Ariesgal_Virgoguy
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Dating/Sex w/ Virgo Man
Thanks! That is good to know.
Virgos Love sex... And they are fine with Just having sex and taking care of you and not being commited. If you can deal with that go for it. He wont want you dating other people but he'll more than likely keep his options open. Dont put your heart where your head should be is all I can say.
Proceed with caution and dont have expectations of commitment bc he's already made his intentions clear. He's not going to have some miraculous moment of discovery if thats what you are quietly hoping for. Virgos think things out very clearly wrong or right they are very slow to change.
Good luck!
Proceed with caution and dont have expectations of commitment bc he's already made his intentions clear. He's not going to have some miraculous moment of discovery if thats what you are quietly hoping for. Virgos think things out very clearly wrong or right they are very slow to change.
Good luck!
Posted by Ariesgal_Virgoguy
Hey everyone
Needing opinions on virgo men. Ive been dating/getting to know a virgo man for about a month now. We've only been on one date due to our busy schedules. We talk every day all day though. So recently the sex topic has come up. We are still not sure if we are compatible enough to be in a rship. We both agree we still have a lot more to learn about one another, but he seems to be interested in sex. Will he lose interest if i give in to sex before making it official? Do virgos lose respect for a woman if she gives in to sex before the commitment?
Also, he is 10 year older than i am. Thanks!
Posted by RioAbajo
Virgos Love sex... And they are fine with Just having sex and taking care of you and not being commited. If you can deal with that go for it. He wont want you dating other people but he'll more than likely keep his options open. Dont put your heart where your head should be is all I can say.
Proceed with caution and dont have expectations of commitment bc he's already made his intentions clear. He's not going to have some miraculous moment of discovery if thats what you are quietly hoping for. Virgos think things out very clearly wrong or right they are very slow to change.
FYI Im an aries moon. Im not saying I know exactly what you think but I know that it's my aries moon that makes my emotions run deep and hard. I get sooo turned off without a commitment. It's stressful.
Good luck!
Posted by Ariesgal_Virgoguy
Hey everyone
Needing opinions on virgo men. Ive been dating/getting to know a virgo man for about a month now. We've only been on one date due to our busy schedules. We talk every day all day though. So recently the sex topic has come up. We are still not sure if we are compatible enough to be in a rship. We both agree we still have a lot more to learn about one another, but he seems to be interested in sex. Will he lose interest if i give in to sex before making it official? Do virgos lose respect for a woman if she gives in to sex before the commitment?
Also, he is 10 year older than i am. Thanks!click to expand
It would solely depend on the mindset of the Virgent.
If he is ready for a relationship / commitment, then regardless of when you would both proceed with the sexual side of things. It would not affect his feelings or his view of you.
However, if he had already stated that he is undecided, and not quite ready to make an attachment to you. Then please proceed with caution, because Virgents, are very capable of taking great care of their friends with benefits, should they wish it (After all, they could be quite the gentleman, even when you are merely someone who warms their bed). Except, they have no heart in the matter and could disappear into the thin air without an explanation at all.
If he is ready for a relationship / commitment, then regardless of when you would both proceed with the sexual side of things. It would not affect his feelings or his view of you.
However, if he had already stated that he is undecided, and not quite ready to make an attachment to you. Then please proceed with caution, because Virgents, are very capable of taking great care of their friends with benefits, should they wish it (After all, they could be quite the gentleman, even when you are merely someone who warms their bed). Except, they have no heart in the matter and could disappear into the thin air without an explanation at all.
It's not uncommon for men to lose respect for a woman who is too easy when it comes to sex. This is not just about zodiac signs, it's about how men are wired.
Men are wired to chase, it builds up sexual tension when they have to work for the girl they are attracted to.
If they truly care about you, they will want to get to know the real you before getting physical.
If a man just wants some easy sex, no strings attached, he has many options. Men can walk away from sex with any woman and not be emotionally attached. This is due to the fact that when they have sex, oxytocin is released, which is the hormone that for women, makes us want to cuddle with our partner etc. It has the exact opposite effect on a man. The higher the oxytocin, the lower the testosterone. This is why a man pulls away after sex. He has to recharge his testosterone levels.
The question is do you want to be considered cheap and easy or respected?
If you want a true relationship built upon respect and connection, you wait. If you don't care about traditional aspects of dating etc., then you give it away for free.
There's an old saying that is very pertinent to your situation.
"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" It may sound old fashioned, but its premise holds true.
Men are wired to chase, it builds up sexual tension when they have to work for the girl they are attracted to.
If they truly care about you, they will want to get to know the real you before getting physical.
If a man just wants some easy sex, no strings attached, he has many options. Men can walk away from sex with any woman and not be emotionally attached. This is due to the fact that when they have sex, oxytocin is released, which is the hormone that for women, makes us want to cuddle with our partner etc. It has the exact opposite effect on a man. The higher the oxytocin, the lower the testosterone. This is why a man pulls away after sex. He has to recharge his testosterone levels.
The question is do you want to be considered cheap and easy or respected?
If you want a true relationship built upon respect and connection, you wait. If you don't care about traditional aspects of dating etc., then you give it away for free.
There's an old saying that is very pertinent to your situation.
"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" It may sound old fashioned, but its premise holds true.
Virgo (Sun) here. I love sex, especially with someone you can "communicate" with and "love". I have had casual sex and it's not anything I'd make a routine out of.
The key is how you guys get along and the ability to be present in the relationship. Try hanging out a bit more and see if things lead to sex. Spontaneity is best - nothing link having sex that "just happened". There's no time limit on these things. Hang out, have fun and see where things lead.
Thanks you everyone that commented on my post! It really made things a bit more clear for me.
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