So I am new to this site! I have been reading up a little on Virgos, but I haven't been able to figure out what to do next with my Virguy. We met a few years ago and started "talking" to each other about 4 mos. ago. So he was practicall chasing after me before, now it is hard to get him to pin down a time to hang out. It is always "Just call me." To me, that seems flakey....like possible waiting for something better to come along. I know he gets busy, but I told him how I felt and he told me he wasn't trying to make me feel like that and that he didn't like to make plans because he didn't want to have to chance breaking them. I can respect the thought behind that, but to me screams FLAKE!!! So haven't seen him in about a week (just fine by me), but I let him know in the beginning that I didn't want to just be having sex with someone, like I wanted something more substansial with it. So things are moving slow (fine with), but I wanted to know where I stood so I asked him the other day what he wanted with me. He said he didn't know and the conversation ended. So, I havn't called him and I haven't heard from him. Do I say something to him? or do i let him think it over more---let hime get ahold of me? i don't want to lose him, but i know that i would eventually like something more serious.
