How about an Aries and a Virgo?

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Is there any possible common ground to be found amongst these two completely different types of temperments? Wouldn't you agree that the two could learn so much from each other? And in some ways teach each other and have the dual imperfections blur in time? I am hopelessly in love with a virgo. I have stunning intuition, I sense he likes me but he doesn't understand me. Is it possible for this match to mesh?
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What a coincidence !! I had a huge crush on an aries teacher (born Apr.8), but she moved away.Anyway , go for all the marbles even though in a relationship aries tend to be controlling (i have a aries dad).But if he's not controlling , but supporting and generous , then you can make it work with him.Just go outhere and tell your deep feelings about him.You'll regret it if you don't.
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I say....GO 4 IT!!!! Haven't you heard— Go for the total opposite of WHAT YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO! In other words if you're attracted to someone, STAY AWAY from that person and seek someone TOTALLY OPPOSITE than yourself! I know whenever I'm attracted to someone I NEVER act on it and run the opposite way only cuz I know better. It's the Universe's way of being funny I think or testing us? We attract on energy and like energy ALWAYS attracts the same (Universal laws of karma). Therefore it stands to reason that a person sould seek someone totally different then themselves.

Sounds crazy but true. People have to remember that we attract OUR MIRROR IMAGE...until we literally get sick of looking at ourselves and then we have to "run away from ourselves cuz very seldom are we as a person willing to change. It's easier to leave and go on to the next w/out relizing that we are repeating our pattern".

Sounds like you have the right idea. You know that you are opposites but you know that it'll work!! And believe me it will!

That's why "mirror" relationships very seldom work out. It's the ones that are truly opposite of the other person that work cuz of the challenges that they offer from learning from each other. And this in turn will allow them to grow. If both were the "same" where's the challenge and growth?

Take myself...I'm a Sag in love w/a Cap. You can't believe how well we relate to one another! It's almost magical when we are together! You'll never know until you find out for yourself what the "outcome" will be so...give it your all and your best!
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To 12.89.140.19, could you perchance elaborate on your relationship with the Capricorn? You see, I'm a Capricorn who thinks he may be desperately in love with a Saggittarian. But we're hardly opposites- although we might be opposites of opposites. We connect on so many levels that she's busy finishing my sentences and I always know just how to make her usually sunny days even brighter! I could write a book here about us and still probably not say all I'd like, but basically from what I hear this relationship is fated from the start of things because our suns are so different. My best friend was born on the same day she was, too, and he's managed to kick around for twelve years or so of my seventeen year life, but I've always worried about us drifting apart with the years- especially after graduation next spring.

I really don't know what I'm saying here, just a lot of words taking up space while searching for some hidden deeper thing to say while avoiding cheesiness and melodrama. But I'd still like to know about your relationship with the Capricorn.
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For 63.170.71.99. I too (Sag) finish my Caps' sentences LOL! We are like magic when we are together. He is sooooo reserved and shy and I the ever bubbly optimistic jovial person seem to bring out the zest in living for him. But geez can we relate on ALL LEVELS of life. We are so different on the outside yet so much alike underneath! I think that's what makes it so interesting. Of course it took him a while in the beginning for him to "trust" me and feel comfy.

I do not go by sun signs cuz if you read a Sag w/A Cap not one will say they are good together. But upon seeing where my Cappy's personal planets were (which are MORE important than sun sign BTW) his are all in either Sag. or Acqu.!!! Our compatabilities either conjunct, trine, or sextile the others. We are very harmonious together. You can not go by sun sign only. It's a misconception people make. There are other factors involved. And in comparing both mine and the caps I can see why we get along so well.

If you really care about this Saggie give her a chance. She will make your world wonderful! Filled with love and joy and NEVER a dull moment! But please do share your feelings with her. I know Caps have a hard time with this matter, but if you're up front with your Saggie and least she'll know what to expect. If you don't make her aware of it, she's going to think you're playing games with her and she might not ever want to see you again. So please be honest w/her. We love honesty and we are very understanding as long as we know where the guy "is coming from".

BTW if you post both your birthdays I can let you know how compatabile you are w/each other.
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Your relationship w/the Sagi could never be fated. Talk about stellar and above and beyond harmonious for 2 people. It's like you were born to be together! I can now see why you get along w/her so well. You just ought to! Tell me...how does she feel about you? Are you "just friends" or are you hoping for a relationship with her?

I hope you two guys get together. You relate on all levels just like you said. The majority of her planetary placements are in Cappy! Between the two of you there is tremendous understanding on the emotional, social, spiritual and intellectual levels cuz both of you can relate to each other. Each of your placements compliments the other person's placements which was pretty funny IMO.

If you haven't asked her for a date yet you should.

BTW those charts are meant more for "details" and really don't let one know if they are in harmony with a person or not. To be finding out if a couple is harmonious is more important than what's going on "in the houses". That to me is irrelevant cuz if you got an understanding person by your side, the 2 people can get thru anything!

Let us know what happens!
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Hi again! Like I said your placements are mainly in "water signs" making you a very sensitive and emotional individual. The guy you are either seeing or are interested in...his placements are mostly in "fire signs". This relationship would be considered on the "physical level". The magical vibes you feel are courtesy of both your Mars placement. Yours in Cancer his in Pisces - both very compatible signs. Mars rules passion!

This relationship would require a lot of work on both your parts, but NOT impossible - depending on what both of you are will to put into it. You have to remember astrology is used as a "tool for insight into others" and nothing else. It was not meant to show who IS compatible with whom and who ISN'T. If you are both able to get together and enjoy being with each other IMO that's all that matters. If it works...great! If it doesn't than it wasn't meant to be.

If you're looking for a physcial relationship at this time this guy would be great (I say go for it and enjoy!). For a long term partner I would seriously consider a "water" sign. He would be more complimentary and understanding for you .
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To the one who analyzes the charts: Yes, I asked her out- but reluctantly- a month ago, and so far it's been my first real relationship and already she's been talking about seeing how things stand after highschool (we're seniors) and how romantic it would be to end up spending her life with someone she met in highschool. I've gone over the top for her myself, but I'm a bit intimidated at how fast things have gone and how deep our little bond is getting. Then again, I've grown up with the warnings and musings of two parents who got married almost straight out of highschool after dating since my mother was in 9th grade, and I've said time and again how I'm not going to be like my parents! Then again, they don't like my idea of wanting to become a professional musician like my great-grandpa either...
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Just take one day at a time with your friend. I don't know I think there's something magical between a Cappy and Saggie for some reason, only no one may know about it cuz it's the best kept secret? Or perhaps it may be the planetary placements afterall? I for one am surprised with my friend so I know that there is more to this combo than what astro zodiacs have to say (which is usually not good).

Have a terrific summer with one another if you are able to!
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Like I said just enjoy one another. Afterall that's what life's about isn't it? Since you also seem to be aware of the physical attraction just remember to keep this registered somewhere in the back of your mind JUST IN CASE it doesn't work out between the two of you. (See how astrology is meant as a tool and nothing else?) That way you won't feel so hurt if it comes down to that (I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it doesn't BTW!)

Whatever the feelings may be between the two of you....be them emotional or physical just enjoy the time with each other! Life is about Learning and Growing. Have fun!