Male Bull Asking for Some Advice

Dear Virgo Ladies,

May I ask for your advice? A few weeks ago I met a really lovely Virgo girl, we had been getting along very well, had very enjoyable conversations, caught up for coffees etc. All of a sudden she has disappeared and I am thinking was it something I said or had done? Do Virgo women disappear if they feel a guy is getting too close or encroaching on their private world? I did notice that she loved asking me questions but was not as forthcoming when I asked her.

Any piece of advice would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers

SB

She is analyzing everything...

and yes we can disappear too and we are private people...we ask questions because it helps us analyze the crap outta the person lol

Give her some time..and she may come around..or you may have said something she didnt care for...Idk I wasnt there.

Posted by unlimitedinfiniti

Posted by LostinmyMind11
She is analyzing everything...

and yes we can disappear too and we are private people...we ask questions because it helps us analyze the crap outta the person lol

Give her some time..and she may come around..or you may have said something she didnt care for...Idk I wasnt there.

lol is it like every post in the virgo forum gotta do with a virgo man or virgo female disappearing? or is it just me?

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apparently people dont like it 😛

Its not just a virgo trait...like you said everyone from both genders disappear

While I do like my alone time to think.. The only time I disappear is when I'm turned off.. Could be anything to trigger it. For me it's mostly stupidity, immaturity, or just plain annoying people. I hope you aren't any of those things!

just have patience with her and don't give up on her if the feelings are mutual. virgos may not be vocal but they are thoughtful and emotional.

Posted by xvll27
and By the way I'd like to add here even if Virgo girls are busy and get disappeared they don't forget about anything but it has nothing to do with you all you need to wait for like 15-20day she might get appeared 🙂

it's true if they like you they remember everything about you, and you will see things you like come up in things they do for you.

Virgo women are not easy to read like the other signs, apparently. The ladies on this forum have been really helpful. Let her process, just be persistent, but not clingy or needy.

If you really have to keep pushing, it's okay to tell her: "I'm a very persistent person when I'm going for something I'm interested in. However, I realize that I'm not for everyone and I'm absolutely fine with that. But you are hard to read. If you have no interest in me at all, I don't want to make it awkward for you. If you want me to stop, just say so and we'll be cool. Do you want me to stop asking you?"

With women who might be playing hard to get, I have never had a woman (yet), say that she wanted me to stop. If anything, it appears that they have a "Holy s**T" moment and you usually end up seeing them again. A lot of times, they ask you out.

Just some thoughts from a Virgo guy.

My findings of Virgo's are, they shy to start with, especially if they like you. They communicate a lot with body language. A brush of your shoulder with their hand or similar is their way of telling you they like you. Note she's analysing the hell out of you, are you suitable, could this work, are you gonna muck up my stuff, which I've only just got into some level of sortedness.

The confusing thing is that it's all so damn subtle. If you felt the date went well, then it probably did. She's gone away to process all the data, she's acquired about you.

VirgoFromCo, advice is spot on. Thats exactly what they want to hear. You like them and you are prepared to make the effort, but also not be too pushing and that you respect who they are. Note: if you say something like that, don't expect much more than a acknowledgement, but know they have received the info and are processing it.