive 'thinking' and just act out on your own impulses ! Make this happen !!!
Posted by David13
"I just give as good as I get."
😢
No no NO !!! HE has enough patience for the BOTH of YOU... this I assure you ! I am sorry to tell you this, but YOU must be the aggressor ! You met him two months ago... you see him every two weeks... you exchange messages every week... THE END. What IS THIS ?!!
Yes... you are overthinking EVERYTHING ! Two months of being 'patient'... how is that working out for YOU ? To 'give as good as you get' won't cut it... it is only going to keep you right where you are now. Taurus/Scorpio relationships have their perks... that is of course if it ever gets started. SOMEONE is going to have to START IT... and that SOMEONE is going to have to be YOU ! Start by looking at him the way that he told you NOT to look at him (TWO MONTHS AGO)! THAT was when you ALMOST had him ! Lay one on him the next time you see him... just to see what he does ! REALLY... it doesn't take much.
The time for thinking about it all again and again is over. STOP with this counter-productive 'thinking' and just act out on your own impulses ! Make this happen !!!
This gives such insight. It's amazing. Thank you David. So he's being patient to see if she makes a move but figures that she lost interest since she didn't. She can still save it but needs to act now.
Bulls don't really chase do they.. . Well maybe not at first. Idk maybe after they know that you are into them.
@shortii
Glad it helps ! Venus in Aries ? Me too...as well at my moon... might explain the 'look-alike' thing. 😉
Glad it helps ! Venus in Aries ? Me too...as well at my moon... might explain the 'look-alike' thing. 😉
Posted by shortiiPosted by David13
"I just give as good as I get."
😢
No no NO !!! HE has enough patience for the BOTH of YOU... this I assure you ! I am sorry to tell you this, but YOU must be the aggressor ! You met him two months ago... you see him every two weeks... you exchange messages every week... THE END. What IS THIS ?!!
Yes... you are overthinking EVERYTHING ! Two months of being 'patient'... how is that working out for YOU ? To 'give as good as you get' won't cut it... it is only going to keep you right where you are now. Taurus/Scorpio relationships have their perks... that is of course if it ever gets started. SOMEONE is going to have to START IT... and that SOMEONE is going to have to be YOU ! Start by looking at him the way that he told you NOT to look at him (TWO MONTHS AGO)! THAT was when you ALMOST had him ! Lay one on him the next time you see him... just to see what he does ! REALLY... it doesn't take much.
The time for thinking about it all again and again is over. STOP with this counter-productive 'thinking' and just act out on your own impulses ! Make this happen !!!
This gives such insight. It's amazing. Thank you David. So he's being patient to see if she makes a move but figures that she lost interest since she didn't. She can still save it but needs to act now.
Bulls don't really chase do they.. . Well maybe not at first. Idk maybe after they know that you are into them.click to expand
Guilty... I don't chase. You have summed it up well. 🙂
Posted by David13
The time for thinking about it all again and again is over. STOP with this counter-productive 'thinking' and just act out on your own impulses ! Make this happen !!!
✨challenge accepted✨
you're really pushy...but it helps! 😉
he's abroad on vacation for the weekend...nothing much i can do right now, except wait for him to come back...and then i'll ask him out.
Posted by David13
"I just give as good as I get."
😢
No no NO !!! HE has enough patience for the BOTH of YOU... this I assure you ! I am sorry to tell you this, but YOU must be the aggressor ! You met him two months ago... you see him every two weeks... you exchange messages every week... THE END. What IS THIS ?!!
Yes... you are overthinking EVERYTHING ! Two months of being 'patient'... how is that working out for YOU ? To 'give as good as you get' won't cut it... it is only going to keep you right where you are now. Taurus/Scorpio relationships have their perks... that is of course if it ever gets started. SOMEONE is going to have to START IT... and that SOMEONE is going to have to be YOU ! Start by looking at him the way that he told you NOT to look at him (TWO MONTHS AGO)! THAT was when you ALMOST had him ! Lay one on him the next time you see him... just to see what he does ! REALLY... it doesn't take much.
The time for thinking about it all again and again is over. STOP with this counter-productive 'thinking' and just act out on your own impulses ! Make this happen !!!
I have to agree with this, I knew my Taurus was interested for a long time so when the time arrived when it was appropriate that we could date(circumstances prevented it before then) I sent him a pretty clear message - that was all he needed and he charged in to take what he wanted. Despite his Aries Venus, Sag Mars and Leo Moon he still waited until he was pushed (ordered? 🙂). Once they are given the signal to go after what they want no bull is slow. If they don't want well nothing will move and unmovable force.
