I'm depressed of Virgo and Pisces incompatibility

Please somebody tell me that there is hope =[

Hi Branh0913, thank you for the enlightenment and thank you for the hope that I thought never existed. I'm infatuated with a Virgo but you see this Virgo has sort of pushed me away but then would keep comming back to me ever so often wanting to be friends. I have finally came to accept that he is what he is and I have come to love him for that. He can get pretty critical and it hurts me but then I just tend to forgive and forget. I just don't want to hurt him if I fought back you know. How do you approach a Virgo in a way that he will not attack you? how do you make him like you? how do you make him love you =/

Hi Branh0913,
I am starting to get discouraged now but I don't want to be. It's about something that happened today, he had told me last night to call him this morning so he can tell me when to come over to hang out. So then I woke up this morning only had 3 hours of sleep and the alarm on my phone woke me up so I called him shortly. He told me that he would have to get ready and then do some work etc...first then he would call me back but it's already 10pm now and he hasn't called. Perhaps he wanted me to come at night I don't know. But I'm confused, I signed on the messenger and he was on so I waited for him to message me, I went to the kitchen and did other things, even watched a movie on my computer and no instant message from him. I don't know if he was waiting for me to message him first or what, I usually message him first whenever I go on but I guess I just wanted to see if he would make the first move, to my suprize he signed off LOL, I just laughed like okay whatever. I don't know if he was playing hard to get or if he was upset that I hadn't messaged him first, but then it's such a petty thing you know like big deal. He always seems to make a big deal out of the little things like I supposedly denied something and I told him that no I wasn't denying anything I just didn't give you a straight forward answer and he would get mad and upset about it then he would tell me that we shouldn't hang anymore so it would hurt me because I wanted to be his friend so then I'd say ok then sign off the messenger then later on I'd be online and he would message me and bring old stuff back again like oh you could have come here had we not fought etc.. and it's like oh my god, so then I'd tell him that it's his fault then he'd deny it. Last night I asked him what date his birthday was because I remember he said September and that's when I checked that he's a Virgo but I forgot the date, I wanted to know if he belonged to the first, second, or third deccan or something and he belongs in the second the worst of the bunch (no offense) unlike the August Virgos personable, but him, he loves to work. Sigh I'm really trying to understand this Virgo but it seems like he only limits it to sex. I heard that most Virgos are cheaters? I'm not sure. Well if that's the case then I was thinking that maybe he was dating other girls and having sex with them as well but I shouldn't be mad and I'm not because we are not even formally together. I don't know if he got jealous when I told him that I was talking to some guys also, like getting to know them as friends etc... Oh yea last night I told him "You're a Virgo and Virgos are very intelligent creatures" and then all of a sudden he tells me that he is horny, this made me wonder: Do Virgos get horny when you give them a little ego boost? Um yea sorry, I am getting carried away I need to breathe lol.

Awww I'm sorry about your past relationship with a Pisces, perhaps maybe there's still hope for you? Just email her again and tell her exactly how you feel about her, take all the pride aside and pour your heart out, Pisces will appreciate this ummhmmm we are very forgiving creatures and we love it especially when the person takes the initiative to come to us first especially when we've been done wrong by that person. You see even when you hurt us we're the ones who come to you to apologize when it should be the other way around, this hurts the Pisces but we do anything and everything to make you happy and bring back the peace, we just like to live in harmony. Love is a wonderful thing, you see if you love and you feel the love around you you can find inner peace. We don't like to feel sorrow because we are very emotional beings, when we are happy we are happier than someone who's won the lottery and when we are sad it's as if a loved one has died. We feel everything to the extremes, we are very sensitive and we only ask for people to be gentle to us, you don't have to like us but at least res

I think I had mispellings and run on sentences pardon me oooo I had a typo: suRprize

Hi Branh0913, ooooooo I appreciate you posting here on the weekdays as you said that you only post on the weekends. Um actually I'm trying to figure that one out myself (searching on google)which decan I belong to, I was born March 18, 1983. I'm thinking perhaps I belong in the second? I'd love to know! Physically, I've always gotten compliments, not trying to be conceited or anything but I get stalked often to the point that I just stay home, even my own parents tell me that I have a very strong sex appeal and I was quite shocked! =O! I'm 5'4" 113lbs, I'll post pictures up later.

