Cerib
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13 YearsVirgo
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My birth chart
Virgo is a mutable sign, can go with pretty much another sign. Aries-Virgo pairings aren't as common as say, Scorpio-Virgo, but go for it. My sister is an Aries married to a Sag. Aries like to lead and control. They are impulsive and speak their minds. But if you want them to dig deep and probe their deeper feelings, they have difficulty. They simply don't like to bother with deep reflections. They are DOERS not thinkers. Keep that in mind if you need intellectual stimulation or have a spiritual bent.
But they are charming, generous, exciting, and fun. You'll never be bored in that way.
But they are charming, generous, exciting, and fun. You'll never be bored in that way.
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I feel like there's some sort of connection that I can see but she cannot.
I would bother about this more than the charts at the moment. You cannot imagine the number of times I have said that about a woman and seen it not work out. There is potential for tragedy here so be guarded for sometime atleast. Your only advantage is that Arian women are direct and you will know the outcome soonish. But you really will have to make a direct move for her which is not in the nature of Virgos, perhaps your Sag ascendant will help you in your pursuit.
Well, she came over to my house the other day and hung out for a good five or six hours. Most of the time we spent talking(I love conversations! 😄).
As we were talking, there were a couple of silent moments, where she would turn her head and watch TV for a couple minutes. This allowed me enough time to think of how I can tell her how I felt about her. I guess this is where my Rising Sag came in to play. It happened out of nowhere. "I like you. As in boyfriend/girlfriend." I sat there a bit vulnerable and extremely nervous at this point, my mind was racing. "What if she laughs? What if she doesn't like me like that anymore?(she used to have a crush on me) Why am I this worried about how someone's going to react to that statement? She's just so beautiful and I have this strange affection to her, but I don't know why." So on and so forth.
Her reaction was this, "Awe!"*small giggle*
Insert sigh of relief.
This is where I proceeded with my next question.
"Diana, would you like to go on a date with me?"
Yes, this is her actual name.
"Yes, I would love to go on a date with you."
So we cuddled for a little bit, I gave her a back, neck, and shoulder massage.
Then she turned around, and kissed me. Out of nowhere.
I was in shock, but I held my composure and kissed her back.
I felt the connection. I know she did too, she's just not willing to admit it.
As we were talking, there were a couple of silent moments, where she would turn her head and watch TV for a couple minutes. This allowed me enough time to think of how I can tell her how I felt about her. I guess this is where my Rising Sag came in to play. It happened out of nowhere. "I like you. As in boyfriend/girlfriend." I sat there a bit vulnerable and extremely nervous at this point, my mind was racing. "What if she laughs? What if she doesn't like me like that anymore?(she used to have a crush on me) Why am I this worried about how someone's going to react to that statement? She's just so beautiful and I have this strange affection to her, but I don't know why." So on and so forth.
Her reaction was this, "Awe!"*small giggle*
Insert sigh of relief.
This is where I proceeded with my next question.
"Diana, would you like to go on a date with me?"
Yes, this is her actual name.
"Yes, I would love to go on a date with you."
So we cuddled for a little bit, I gave her a back, neck, and shoulder massage.
Then she turned around, and kissed me. Out of nowhere.
I was in shock, but I held my composure and kissed her back.
I felt the connection. I know she did too, she's just not willing to admit it.
Well it seems like you're on target then, is there something specific that concerns you?
Yes, this.... It was a little unexpected.
"Hey just wanted to say sorry I ant ready for that scene yet I really just need u as a friend I'm chasing someone right now an that's all I want."
This was after I had gotten home and checked my facebook only to see this message. If you want to see the entire conversation after that, you can message me.
I pretty much told her everything about my childhood, how much of a messed up life I've had, etc.
I just wish she actually knew how happy she makes me when I'm just standing near her...
Happiness isn't something I normally have. I fake it a majority of the time since I'm constantly worried about things at work, school, home, my love life, my life in general, video games, and a ton of other things. It all stresses me out, and sometimes it makes me a bit depressed/sad/angry/emotional in general. Thankfully I'm a Virgo, so I can hide my emotions very well.
"Hey just wanted to say sorry I ant ready for that scene yet I really just need u as a friend I'm chasing someone right now an that's all I want."
This was after I had gotten home and checked my facebook only to see this message. If you want to see the entire conversation after that, you can message me.
I pretty much told her everything about my childhood, how much of a messed up life I've had, etc.
I just wish she actually knew how happy she makes me when I'm just standing near her...
Happiness isn't something I normally have. I fake it a majority of the time since I'm constantly worried about things at work, school, home, my love life, my life in general, video games, and a ton of other things. It all stresses me out, and sometimes it makes me a bit depressed/sad/angry/emotional in general. Thankfully I'm a Virgo, so I can hide my emotions very well.
"It's a long one..."
