win you over with being pushy —

I hung out with this taurus man ONCE and it was the most comfortable hug i had in my life...most romantic moment...we work together...here's my story.


. He worked his charm..draws me in...told me he's interested...had an amazing sensual moment...cuddling...comfort..soothing for 4 hours... then ...boom
"im not 100 percent sure what i want at the moment " ...still very shy when he sees me ( we work together)... come to say hi to me.....compliment me..." you are so cute with your hair" ...then step back ...never initiate any contact first...never call..never text me first.....but persistent when i text him..once a day i keep it..now i'm lost..i don't know how to take this further ! i know he truly likes me but there are warning signs coming from my part ...and i don't know how best to approach him...without being pushy !
i'm about to text him to watch a movie...for my birthday and now i don't know if i should..i'm so shy...but i think i have 2 make the first MOVE again !!! LOL !!!
his venus in gemini and my venus is gemini too !!

warning signs are...
1 ) i have many close male friends..he knows that..and he doesn't like it i'm sure..( he asked me about them)
2) i just came out of a serious 2.5 years relationship ( he knows that as well..he knows my ex is still in my life ...he had his eyes on me even when i was with my ex )
3) I always organise party event .. n he gets invited to them...but photos show i have at least 4 close male friends :S
4) we both are applying for higher duty manager at our work ..the professional level we have to maintain is a big let down if he's trying to make up his mind about me.


now i know those are BIG WARNING signs that will push a taurus man right back...what i wanna know is ..how should i make it clear to him that i'm head over heal with him and i only want him n him only...and i'm very very loyal...if he agrees to date me...he will be my number one and no one else..
I wish i could explain how this man makes me feel..its very scary but very addictive... I havn't told him how i feel about him...i havn't asked him out after that time we spent together..i'm just 2 scared...coz i like him so much ! whats wrong with me HAHAHA


PLease help

I meant to say... TITLE " win you over without being pushy"

Just make your move ! I am sure he will reciprocate ! DO IT !!!

Posted by David13
Just make your move ! I am sure he will reciprocate ! DO IT !!!

Thanks David !

YES I FINALLY DID IT LAST NIGHT !! man that was scary ! i can't believe i have to chase ! it is so not in my taurus nature after all but yet i still find it hard to understand my taurus man !

SO i texted him asking to watch a movie with me for my pre-birthday ...and he agrees saying he finishes work at certain time and will let me know closer to the date. ! i was sooooo happy jumping up and down ! haha

now what do i do lol...should i let him know how much i like him on the night or just give him extra extra affection ! i know i'm a taurus and i love that !

we taurus craveeeee physicial contact and i'm dying without him atm...(secretly)

🙂

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by David13
Just make your move ! I am sure he will reciprocate ! DO IT !!!

Thanks David !

YES I FINALLY DID IT LAST NIGHT !! man that was scary ! i can't believe i have to chase ! it is so not in my taurus nature after all but yet i still find it hard to understand my taurus man !

SO i texted him asking to watch a movie with me for my pre-birthday ...and he agrees saying he finishes work at certain time and will let me know closer to the date. ! i was sooooo happy jumping up and down ! haha

now what do i do lol...should i let him know how much i like him on the night or just give him extra extra affection ! i know i'm a taurus and i love that !

we taurus craveeeee physicial contact and i'm dying without him atm...(secretly)

🙂

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Ahhh... he's willing to come to your lair ! Take whatever want ! He's YOURS !!!

*what ever YOU want* 😉

Posted by David13

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by David13
Just make your move ! I am sure he will reciprocate ! DO IT !!!

Thanks David !

YES I FINALLY DID IT LAST NIGHT !! man that was scary ! i can't believe i have to chase ! it is so not in my taurus nature after all but yet i still find it hard to understand my taurus man !

SO i texted him asking to watch a movie with me for my pre-birthday ...and he agrees saying he finishes work at certain time and will let me know closer to the date. ! i was sooooo happy jumping up and down ! haha

now what do i do lol...should i let him know how much i like him on the night or just give him extra extra affection ! i know i'm a taurus and i love that !

we taurus craveeeee physicial contact and i'm dying without him atm...(secretly)

🙂

Ahhh... he's willing to come to your lair ! Take whatever want ! He's YOURS !!!

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what do you mean he's mine ! ?! ?! ?!

how can he be mine if he never calls or text me first ! I 'm so confused ! i'm tired of his COOL attitude .. insights please :S does he not care or think about me at all ? how can he be mine lol what level of commitment is he expecting from me ! are we just seeing each other very very casually ? can he just speak ? hahaha...as you know taurus people crave constant physicial affection and consistency...atm i'm getting none..does that mean he will give me more down the track or stay this way 🙂

Hmmmm saweetz1988... you don't know what I mean ?