Hmmm, my general mentality concerning men...Well, I think that men are gentle creatures, even the bad ones because I always tell myself that deep inside there's a good person in them. I feel that they tend to wear a mask to hide what's underneath, like they act tough to show their masculinity and my goal is to remove that mask and see the real person behind that mask. Um, I'm trying to convey my thoughs as clearly as I can but my mind seem to wander lol sorry. Anyway, I believe that they need love shown through actions and someone to understand and care for them. I usually just tend to yield to their wants and needs to make them happy because when they are happy then I am happy. I love it when they laugh and smile because as a Pisces I love to laugh and smile and just be happy, as I've mentioned before, Pisceans feel emotions to the extremes, if we are sad we are really sad and when we're happy boy it feels like heaven and we want others to feel the same way we do. We are generous at everything, especially feelings. I for one love to share my stories, achievements etc... to people not because I'm bragging but because I want them to put their feet in my shoes to feel that high, although unfortunately people see it as me boasting. We are touchy people because when we touch you we want you to reciprocate in hopes that you would also feel how we feel. Sometimes I feel that I don't make any sense lol but my imagination carries me away, even typing this I feel like I'm high sorry lol. I don't know about other Pisceans but I tend to be expressive. My mother who is a very conservative (cold/heartless/critical/backstabbing...sorry judgemental Pisces again) Capricorn thinks that I'm crazy because when I express my feelings my face shines bright, my eyes twinkle and smile (yes my eyes smile LOL), and my cheeks, I could feel them stretch out and it just stays there to the point where it hurts. Sorry, I get real descriptive. Umm where was I? uh oh Pisces memory loss...OH yea! I like to show the men in my life that I truly care about them by showing it through my actions. I've done all sorts of things cook, clean, do their laundry, pay for their bills, sugar mommy! oh boy! but I certainly didn't mind, call me crazy but I loved it! I like to see them happy, and I feel very awkward when they pay for my meal, so no one has really ever paid for my meals lol, I pay for everything. I feel like a mother figure to them, and feel the need to do everything for them, scrub them in the shower, srub their floors hahahah getting carried away like a lunatic sorry. Um, I am very forgiving, I think about something wrong done to me for one minute and then eventually get over and forget about it, when I do remember, I just laugh it off then go about my business. What's wierd is that the more they push me away, the more I want to come to them as I feel that I am obligated to help correct them. Hmmmm, my dream guy is someone who is nice, kind, gentle and respects me, someone who will come up to me and randomly kiss me from behind or caress my right arm (haha something about my right arm) that makes me stick my neck out like a giraffe and feel like a dying plant that's been watered. I expect him to cudle with me at night, that's usually when I get sentimental and emotional, that's the time when I'm reminiscing about the good and the bad times (I tend to bottle up feelings the

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This thread is a bit of a relief for me as well.

You see, I've landed myself a wonderful virgo (being a pisces myself). But his harsh critical side definitely comes out.

So there I would be, having an inner hurricane that is blowing out of all logical proportions, while he seems totally aloof and unaffected by anything. I just want to grab him, and start wailing about his insensitivity. But then he turns around, keeping his cool, and becomes a non-critical friendly virgo... I think the problem is that pisces take every little issue as an omen leading to the end of the world. And it's just weird that virgo, after being so harsh, doesn't leave me. ... OY. Also, I keep waiting for him to change for the worst. While I'm the unstable one.

The craziest thing about this relationship, is that he truly brings out the most intense emotions both positive and negative that I have ever felt towards a person.

Oh man, now my eye is twitching.. Maybe I need to see a neurologist or something.

I am just curious, what goes on in the heads of our lovely virgos, when they seem to be completely appalled by our flaws? I would think he wouldn't stay a second longer. But
he tells me he loves me instead.

Thank you for such wonderful insight, Branh0913.

You are so incredibly right about communication. I have realized it's something that needs to be done in order to keep peace and balance on both ends. It's challenging for me, but well worth it. My virgo is teaching me so much.

Honestly, I used to have a bit of a cynical opinion about virgos... Not that I loathed the sign, it just seemed like our approaches to things are way different; it felt too rigid and restricted to me. The weird thing was, one virgo man after another seemed to be following me. This particular one, however, I actually followed him. 🙂

Now I have utter respect for those born under this sign, I just understand more where they are coming from at least.

A Virgo and Pisces Incompatibility— Hmmmm, that's strange. I thought they were great together. No wait. . . the only way it'll work is that the Virgo is alittle less critical and more sensitive with a tender touch, while Pisces tone it down with the over-sensitivity and be less overly emotional. I know, because from the way my relationship began with my best friend. . . Well, we argued alot. Now, we love eachother so dearly that we wonder how we ever lived without knowing eachother sooner. Along with that deep love is mutual trust, devotion, loyalty, and alot of communication. We are very alike at heart, yet mentally we approach things differently. He keeps me grounded, and gives me strength to where I have more backbone. Even when we are apart, it's like we aren't apart at all. My advice to other Vigin/Fish pairing is patience, compromise and honest communication. It's okay to vent your negative feelings of eachother. Sure their will be an emotional reaction, but it's not a bad thing. That will only gel you closer together to knowing how you really feel to where you'd improve for eachother, because you love eachother. Trust me. Exposing those negative feelings will only lead to making up for what you did and didn't do for eachother.