Me leo Bf Virgo

we broke up 4days ago but we still have a communication after the break up he told me that we can stay the same and thats what happening . i ask him if can still get back together someday he told he he wont close the possibility but dont get my hopes up.. i cant control my emotions sometimes i thought i will just ignore his texts and will just move on because until we are talking im still expecting... but if i ignore him i maybe lose the chance of winning him back.. what do you think is the right thing to do?

It's over, some men feed a woman hope and possibility, realistically though, it's over, now how you handle this is up to you.

If I were you I'd take a break, no communication for awhile, so I won't feel like I'm being led on/strung along but at the end of the day it's your decision how you want to go forward.

Move on. He's done with you and he's being nice about it.

maybe i should really wake up for this.. there is also another issue for us differences in religion .. he is an Iglesia and I am a catholic, my parents allowed me to convert if he is going to fight for me but i guess i really have to stop texting him.. it's really hard but i know i can do it..

Let him go....Virgos don't "fight" to get someone back. If we are done we're done.

Strange - so many virgos asking to give up without understanding the reasons for breakup.

Its so sad!!! - not sure what this attitude is all about with virgos

Gigian - can u pls let us know why u broke up with him?

U should always fight back if u feel its worth it. Just dont give up cos some people told u

Cheers
Leo

actually before we broke up i'm the whi ask for the space because i felt that he is effortless he can't come in our special events like family gathering because my relatives wants to meet him but because their religion dont allow them to participate in any occassion like feast that's why i became angry and ask for space ,, but in the end i thought that i should understand him and his beliefs but it's too late he was already firm that we have to end it but he told me that he will not leave me totally because he will still always there for me.. we still text and talk once in a while we didn't talk about getting back but we just enjoy talking.. the texting thing do you guys think it is a big deal? we didn't text like we used to be,now we only have few text with each other... i dont know what to think

Gig as long as you understand the door is closed then texting is fine.

The reason why I said move on is because in the end you're the one whose going to hurt terribly when reality kicks in that this guy is feeding you false hope with the "I'll always be there for you" lines and it's not fair to you that you're silently hoping while he's firm about his decision to leave.

Some men can be unknowingly unfair as in leading a woman on.

You see most women shut the door completely we just move on when we feel it's no longer viable to continue even if it hurts.

But some men can't fathom shutting the door completely on a great woman with a great big heart because of the benefits for example getting your attention exclusively, having a wonderful friend that will always be there for him, access to you, sex and/or the possibility of sex, someone who his back, time filler--someone who fills the time/void while he's searching for another. There are countless reasons men won't shut the door completely.

You only hurt yourself when you hope he'll change his mind as long as you know that then do what you want to do.

Yes, when we are done we are done. The reasons why is we've tried and tried, when we truly love, and got nowhere. I'm not talking about the 2 week, 6 week, 6-12 month relationships. I'm talking about the real deal; long term. One can only give so much for one realizes the relationship is going nowhere. Why continue to fight for something over and over and it go nowhere. It's just best to move on and find the right person to give ones all too.

I know we have some Virgo haters here but don't all signs have their imperfections—— No one is perfect not even the Virgos. We have our quirks but so do all the other signs. Every person is different based on upbringing, life's experiences, and beliefs. If you don't mesh with the person for whatever reason move on...next bus comes in 30 minutes.

You'll know the person the is worth fighting for and they'll fight for you without even fighting if it's right...Virgo or not.