Is this Virgo guy falling for me??

Hello everyone. I'm new here.
I need a little help with my guy friend who happens to be Virgo. So, here's the story- I'm a Taurus girl and me and the Virgo guy, met through mutual friends.We clicked instantly. During our first few meetings (in group) I felt like he's hitting on me. I asked him straight away and he completely declined. He said he can never fall for me. After that everything was cool. We talk almost everyday, but only in a casual way. I never got any direct hints. But from last few weeks he's telling me I'm the best girl he met, he don't want to let me go ever, he calls me every morning just to say 'Good Morning' and is always ready to meet whenever I say. I can't decide whether he's just saying it or is there something else he wanna express. I am sure I am Not falling for him although I do want him as a friend. He is very cheerful and cares about me a lot. What if he's falling for me, I don't wanna loose him but I also can't be more than friends.

please tell me if I'm going wrong in judging him. Are all Virgo guys are like this only? I've never been friends with a Virgo guy before.

Hi uker83.
See, there's one more thing. Since we've been friends for a few months now, I came to know that his many other female friends have fallen for him, taking the idea that he feels the same way. I'm afraid if I'm complete idiot to think like those girls. May be its his basic nature to treat every girl like that. I don't want to do anything stupid that could ruin our friendship. Should I just keep my mouth shut and let things be?
But I seriously don't want this to turn into love. I can't hurt him, he's too nice.

Wow.
Someone who's posting about
not wanting a Virgo's love.

Hey, I'm not saying I don't want his love, I'm just afraid to enter into a relationship at this point. The guy is so awesome and undoubtedly the best guy I've ever met. I'm too afraid of doing anything stupid to loose him. I just can't figure out where is this thing between me and him is heading to.
Please guys, I mean no offences.

Thanks uker dear. I'd definitely keep that in mind. 🙂

I agree, just be friends & relax 🙂 Virgos are very cheerful & charming with their words & like to compliment people. But it doesn't always mean we are trying to put a ring on your finger. We're Just being nice. Look for these signs : Watch if he talks about other girls...If he talks about them like they're sisters or downgrades them. OR Notice if he NEVER talks about them at all! Then he possibly does want you. Guys don't want to mess things up by overtalking about other girls.

But stay friends, you be in charge of who YOU want to date.

Be In Charge of Your Love Life. Always!

Thanks Rapunzel. The guy is really awesome. About other girls, he talks about them all the time. Its like, when we don't have anything to talk, he comes with a story of some girl who used to like him. Now I feel I was wrong from the beginning. Anyways, we are good friends and I wish we stay friends for a long time.

You're welcome. Good luck with the friendship 🙂 🙂 🙂

difficult to comment without seeing his chart.

@ cluelessCancer- For me too, the morning calls are the top reason I asked this question. I have many guy friends, but no one has done that before. So I was little confused.

@ TheMoodyVulcan: Well, I too want to stick with the "Just Friends", and don't wanna do anything stupid that can screw our friendship. I know girls start acting weird once they feel the guy is liking them. I dont wanna be one of those. Even the my friend in question has said this many times that he gets annoyed when girls mistook his concern for something else. So far I've tried my best not to say or do anything idiotic and things are going pretty good. But the way he takes care of me, esp. calling every single morning and mostly every night (just to say 'sleep well'), to be honest, It confuses me.

Posted by AngieTheTaurean

But the way he takes care of me, esp. calling every single morning and mostly every night (just to say 'sleep well'), to be honest, It confuses me.

Umm, Yeah.

If he's calling every morning, and most nights, that's going beyond friendship, I would think.

His method, which he is probably using unconciously, is a method that people can use to turn their desires into reality.
That method is to use their minds and imaginations to visualize the preferred outcome just upon awakening and right before falling asleep.

By him doing these contacts at those times, consistently, is more than just "being friends", in my view.

This is not an astrological opinion.

@ CluelessCancer: I was so relieved to hear your story. I wish mine turns out to be a similar one. I swear he has no idea what's going on in my mind. I never gave him any mixed signal. We are friends and for me, we are the same as we were few months back. I just hope everything goes fine. The thing is right now, both of us are single. I just hope he soon gets his partner so that this whole confusion ends.

@ dejaVwe : I must say I have to agree with you. The first both of do in morning is to talk (even if just to say Hi, Good morning, c ya later) and mostly before sleeping (Hi, sleep well. bye) I could not say what exactly is happening, but for now, I'm the only person he is talking that frequently. Seriously.

Being a Taurean, I'm not very comfortable with change, So from last few weeks these little things are making me think again about him. I never got any hints that he wants something beyond friendship but still, the frequency of our meetings and phone calls has been increasing. I cant deny his calls or meeting coz I dont wanna look weird to him. I too wanna see him whenever I get a chance. I was assuming may be its his nature to be that friendly with every other friend. But now sometimes I'm having second thoughts.