Is this typical?

I had spent a few days with a close friend--a Virgo, whom I have known for quite some time. It appeared to me that she has certain characteristics that infuriate me. She has a nasty habit of analysing all the people in her life and likes to explain (in the longest form of verbosity mind you) about who did wrong to her and what's wrong with them. I can't stand these criticisms!! Can't she realize that not every one is perfect?? Also, when she tells you a story or briefs you on an event, she rambles on and on...I cut her short once and she didn't take it well but shit! It's like, "You wanna get to the point?!!" Is this typical of Virgos?? Do they tend to ramble on or is it just her?? She's actually Virgo with Leo cusp.

Hi Sloane, maybe not all Virgos do this but both of my parents are Virgos and they are exactly as you described about rambling on and on. They also liked to lay guilt trips on me too.

YES! That's what this friend of mine does!! And my mother (a Virgo) has done to me all my life! God, you really nailed it. Don't these types know that they're causing more damage to other's emotional well-being than anything else? That's what my mon has done and I'm sick and tired of the criticisng crap I get from this old friend of mine. Sometimes I think I should throw in the towel with her.

Hey Sloane , this is your buddy here.Yes , we virgos love to analyze , but some virgos tend to do it too much.The reason why virgos do guilt trips is so that we can make someone feel sorry for us.Your buddy with a leo cusp is no exception to the rule.But if virgos can't make someone feel sorry for us , then it would be the time to "push them away" with our rants and raves.By then, some will walk away, some will argue 'til they get the last word (ask leos , they do s*** like that !!) But anyway , some virgos will analyze and criticize people to an oblivion.And we will take it personal because we don't want to burden our frustrations with somebody else.But some virgos will flat out throw their problems to your face without any remorse.

G-Virgo

Why do Virgo's need people to feel sorry for them??

Just in case virgos need a shoulder to cry on despite their rants and raves.And in the end, it's up to us as virgos to bury the hatchet.

o, that is a correct statement. I don't feel sorry about the signs who seem to continuously want to find Virgo's at fault. I'm sick and tired of being blamed as someone with the stereotype of not being able to follow through with my depth of feeling. Whether it be appeasing to others or abiding. I can only be myself. Always-That's my take on the Virgo bushing's. If I annoy other's, than just avoid me. I'm not, a weak sign...Sorry. I don't feel a need to be soooo very compassionate. Plain and simple. I'm tired of hearing the criticism of other signs bashing Virgo's while we have always had the capacity to be loved for our strength's rather than being placed as a people who haven't grown from our own life's lessons. Also from our ability to view reality as being exactly that-reality? I'm hearing folks who whine like babies and then wonder why a Virgo doesn't have time to hear them? Like they expect life to be given to them?? Virgo's are not the enemy. We have problems too. The difference is...I'm not going to blame you for them. The last thing I want to leave folks thinking is this-don't judge me for stating my thought's honestly. Is that wrong? Is it? Why? It's just me-telling you my disbelief on what people are judging me to be. So take a look at yourself before you even think about judging me. Peace-out.

Yes, Yes, it true I use to be like that(don't know about other virgos), blame and critisize people for what they are and make them fell sorry, talk with my frids it there baks, even selfis sometimes, NOW it all like in one of those cheep dram movies when the past chaces up to you and people talk behind my back NOW and all my frend are gone and I realize some things 1.the more I don't care the batter (no felling, no gilt,no pain (emotionaly)) 2. The more time passes the more I mess up

3.Keep you big mout shut(this is in my chase im not telling you people to shut up you can say watever you want its a free contry) and you wont get in trouble

What a mess! LOL

There's a thing called "discretion" and that means you don't talk or critisize others behind thier backs--no matter how long you have know someone--and this too is what my Virgo friend does ALL THE TIME! She NEVER learns. It only comes back to you and bites you in the a**. It will with her. You're just better off keeping your mouth shut is my motto.

There is a big variation in all signs due to the rest of their charts. But, the guy I am seeing is so very Virgo! He tells me how everyone should be running their lives better. Also, when I want to talk about something, in 20 months, he has never continued the conversation to get me to go on about my subject. He ALWAYS takes the conversation back to himself. I used to get angry about it and tell him how it makes me feel. But, I have given up!

welcome to virgo world!