contact after broke up 8yrs ago

my ex virgo contacted me after 8 yrs stated he had thought of me alot and wants to see me..okay it has been 8 yrs he cheated on me...so i think it is strange he calls me..he stated that he didnt know what he had when he had it...what is up with that

"what is up with that"


Eight years is enough time for people to grow, evolve .. which is what people are suppose to do with each new experience they live. It looks like you are stuck viewing him as he was 8 years ago, and still have this image in your head.

People grow up, taurus35 .... that was 8 years ago .. he's likely a completely different person in many aspects.

yeah p angel i know people change..ive changed in 8 yrs..more serious than before,but i seem to have the issue with people with men who try to comeback after the relationship ends..most breakups because of cheating done on their part..so the think is im the type once the love i gone it is gone..i forgive but maybe i dont forget...no hard feelings...just dont think i could go back..friends maybe but that is it.....

I think I'll be very suspicious about tht if he calls me outta the blue and wants to get back with me AFTER 8 YEARS!?!!

Why after such a long time? Couldn't he find someone else in all this time?!

Sounds fishy to me! I would be careful if I were you, especially since he cheated on you and then calls you just like that...

taurus35: what did you decide to do? Did his contacting you dredge up old feelings/wounds and piss you off? Sure people can change, mature, and grow up. Or not.