Help with Virgo girl.

Hey everyone 🙂

I could really use Virgo women help. I'm a cusp of Gemini/cancer (jun21st b-day) and I really like this Virgo girl in my acting class. **Bare with the details**

We met in class and we interacted few times doing scenes and short film. Now the current class we are taking, I asked her to help me rehearse for a scene that I'll be doing for a casting director in January.

We first met at a local nice restaurant/bar (since it was the closest location between out town) for quiet corner for rehearsal. I thanked her for valuable time and advices. I paid for the beers, which we only had one so it's not getting crazy. We talked about other things but very light convo.

Then, we met second time a week later at Barnes and Noble, and again we did a scene rehearsal. She recorded me and send me the clip in few days. We talked during about acting, acting schools, etc just a light conversation. I did tell her few details about me like being single and etc but I made her laugh every time we met.

In recent weeks, we did great scene in class being angry and I thanked her via text after class, that her performance was phenomenal and it helped me draw energy from her to do my scene.

I texted her to meet up again to see if she wanted to help me final rehearsal for the agent, but she was busy with shooting project. I said no worries and told her I'm already grateful for her time, advice and she should focus on her project first since that's what any actor would want, to work on a project. I said no big deal if we can't rehearse.

I haven't seen her in last two weeks in class, since she was on another project last week and missed the class. Also, last night she couldn't make it to the class because she hurt her foot at home. The teacher told us so I texted her to feel better and get well soon and words of comfort last night.

Also I occasionally send her pictures of funny things to make her smile. Nothing offensive obviously. Lol

So my questions to Virgo women here is:

1) I brought everyone in the class small gifts for holidays, however I bought her a special baking set and Jasmine candle. The reason is she told me during our rehearsal that she likes to bake when she is stressed. I don't know much about her so that what I had to go with, so should I give that to her? Will she like that? I'm planning to give it to her after class not in front of everyone.

2) should I ask her out on date after New year to museum or ice skating with food and drinks, or is it too early? I would really like to get to know her but I hate texting her every now and then just to make an excuse to talk to her.

I rather get to know her on personal level and her likes/dislikes/what makes her laugh through a date.

Any help/suggestion would be appreciated.

Forgive grammatical typos or mistake due to me posting this through mobile phone at work.

R

Thanks Trifle for your advice. Yeah I thought about getting her scented candle for stress and baking set because she said she bakes when she's stressed, so I paid attention to tiny details. However, that's all I know about her aside from she likes acting like me...lol



Thanks once again! I appreciate it. 🙂

sweet of you. 🙂

Give her the candle and ask her on a date. Good luck 🙂

Thanks Jasmine!

Yeah I'll give her the candle and baking set as one gift next week before we adjourn for the holidays. I'll give her the gift in private since I know Virgo women don't like to be in public light, as much as I know about them.

As for the date, I'll muster up courage and ask her out sometimes in the new year.

Thanks for the advice Jasmine, enjoy your holidays.

R

Btw. I only know her for few weeks, is that a good timeframe to ask her out? I know Virgo like to analyze things until eternity but I don't want to become a "Friend" only also.

Trying to find a fine line of "time" to ask her out...Any advice, fellow Virgo women?

Thanks Trifle and Yupvirgo.

I guess I'll take your advice and I'll ask her out after giving her the gifts.

Thanks once again.

You're very thoughtful. I do think she'll appreciate those gifts. Also your date locations sound nice. Skating and Museums both sound like fun to me. Good luck!

Thanks Eclipse for your words and yeah I'll see her Thursday at class (hopefully). Yeah, I'll give her gifts after the class. Yah I don't know much about her, but I figure she is a Virgo and they appreciate thoughtful gifts and interesting/learning dates so I figured ice skating and/or museum would be lovely to go to NYC and get dinner afterward. Plus there are much more things to be done if one or the other seems boring.

Enjoy your holidays. 🙂

So here's the update. She didn't come to the class yesterday, since she's still recovering from the foot injury.

I texted her and said I had something for her but I'll give it to her after the New Year's. She said that was very sweet and thoughtful.

I told her it wasn't that I felt obligated to give it to her, it was just from my heart I wanted to give it to her for all her help.



So I guess I will give her gift after New Years and ask her out for a dinner/activity.

Do any of your Virgo women think, that giving her a gift and asking her out, she might feel obligated to say yes because I gave her a gift? I hope I don't come across that way.

I just rather spend time with her and get to know her and make her laugh/smile. 🙂