First... let's get THIS part out of the way... HE is a Taurus... YOU are a Taurus. HE never contacts you first... YOU are scared to chase him. Taurus being the fixed element of earth... well... this would make Taurus a rock, right ? Isn't there a song about this ? 'two little lovebirds, sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g'... now let's replace the words... 'two little rocks, sitting in a tree, s-i-t-t-i-n-g'. I am trying to emphasize that... it is really amazing that two Taurus' can ever get together at all !

He is going to come to your house... watch how he acts... pay attention to how close he sits next to you... if he touches you... how he touches you. If at some point... your faces are within 18 inches apart... swallow your fear, think of nothing, and just lay one on his lips... everything to follow is really up to you. He will be in YOUR castle... celebrating YOUR birthday... just YOU and HIM. So the only questtion to be asking yourself is: what do want for YOUR birthday —

Posted by David13
Hmmmm saweetz1988... you don't know what I mean ?

First... let's get THIS part out of the way... HE is a Taurus... YOU are a Taurus. HE never contacts you first... YOU are scared to chase him. Taurus being the fixed element of earth... well... this would make Taurus a rock, right ? Isn't there a song about this ? 'two little lovebirds, sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g'... now let's replace the words... 'two little rocks, sitting in a tree, s-i-t-t-i-n-g'. I am trying to emphasize that... it is really amazing that two Taurus' can ever get together at all !

He is going to come to your house... watch how he acts... pay attention to how close he sits next to you... if he touches you... how he touches you. If at some point... your faces are within 18 inches apart... swallow your fear, think of nothing, and just lay one on his lips... everything to follow is really up to you. He will be in YOUR castle... celebrating YOUR birthday... just YOU and HIM. So the only questtion to be asking yourself is: what do want for YOUR birthday —

. I totally agree with you on the two rocks SITTInG ! If I have never approached him .. Nothing would have happened between us ! However . Taurus and Taurus are not the most compatible sign and him not initiating contacts or SMS or anything at all Makes me doubt his sincerity . . However in the meantime my Virgo ex has been persistent with his contacts .. I know it doesn't mean my ex is more sincere than the Taurus but its just that consistency is what we need and maybe that's why we don't see many Taurus/taurus couple because Im not so sure how that will work in the long run😢 we are amazing when we are together though !! I guess that's what's keep me holding on 😉 funny enough his ex is also a Virgo lol not sure who was doing the chasin in their relationship lol

But Taurus' ARE consistent silly ! Consistently still ! 😉
Don't put too much emphasis on this... just choose to be the one to shake it up ! 😄

😢 he hasn't replied since 3 pm yesterday 😉 lol here goes the hot n cold 😉

Posted by David13
But Taurus' ARE consistent silly ! Consistently still ! 😉
Don't put too much emphasis on this... just choose to be the one to shake it up ! 😄

! Since you have been a great help I thought I will get some more insights from you. Since that message he said he will let me know closer to the date about the movie"session" with me . He hasn't replied to my texts . Both are non question text. .. It's been almost 7 days since and he knows I'm on a holiday but hasn't said or asked anything.... Should I text him to remind him about our planned date ? He's quiet forgetful n he warned me with that earlier ... Why? I'm not so sure .. He also told me many times that he doesn't look at his phone much n just doesn'tike it but come on !!! If u like a girl u would remember right ? Lol

Posted by David13
But Taurus' ARE consistent silly ! Consistently still ! 😉
Don't put too much emphasis on this... just choose to be the one to shake it up ! 😄

Don't put too much emphasis on this... just choose to be the one to shake it up ! 😄

! Since you have been a great help I thought I will get some more insights from you. Since that message he said he will let me know closer to the date about the movie"session" with me . He hasn't replied to my texts . Both are non question text. .. It's been almost 7 days since and he knows I'm on a holiday but hasn't said or asked anything.... Should I text him to remind him about our planned date ? He's quiet forgetful n he warned me with that earlier ... Why? I'm not so sure .. He also told me many times that he doesn't look at his phone much n just doesn'tike it but come on !!! If u like a girl u would remember right ? Lol