For my second serious relationship, this one was the longest relationship I have -ever- had. Three years. She was a Libra and it started in February of 2006. I was 16, into the almost scene kid stage(skinny jeans and an emo haircut). I almost never met her. I had met her at a basketball game that I was debating on going to until someone asked me to come and we were going to go back to his place for a little smoking session. I can remember her clearly. 5'5", D-Cup, wearing a white AFI t-shirt with skinny jeans, a black studded hoodie, and she had black scene hair and square framed glasses(obviously this chick was my biggest love). She was perfect for me, someone who had never really had a fully committed relationship, need I mind you that I was just 16 and she was 14 at this time(seems live forever ago...), I was into card tricks, as on sleight of hands and whatnot. I saw her walk up with someone that knew the friend I was with, I was looking down at the time fiddling with my playing card deck. I looked up, saw her, and I found her very intriguing. She found me on MySpace(yes there was MySpace involved, lol.) and added me as a friend. I started talking to her, this went on for about 9 months before I asked her to go out with me, I designed an image with Photoshop, because I was too shy to ask her in person, and I found notes to be dumb. I picked the thing I was most comfortable putting my feelings through. Art. She was away at a concert at the time when I was doing this, I sent it to her, she accepted. This was on September 5th of 2008. The first year was really great. Til she found out I smoked pot, she wanted me to quit. I didn't, because I have really bad insomnia and can sometimes stay up as long at 3-4 days on bad cases, it also helps ease my mind a little and even me out. Not in an "I'm so baked right now" kind of way, but more or less, something that I know can make me tires, but I can enjoy it also. Anyways, on to the main point.... Besides the fact that she wanted me to quit smoking, she had a really great personality. I went over to her house probably 2-3 times a week, depending on the amount of homework/stuff I had to do, and other times she came over to my house. We had a pretty decent sex life, but that wasn't til after a year through the relationship(she was 16 and I was 18). This is where things started to kick off a little more. We became more intimate, more in tuned with each other, yeah we argued a fair amoun
For my second serious relationship, this one was the longest relationship I have -ever- had. Three years. She was a Libra and it started in February of 2006. I was 16, into the almost scene kid stage(skinny jeans and an emo haircut). I almost never met her. I had met her at a basketball game that I was debating on going to until someone asked me to come and we were going to go back to his place for a little smoking session. I can remember her clearly. 5'5", D-Cup, wearing a white AFI t-shirt with skinny jeans, a black studded hoodie, and she had black scene hair and square framed glasses(obviously this chick was my biggest love). She was perfect for me, someone who had never really had a fully committed relationship, need I mind you that I was just 16 and she was 14 at this time(seems live forever ago...), I was into card tricks, as on sleight of hands and whatnot. I saw her walk up with someone that knew the friend I was with, I was looking down at the time fiddling with my playing card deck. I looked up, saw her, and I found her very intriguing. She found me on MySpace(yes there was MySpace involved, lol.) and added me as a friend. I started talking to her, this went on for about 9 months before I asked her to go out with me, I designed an image with Photoshop, because I was too shy to ask her in person, and I found notes to be dumb. I picked the thing I was most comfortable putting my feelings through. Art. She was away at a concert at the time when I was doing this, I sent it to her, she accepted. This was on September 5th of 2008. The first year was really great. Til she found out I smoked pot, she wanted me to quit. I didn't, because I have really bad insomnia and can sometimes stay up as long at 3-4 days on bad cases, it also helps ease my mind a little and even me out. Not in an "I'm so baked right now" kind of way, but more or less, something that I know can make me tires, but I can enjoy it also. Anyways, on to the main point.... Besides the fact that she wanted me to quit smoking, she had a really great personality. I went over to her house probably 2-3 times a week, depending on the amount of homework/stuff I had to do, and other times she came over to my house. We had a pretty decent sex life, but that wasn't til after a year through the relationship(she was 16 and I was 18). This is where things started to kick off a little more. We became more intimate, more in tuned with each other, yeah we argued a fair amoun
"We became more intimate, more in tuned with each other, yeah we argued a fair amount."
But we ended up getting through them and moved forward. Two years into the relationship, I finally got her to start smoking pot, so she became closer to me and my friends. By this time, I was sure that this was going to be the woman that I would grow to love and hope to have a family with. I loved her so much. On the third year however, things started to go a little down hill, she became more clingy, more jealous, she started to complain a lot. I started to get a little scared, so I would hide in my shell for as long as I could. She started to complain more that I wouldn't talk to her enough, I started to get annoyed at this, but I had faith, and stuck through the last year. Right before I started college, actually, the DAY I started college, I receive a text message from her.
"I'm beginning to have second thoughts about us. We always do the same thing, day in, day out(I would have taken her places, but I had no job at the time, because I live in a small town and the economy sucks). I'm getting tired of it, I hate to do this..."
"So you're leaving me.... because I can't take you places or because I don't have a job or money to go out and do things?"
"It's not because of the money. We just never do anything different."
