Yeah, Gemini me, Taurus him

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karebear
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8 Years

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I reached out to Mr. Taurus on Monday. I'll call this phone and he didn't answer so I left him a text message saying that I was just checking on him and making sure he was okay. He called me back immediately, which surprised me. I was certain he would ignore me. Now, I know it would be in my best interest to stop talking to him, but curiosity kills the cat. Anyway, I could tell that something was wrong with him by the sound of his voice. When I asked him what was wrong he said that he had been in an accident at work. He'd been off work for the entire week and that his body was sore. I did the right thing by telling him that I was sorry and asking if he was okay. His response was that he was fine and was getting back into the swing of things. The next question threw me for a loop because I wasn't expecting it. He asked me if I remembered what I said during our last conversation. I played dumb for a moment, but I knew what he meant. This all stems from him not showing up to a dinner date and the text that I sent to him stating that I would never do it again. After the little tug of war that went on for a few minutes I finally came out and mentioned that text. I told him that I was upset that night because he left me hanging without trying to explain why he didn't show up. Keep in mind that he was waiting for the children's Mother to come and pick them up before heading to my place. The thing is is that I felt like he should have called me to tell me that he wasn't sure if he could make it or not instead of just leaving me hanging. I ended up calling him to see what was going on. I felt like that that was the wrong thing for him to do. He felt like that once he mentioned that he was waiting on the mother to pick up the children that I should have understood what was going on. In hindsight maybe I shouldn't have sent him that last text. I explained my viewpoint of the situation and I told him that just because I was upset it doesn't mean that I wouldn't called to check up on him. I'm not sure if he is okay with that answer but he did say that he was angry that night. I asked him if he was angry with me and he made a comment about her not showing up on time. I know most people on here say that I need to move on but it's hard trying to move away from a Taurus. I'm finding that out more and more everyday. Maybe it's my desire to always have a resolution to everything, or the fact that I have to have a complete understanding of someone before I move away. I called a twinge of him still being interested in me, but I also could tell that he was keeping me at arm's length
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karebear
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8 Years

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I just read a comment that you posted on another post. I think it was the post that Nefertari made with different sites for women that are new to the Taurus man. You made a comment about how love is very important to a Taurus and that they don't open up very easily because they see how important it is to make sure they have the right person. I don't know why, but all of a sudden it just clicked. I could honestly see where I went wrong with this whole situation. It's like I've been beating myself in the head for months over something that is so simple. Looking back at this whole entire situation I can see when he meant by me opening up to him. My own insecurities make it seem like I could me playing mind games. Maybe if I was honest, and I mean really honest comma in the beginning I wouldn't be going through this. By the way, the words you spoke in that post or absolutely perfect.