I only know one taurus man, my bf, and yes! He was super passive! He showed me interests and being an aqua myself, I reciprocated, so we naturally became a pair. I mean I'm an aqua, if you like me and I like you, I don't need you to pursue me. Let's get together. But due to some misunderstanding, he didn't feel comfortable to be with me. So we went back to become friends to see how things go. I thought if he felt comfortable again, he surely would approach? No, nothing happened. One month passed, I told him if he still had feelings for me. He said we were just friends. So I told him I still liked him a lot so I couldn't possibly be his friend. I was meeting him in a group too frequently for my own good. Maybe later once I moved on and overcame these feelings we could be friends again. He freaked and asked me to try with him again. Told me he was acting indifferent coz he didn't wanna get hurt. The lesson is, taurus men, at least mine, can only be slightly active if they are 100% sure you won't reject them. They don't wanna get hurt or make a fool of themselves.

He's still quite passive like I have to take initiative to text him, hold his hand, hug or kiss him. But he just needs to know that I'm really into him. I don't mind doing all those things. I know he cares for me coz he wants to be with me all the time, ask me to take his macbook air when my laptop is kind of broken, join my family dinner, meet my friends, introduce me to his friends, ask me to put my things in his place and give me key of his place.

Give him a big clear I really like you signal. He'll be more active!

When IS movie night ? Does he know the date ? How many messages have you sent him ? I hate to have to tell you this, but you might have to call him. It is possible he won't answer, but VM can be useful. Since he has admitted to forgetting a lot... you could leave a message like:

"Hi, you told me that you forget a lot, so I was just calling to tell you that movie night is [DAY] commencing at [TIME]. See you !"

5 minutes later you could call again with:

"Hi, you told me that you forget a lot, so I was just calling to tell you that I left you a VM earlier."

If he should happen to answer you could tell him that you were trying to reach his VM because you are shy !

Stupid funny stuff like this. 😉

Don't do it until maybe 2 days before... and until then... stop sending messages. You don't want him to feel your being too anxious. Clever, funny, non-threatening voice messages ought do the trick in getting him to get back to you.

Something else you could say if he happens to call you: "Hello ? What ? Wait ! Are you dumping me ?!!" Get the idea ?

Posted by ksaquayve
I only know one taurus man, my bf, and yes! He was super passive! He showed me interests and being an aqua myself, I reciprocated, so we naturally became a pair. I mean I'm an aqua, if you like me and I like you, I don't need you to pursue me. Let's get together. But due to some misunderstanding, he didn't feel comfortable to be with me. So we went back to become friends to see how things go. I thought if he felt comfortable again, he surely would approach? No, nothing happened. One month passed, I told him if he still had feelings for me. He said we were just friends. So I told him I still liked him a lot so I couldn't possibly be his friend. I was meeting him in a group too frequently for my own good. Maybe later once I moved on and overcame these feelings we could be friends again. He freaked and asked me to try with him again. Told me he was acting indifferent coz he didn't wanna get hurt. The lesson is, taurus men, at least mine, can only be slightly active if they are 100% sure you won't reject them. They don't wanna get hurt or make a fool of themselves.

He's still quite passive like I have to take initiative to text him, hold his hand, hug or kiss him. But he just needs to know that I'm really into him. I don't mind doing all those things. I know he cares for me coz he wants to be with me all the time, ask me to take his macbook air when my laptop is kind of broken, join my family dinner, meet my friends, introduce me to his friends, ask me to put my things in his place and give me key of his place.

Give him a big clear I really like you signal. He'll be more active!

thank you for your insights !! I wish I could peruse him as natrually as you " I like you and you like me so lets get together" lol !! If I Havnt approached him in that way there was no way we would have shared what we did that night lol !! You said give him a big clear ? I don't wanna seem needy or pushy ! N I'm not a natural chaser an he has a crazy impact on me 😢 he makes me even more shy and nervous ! N I think I do the same to him. I think he's being very cautious coz I was in a long term relationship just 3 weeks before I got with him and he knows my ex is still in the picture . We Taurus Hate to be involved with you if you still talk to your exs .. I don't know how to be open to him about it that me n my ex are not going to get back together if he's still in the p

In the picture . I hope he doesn't think that I see him as a rebound !! Certainly not true as I did have an eye for him when I was with my ex ( venus in gemini) hehehe

Wahhhh .. He decided to go and watch the movie with the rest of work people on the date we agreed to watch it ...cause they organized it on the same day .. So I told him to have fun n he said he thought I was going as well .. I told him I thought we were watching it together . .. I told him to have fun ..!! Frustrating n he definately broke my heart lol !!! I should probably give up on him !!!!!!😢 he's probably just not into me !!😢