Are Virgos usually indirect with their feelings?!

So I'll try to keep this short. I'm a Capricorn gal and I've known this virgo guy for 2 years now and we've been great friends. We met in college and we live an hour away from each other. Each time we're in each other's town we make it our business to see each other and hang out. Sometimes he's off and on with his feelings. One minute he's all over me the next I don't hear from him. I think this is typical Virgo behavior, or so I hear?


Maybe I'm reading too much into this but just yesterday I posted a random status on facebook saying "I'm one of those people who hums during an awkward moment." And he commented on it saying "Awww I love people like that." Did he just tell me he loves me, in an indirect way?!

I don't want to get my hopes up because I tend to do that a lot with this guy and he usually lets me down because he's so confused with his feelings. I'm just wondering if he was trying to hint at love. We've known each other long enough, and I'm always there for him. We have a great friendship, and we've also been intimate. I wouldn't see why not, but you never know with a virgo!

i'm very direct.. when i talk. the issue that some people might have is that i don't talk much about my feelings. but i will and have talked about my feelings in a very matter of fact, business-like way.

We won't admit love in public like that. Sorry this is not a love declaration to you personally.

Posted by VirgoDragirl
We won't admit love in public like that. Sorry this is not a love declaration to you personally.

While I agree with you about "virgo's not admitting love in public", my experience has been that often they will mirror what you say or tell them. For instance, I like to communicate more through writing. When I've ended my notes with "Love ya", or "Always love you" etc., they will return the same.
However, they will ONLY do this when I initiate it first. It almost seems foreign to them to ever initiate anything using the word, "Love", at least in my experiences.

It's like they are waiting for you to say the "L" word, whether out loud or in a subtle manner. Once you do this, they feel a sense of relief that it was you and not them who made the first move. They definitely aren't the "watch what I do first and listen to what I say first" to make up your mind how I feel about you.
They are not the "movers and shakers" of the zodiac. They prefer reacting to your signal. Honestly, dating a male virgo at times is like a "Mexican Standoff."

Those of you who know that cliche will understand. 😉

Posted by CluelessCancer
Whatever dude i would take the L word from a Virgo with a whole grain of SALT.

They're not concrete beings.

Not a dude. the other half I agree with.

Posted by xMoonMan
I don't know about Virgo guys but the females are still somewhat a mystery to me.

If they like you as a person it's a very good foundation, they certainly don't wear their heart on their sleeve, particularly if they also have Venus in Virgo.

I've only known my Virgo interest for 2 months. She is a hard worker and has career goals, so it is difficult to find her in a space where we can just relax and get to know each other.

To me she is a little like a plant that needs nurturing...till the soil..apply some sunshine..and some water..but you can't make them bloom, they do this only when they feel their roots are strong enough to support further growth.

i've always had an affinity for house plants in particular. in fact leon the professional is one of my favorite movies. 😉

Posted by xMoonMan
HopelessCapricorn & CluelessCancer

Soul sista zodiac opposites with Virgo guy troubles 🙂


*chuckle*

Hey Soul sista 😉 Sorry that you're going through it with your Virgo too. Does he send you mixed signals as well?

Posted by xMoonMan
..but you can't make them bloom, they do this only when they feel their roots are strong enough to support further growth.

😄