Is this typical Virgo behavior?

My Virgo and I are seeing each other again and were together was last Friday night. All day Saturday we were together running errands and so forth. I didn't expect to hear from him so soon, but he called me Sunday evening wanting to go on a bike ride, however I missed his call as I was in the laundry room so I had to call him back. I told him I had luandry in the wash which needed to get finished. Called me again Monday night to see what I was up to, but I had to call him back because I didn't hear the phone ring right away as it was on vibrate (was in library earlier. He then called again Tueday morning and I missed his call because I was downstairs getting the mail. He left me a message,"why don't you answer your phone anymore?". I called him back but he didn't answer. Saw him later and he acted nice but a little distant. I did see him last night for a little bit at his house but didn't stay long because he was sick. He was cool with me but I'm just wondering what was going through his head and is he thinking for some reason I'm puprosely avoiding his calls or playing games with him? I did tell him not to be upset with me for being lame and forgetting to turn my volume back up.

Also, when you Virgos are sick, do you like to be left alone? He was cool last night but very quiet, so I told him hope he felt better soon and would see him later. He was out of some stuff, however when I offered to go to the store to get the items he said, "thanks, but thats ok, I'll shop when I feel better". Should I give him a call in a few days to see how he's doing and let him know I'm here if he needs me or just leave him alone for now? Thanks in advance for any advice given 🙂

He looked pretty sick (he said he'd been sick the last 2-3 days) and I could tell he hadn't left the house in a few days.

Everyone has seriously got to understand that--for the most part, the sign likes to be left alone.

If we have snot running down our nose and dripping off our lips, yes, we want to be left alone.

As far as feeling achy, once the fever dies down and we just feel a little under-the-weather, that's your window of opportunity, as we would really like to be babied a bit then.

But in the throes of a raging fever? No--please leave us be.

He knows how to contact you, and he'll reach out to you when/if he's ready.

As for the phone calls--yes, he probably thinks you're playing games.
Y U No Have Cellphone On You?

Ok so you missed his calls what's the big deal? You called him back. If he decides to be distant that's not your problem. Leave him be and don't get sucked into the madness feeling like you need to be shitting stars and fairy dust out of your behind for him now.

I may be a different breed, but when I'm sick, I would love if someone pampered me for a little. But, I just kind of know people really aren't going to do that, so I'm usually left to fix myself up. If I'm not on the top of my game, I'll be pretty out of it, but I would still appreciate if my SO was there. Makes me feel like the person cares.

Also the phone call thing, don't even sweat it. If he's going to get pissy, leave him alone. I honestly forget my phone all the time/forget to turn it off vibrate. If you explained why and he's still getting upset, well go do your own thing until he gets over it. I know what's going through this head, and while it's understandable, he can realize that accidents happen and that you're not playing him.

After 17 years as his friend and you don't know what to do?Really?What you are really asking = how can I help him without getting personally or emotionally involved,but still have access to him and all the things he does for me.Mail him one of your famous cards and stick some dry soup in it.