she always side eyes me and sometimes even turn completely around and look at me. i asked her if she was going to this bonfire thing she looked up really slowly and timid at me and just said yeah, when her friend came over they left and i wound up catching up with them again in the hallways catching my bus. her friend just turned around at me and said something in her ear and was smiling. everytime i tell myself im gonna talk to her i get so nervous cuz i like her so much. and i think she likes me back, do you? Also, whenever i do try to talk to her she gives very short answers and shes so tense. and it feels like in being annoying to her. any tips?
how to approach a very shy virgo girl?
im a libra by the way.
You'll never know unless you talk to her more. If she's as shy as you say, then even if she likes you she won't be making the first move. It sounds like she could like you, but I can't say so for certain. Talk to her at the bonfire. Get her alone (not in a creepy way, just like a conversation between you two, no one around, no pressures) and she might open up a little. Joke with her, get her to talk a little bit about herself. It can be frustrating dealing with a girl that shy, but if she's willing to talk to you and let you in, you might just find there's more to her than shyness.
Posted by Virggy
You'll never know unless you talk to her more. If she's as shy as you say, then even if she likes you she won't be making the first move. It sounds like she could like you, but I can't say so for certain. Talk to her at the bonfire. Get her alone (not in a creepy way, just like a conversation between you two, no one around, no pressures) and she might open up a little. Joke with her, get her to talk a little bit about herself. It can be frustrating dealing with a girl that shy, but if she's willing to talk to you and let you in, you might just find there's more to her than shyness.
what if i bluntly ask her, ? would that make her retreat and pull away?

The whole blunt route won't get you far with a shy Virgo... She'll just pull away n think you're a wierdo.

Virgos r slow moving creatures when it comes to this sort of thing because we are grounded cautious earth signs, so imagine how much more slow she has to move being shy and all..
Make small talk, hi how r u? Talk about what you have in common (school, classes, etc)... Be charming but don't assume you're in the "clear". N just vibe off of her.. ask her ahout herself, afterall you are interested in getting to know her...
Make small talk, hi how r u? Talk about what you have in common (school, classes, etc)... Be charming but don't assume you're in the "clear". N just vibe off of her.. ask her ahout herself, afterall you are interested in getting to know her...

I am a Virgo gal and I must agree a little with the other virgo. I think she likes you... If seems tense and smiles a bit... She likes you. She just doesn't know if you like HER!! LoL!!
They way to a Virgo's heart is to make them feel secure... Make her know that you like her.. Then she will be comfortable enough to show that she likes YOU!! She will still be shy... But that is only because us Virgo's tend to over think. She likes You!! Show her you like her!! _—
They way to a Virgo's heart is to make them feel secure... Make her know that you like her.. Then she will be comfortable enough to show that she likes YOU!! She will still be shy... But that is only because us Virgo's tend to over think. She likes You!! Show her you like her!! _—
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