Attracting Cancers

This whole year all I have been attracting is Cancers (male & female). It's quite odd really. I do get hit on often and I don't even have to ask anymore, they are always Cancers. I am very much in love with my ex who is a Cancer and in typical Virgo style have been learning everything I can about Cancers since the breakup to hopefully win back the ex. So what's going on? Am I putting out a Cancer vibe? I was also thinking maybe through all this reading/research, I finally am "getting" this often difficult sign and they like it. They all refer to me as their "dream man" within a few dates...that is except the Cancer I am in love with.

Cancers are offbeat and moody.

Trying to win back an ex-Cancer is difficult from what I understand.

They like laid back people, who lead conversations and listen to them when they're telling their stories. They must be chased, cornered and submit to your relationship plans.

to 100percentvirgo :
good luck with the Lady!yes,difficult to understand a cancer.what didn't work for you?

I find it very hard to get a cancer. As soon as you catch them, they manage to wiggle out of your grip and force you to chase them all over again.

I have noticed that cancers are always with cancers and no other sign.

cancersunleomoon123...In this case it's a guy. I am bisexual. Not bi on my way to gay but truely like both.

DyTryin..
Thanks for your response. Well that "inner voice" that I have tells me that he is nuts about me...maybe even his perfect match BUT he will die first before he ever puts his heart on the line. Yes, def good vibes from all cancers, male and female. They are truely hard to understand at times but so worth every bit of energy getting "there" with them. I've grown from this experience with him. I am more understanding and have learned to be very patient. I except him now as who he is and can't change that. If things are meant to be, life has a funny way of making things happen. So all's good. I'm quite handsome haha so I'm sure I wont be single for long now that I have given up on him.

Oh DYTryin,.,would love to read that post you wrote of but could not find it. If you come across it, please send me a link.

Speaking as a homoflexible female cancer with a cancer/virgo/virgo female partner and a virgo/scorp/scorp male friend here....

I know I give a lot of props to effort and remembrance of 'rituals', any shared activities that might be considered a regular activity. I met my partner when we were both in our 20's. We went separate ways for a long time, and reconnected in our 30's. She used her virgo knack of retaining minute details with her cancer knack of knowing when to display emotions in an unstoppable courting strategy. Poems & practicality. Consistency. She laid enough groundwork based on passion and consistency that I finally felt safe enough to trust that she was legit, and we've been together ever since.

I think cancers like the solidity of a virgo who's decided on the one they want. But it has to be a virgo who can roll with the passion of a cancer. Leave some room while still being close enough to stay engaged. After a few years of back & forth, I've also gotten into a solid friendship with my male virgo friend. I know we piss each other off a lot, but we have learned to step back and enjoy the differences. That learning process has been priceless for both of us.

To win back your cancer, I would advise passion and consistency. Make him feel like he has a safe place to let his feelings out. And just keep being there.

Thank you sandyclaws!
I actually decided today to stop chasing. It's doing more harm then anything and at the very least, I want him in my world as a friend. I do believe what you say is true. I think being his friend and always being there for him will show him what I am truely made of. My heart is def set on him but the timing is off. All I can do is keep growing, getting better and if the universe has plans for us, it will happen. It's just really hard to know we are so perfect together but one of us isn't ready. I personally think he needs his heart broken a few times to realize just what a gift we both have in each other. God and we look so hot together also. LOL. Thanks for sharing and your time!