Posted by celticlioness
I have to agree with this, I knew my Taurus was interested for a long time so when the time arrived when it was appropriate that we could date(circumstances prevented it before then) I sent him a pretty clear message - that was all he needed and he charged in to take what he wanted. Despite his Aries Venus, Sag Mars and Leo Moon he still waited until he was pushed (ordered? 🙂). Once they are given the signal to go after what they want no bull is slow. If they don't want well nothing will move and unmovable force.
...so what exactly is a clear message? (dumb question, i know...but hey, give me a break 🙂)
Posted by MrWendall
Gurl u need an aircon, a ref or some cable tv? Let a taurus man buy u it those thangs! Appliances are the purest form of earth sign love! Fuck manolos! U need one of dem movable tv brackets!
lol i guess thats why he is/was trying to get his dvd player back
Posted by scorpioglitterPosted by celticlioness
I have to agree with this, I knew my Taurus was interested for a long time so when the time arrived when it was appropriate that we could date(circumstances prevented it before then) I sent him a pretty clear message - that was all he needed and he charged in to take what he wanted. Despite his Aries Venus, Sag Mars and Leo Moon he still waited until he was pushed (ordered? 🙂). Once they are given the signal to go after what they want no bull is slow. If they don't want well nothing will move and unmovable force.
...so what exactly is a clear message? (dumb question, i know...but hey, give me a break 🙂)click to expand
I told him via text where I was working that day, that it was close to where he was and that I was available for lunch at this moment, but that if he wasn't no worries and to just send me his timesheet and good luck with the new job. So either step up now or forever hold your peace. He put the arrangement in place within 5 minutes.
Posted by David13
Someone bold... someone fearless... someone that just says 'fuck it'... THIS is the woman that will get his attention... the crazy one... the one that takes what SHE wants... the one that possesses everything he lacks.
Posted by OmagaIII
Well, ultimately it is your decision. If you'r not into waiting this out, stop thinking of him and move on. The fact is, he is already in your head, and you want to push him into something because you want it, with not much consideration for him it seems.
Posted by MrWendall
corner him into having THE TALK!click to expand
All great advice from Taurus men!
Posted by celticlioness
I have to agree with this, I knew my Taurus was interested for a long time so when the time arrived when it was appropriate that we could date(circumstances prevented it before then) I sent him a pretty clear message - that was all he needed and he charged in to take what he wanted. Despite his Aries Venus, Sag Mars and Leo Moon he still waited until he was pushed (ordered? 🙂). Once they are given the signal to go after what they want no bull is slow. If they don't want well nothing will move and unmovable force.
This is very true.
Well stated.
The slow moving Bull will tread carefully...once given a green light...they will move an unmovable force.
I see many threads created by passive aggressive individuals.
They're extremely unaware of how they're coming off.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
So basically Taurus men are passive by nature and prefer to be led to the pasture. But you see as a woman this ish is very confusing. I mean you do all that chasing to catch her. Then you wait for her to seal the deal—
Apparently that is the way that they operate. Yet I find it funny that when a woman doesn't want to wait it out then she is not being considerate of his feelings yet have her waiting in limbo while keeping her guessing with no communication isn't qualified for him not to have considerations for her feelings. Hmmmmmm......
Posted by IamawineloverPosted by PiscVirgAquaFish
So basically Taurus men are passive by nature and prefer to be led to the pasture. But you see as a woman this ish is very confusing. I mean you do all that chasing to catch her. Then you wait for her to seal the deal—
Apparently that is the way that they operate. Yet I find it funny that when a woman doesn't want to wait it out then she is not being considerate of his feelings yet have her waiting in limbo while keeping her guessing with no communication isn't qualified for him not to have considerations for her feelings. Hmmmmmm......click to expand
You might not like this... but him not seemingly 'taking her feelings into consideration' is due to his belief that there are no feelings to consider... she has not made herself understood in the language he understands... remaining oblivious. No REALLY... HE doesn't GET IT !
There is no need to consider HIS feelings at all... as they have not yet been awakened... a woman is just another woman on the 'just an acquantance' list until she makes herself out to be otherwise. One can only reach a Taurus man through his senses... otherwise her message will not be understood.
To spell it out... Taurus does not consider himself as the other half in a couple until he has slept with her. His endurance for another to complicate matters before this has happened is next to null.
In THIS case... two months is too long. If she wants to get to know him as she has said... just 'talking' will never suffice. Many a Taurus have had platonic relationships that became nothing more... due only to the message being understood too late. HE has moved in for the kill twice now (see OP)... now he receives message from her once per week... as she waits for HIM to ask to see her. He WILL act... but NOT until she becomes more than just another sms 'buddy'. SHE must first become TANGIBLE.
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