Help me understand this virgo girl!

Hi! My ex is a virgo, we dated for six long years and broke up two years ago.. recently we got reconnected via facebook and started talking through chat... we became friends again since we already moved on.. now i have a new relationship going on and she just broke up with another virgo guy and admit that she still have feelings for his recent ex.... now she was asking advice from me or sometimes just wants to vent out some of her frustrations with the guy.... but i don't get it why she would sometimes bring out our past like trying to compare me with her recent ex like the recent ex was her great love even though it lasted for just a year and tells my faults in the relationship and that her recent ex was like the perfect one for her but it didn't work out because of her pride blah blah blah..... I don't understand her comparing me to her so called great love when everything about us ended two years ago....

nahhh i just don't understand her bringing up the past.. for me it was like criticizing me for my faults two years ago... i mean what's the use? we're already done with it.... and she keeps on inviting me to hang out with her and her new friends... does that mean anything?

Sounds like you are jealous.


Your relationship lasted way longer than this one .. so how could she even begin to compare him to you?

You should grow up ... and come to realize that everything we do in life is based off of an previous experience .. it's called ..

Live and Learn

Posted by ryugetsu
Hi! My ex is a virgo, we dated for six long years and broke up two years ago.. recently we got reconnected via facebook and started talking through chat... we became friends again since we already moved on.. now i have a new relationship going on and she just broke up with another virgo guy and admit that she still have feelings for his recent ex.... now she was asking advice from me or sometimes just wants to vent out some of her frustrations with the guy.... but i don't get it why she would sometimes bring out our past like trying to compare me with her recent ex like the recent ex was her great love even though it lasted for just a year and tells my faults in the relationship and that her recent ex was like the perfect one for her but it didn't work out because of her pride blah blah blah..... I don't understand her comparing me to her so called great love when everything about us ended two years ago....

i can try to share some thoughts, even though i dont know much about the situation.

i think she might have times when she misses you, simply your company and who you are as a person. afterall, at some point in her life, she choose to be with you in a relationship and that is usually pretty huge for virgos.

she hasn't forgotten you and appreciates you now, but trust in her words. virgos usually mean what they say and say what they mean when opening up about thoughts of people...not very good at the game pretending stuff. so, if she says she has feelings for her ex still she probably does.

however, you bring a sense of comfort and she never forgot you (which doesn't mean she wants to necessarily get back or have thought of getting back). so she is probably just trying to reconnect with you to see what's up and how that re-encounter would be like.

if you still like her, go with the flow. it seems that she would be honest with you regarding where she is at if you would want to know more... just make sure you know where you are at as well because it seems that you are both getting along well, even if all you got for now or for good is friendship. if there is something wondering in your mind, you have to be honest to yourself and then go from there. maybe once you see her things will be clearer for you too.