Difficulties with an Aqua

Well, within the last few weeks, I've been talking to a Aquarius woman (who is interested in me, and I her). She will approach me, and we will usually set up a time to call/meet.

Problem is this, she has flaked on me 3 out of the 5 times that we've spent anytime together. And when I say flake, I mean that she doesn't even call to say that she won't make it. Being a typical Virgo, I always have a backup plan (and supportive friends) so I'm never out in the cold, but this is getting annoying... fast.

I guess what I'm wondering is if any other Virgo guys have had problems with Aqua women ever doing what they say they will do. I'm relatively new to astrology, so my experience with other signs is limited.

I'm guessing they'll tell me that's "Their thing."

My aqua male never behaved like that. However, he was always late.

Hey there! You need to make yourself stand out from the rest of the men she's dating, and trust me she's got a few men chasing her down...You need to at all times display a healthy level of self-confidence and maybe even become aloof when your around her...basically become indifferent. Hey you can also just leave her the hell alone and maybe she'll notice your not around waiting on her beck and call, then she'll start to wonder about you. It sounds like she doesnt respect you....I can be the same way (Im an aqua gurl)but I really try to not be because I know it frustrates the other person...oh and Karma!

Thanks for the input! Fortunately for myself, the calm and confident stance is what I default to in this situation. After all, knowledge is power, so I tend to try and keep them guessing in this stage.

Good advice! I'm actually not much of the chasing type... I actually hate that part. I prefer forthright honesty. I'm never deceptive, but I have learned the hard way in the past that you should never lay all your cards on the table unless the relationship is stable.

Perhaps I should just let it go. I've actually got a lot more going for me than most men my age, there's absolutely no reason to put myself in this spot for someone who isn't even courteous.

Oh yeah. Whenever an Aqua woman first starts dating or "getting to know" someone & she starts standing you up, it's because of one of two things: 1) She's got alot of other guys chasing after her (She won't take you seriously or fully show her loyalty to you until you've broken down atleast 1 wall--usually can happen with 1 or 2 really good & deep conversations). OR 2) She's just not that into you. When an Aqua woman is very interested in someone, she may still appear a little difference but when interested, we break out of that "stand people up" phase & you'll see another side of her. I'm an Aqua & I tend to be that way when I first meet guys. Some guys will take my number down (they'll be really really cute) & I'll tell them all day to call me. BUT when they call me, & if they don't grab my attention right away, I'll continually keep telling them I'll call them back in 10 minutes & that 10 minutes might really mean 10 DAYS or when I feel like it

It's just a temporary Aqua thing that usually happens when someone hasn't made that intellectual connection with us. The good thing is it's TEMPORARY. We won't give you the time of day UNLESS you've grabbed OUR attention (we don't just want YOU to be highly intrigued by us, we want to be at home ourselves thinking about you non stop too). You're going to have to grab this girl's attention. Remember, there are 7.6 BILLION people on this earth. Any time you start dating or getting to know someone, you always have to step your game up & automatically assume that you're not the only fish in town. You're going to have to show her that you are worth her TIME more than the other guys that are chasing after you. And also know that, it's probably NOT JUST you that she's standing up. For ever 10 guys that chase after an Aqua woman, 7 of those guys probably have the same "Man she stood me up" story that you have

PERSISTANCE is the key to getting her to focus on YOU when YOU want her to & not just when she decides to on a rainy day

Kraluth, welcome to love (if there is such a thing with a Aqua) with a wind sign. 🙂 lol We are like minded in many ways, so comming up with conversation and things to do can't be too hard....but when it comes to needs....well we're on different wavelengths....she may not take the depth of your feelings so seriously, and you might overestimate hers...point being, expect difficult to arise becuase of your differences, but remember why you wanted to be with her anyway....the differences won't serve as a means to break you up, but bring you together....both are intellectual signs, and admire diversity and differences (especially Virgo) becuase both like things that 'isolate' them from the group.....maybe you two can do that for each other....Really when you look at it that way, you two got nothin' but the world for each other, and becuase your approaches are different, you'll not stop learning from each other....it's all a matter of perspective....My advice is to look for potential, not current situations, look forward rather than where you're at...if you don't have it yet, you WILL. Confidence is for you....know your worth man if you don't, if you do, I'm just reminding you of it.

Will is a direct assertion of the 2 greatest things you can assume control of: YOURSELF AND YOUR DESTINY.

Two intellectual signs work well together....less gap to bridge ya know?