Indirection=Immaturity

I've been think about the concept of maturity....an adult hasn't a problem with being straight forward and putting out what they feel, but a child will use trickery, and side swipping methods to express their feelings.....so, is it rational/fair to state as a general rule that an indirect temperment is a person lacking in maturity? What for that matter is maturity? How can we really know we are at all mature? I don't think I'm mature, I'd just like to know how it is we know we've arived at an end in our journey for wisdom?

I'm asking this becuase I'm seeking to make a major change in my life....I need to change my perspective becuase I'm bored being 'this exact person' I need to look at life in a new way....so people what is maturity?

Maturity indicate that a person responds to the circumstances or environment in an appropriate manner. Appropriate is the key phrase here, appropriate for one person does not mean appropriate to another. IMO appropriate is a response that will show or give all parties involved a sense of respect, and fair results

So your saying diplomacy is the conerstone to maturity? What about assertion? If a situation calls for it and a person is overly-passive what then? They comply and fail to assert a sense of personal respect by complying, and are essential crushed. What you said is true, but only a 'half-truth' in terms of maturity being responding in a way that will show all parties involved a sense of respect, and fair results: in reality we should grow to expect that all things aren't fair, and justice/fair play is a matter of perspective ....so this has become rather contradicting...saying what is appropriate for one, and not the other, and making sure that all parties involved are treated fairly is rally a contrary view of things becuase what works for one can't work for all, and as long as there is an ego in matters, it will always collide with the collective group.....I'm still seeing black and white...can't quite make it grey.....

I suppose timing is of the essence then huh?.....and Diplomacy would in that case be a mature approach to a situation.....I suppose one should not get overly compliant....