"What do you expect from someone who has no job and no money? It takes gas to go places, it takes money to get gas. Therefore you're breaking up with me because I'm jobless."
"No, that's not why..."
"Whatever, do your own thing. Bye."
I was in the living room when this was going on, so my family was around. I maintained my composure and went upstairs into my room. I cried. Til I had to leave for school(about 30 minutes, long time for me to cry. >_>😉. I went to school, and thought to myself, "Things are going to get better. You're going to college now, you're pursuing your dream. You'll make it places." It took me about 2-3 weeks to fully get over her, I forced myself to stop thinking about her more and more each day til it just stopped. Every not and again I'll think of what she's doing and stuff.
Now for the third....
But we ended up getting through them and moved forward. Two years into the relationship, I finally got her to start smoking pot, so she became closer to me and my friends. By this time, I was sure that this was going to be the woman that I would grow to love and hope to have a family with. I loved her so much. On the third year however, things started to go a little down hill, she became more clingy, more jealous, she started to complain a lot. I started to get a little scared, so I would hide in my shell for as long as I could. She started to complain more that I wouldn't talk to her enough, I started to get annoyed at this, but I had faith, and stuck through the last year. Right before I started college, actually, the DAY I started college, I receive a text message from her.
"I'm beginning to have second thoughts about us. We always do the same thing, day in, day out(I would have taken her places, but I had no job at the time, because I live in a small town and the economy sucks). I'm getting tired of it, I hate to do this..."
"So you're leaving me.... because I can't take you places or because I don't have a job or money to go out and do things?"
"It's not because of the money. We just never do anything different."
"What do you expect from someone who has no job and no money? It takes gas to go places, it takes money to get gas. Therefore you're breaking up with me because I'm jobless."
"No, that's not why..."
"Whatever, do your own thing. Bye."
I was in the living room when this was going on, so my family was around. I maintained my composure and went upstairs into my room. I cried. Til I had to leave for school(about 30 minutes, long time for me to cry. >_>😉. I went to school, and thought to myself, "Things are going to get better. You're going to college now, you're pursuing your dream. You'll make it places." It took me about 2-3 weeks to fully get over her, I forced myself to stop thinking about her more and more each day til it just stopped. Every not and again I'll think of what she's doing and stuff.
Now for the third....
The third one, Aquarius, Birthday: February 14.
This one started off amazingly. Great connection, I've known and dated her off and on since middle school. You could say, we shared a bond of some sort. Since I had already been friends with her basically since elementary school, I had already had some trust in her. This is three months after my second serious relationship(Ended Jan. 2, 2011), so this is sometime in March when she adds me to facebook(I had recently made one to keep track of old friends/post stuff for school) and we begin to chat. Couple weeks go by, we've hung out a couple times, things start to get a little awkward when we're together. Neither of us want to make the first move, I normally don't make the first move, because I feel uncomfortable when I do it. We would sit at WalMart, in the parking lot, just sitting there awkwardly for minutes on end. I was thinking the entire time, "What do I do? Will she make the first move? Should I make the first move?" I ended up getting over the uncomfortableness and leaned over to kiss her, she pulled me in and we had a nice 10 or 20 minute make-out session, in her car. So a couple months go by, we're basically FWB at this point, having sex, smoking pot, and what not, just not drinking. Why? She's pregnant, not with my child. :O She was pregnant before we started talking, I didn't care. Sometime around August, we got a bit emotionally attached to one another, and there was no longer a need for FWB now. August 3rd was the day that we finally got together. Her son was born on Sept. 3 at 12:31. I remember this, because I told her on the 1st of September, that he was going to be born on our one month anniversary, and it'll be around 12:30. When she told me the time he was born, I basically went ape shit, got excited and what not, because I basically predicted when a child was going to be born. How awesome is that? Things are going pretty steady. Then out of nowhere, she shuns me for smoking pot(yet another hater...even though she used to do way worse things; acid, mushrooms, ecstacy, other types of pills. She even tried to kill herself multiple times, almost succeeded one time, she actually flat lined). She basically tells me out of nowhere that she wants me to quit smoking it or she was going to leave me. I actually quit smoking for about a month.
This one started off amazingly. Great connection, I've known and dated her off and on since middle school. You could say, we shared a bond of some sort. Since I had already been friends with her basically since elementary school, I had already had some trust in her. This is three months after my second serious relationship(Ended Jan. 2, 2011), so this is sometime in March when she adds me to facebook(I had recently made one to keep track of old friends/post stuff for school) and we begin to chat. Couple weeks go by, we've hung out a couple times, things start to get a little awkward when we're together. Neither of us want to make the first move, I normally don't make the first move, because I feel uncomfortable when I do it. We would sit at WalMart, in the parking lot, just sitting there awkwardly for minutes on end. I was thinking the entire time, "What do I do? Will she make the first move? Should I make the first move?" I ended up getting over the uncomfortableness and leaned over to kiss her, she pulled me in and we had a nice 10 or 20 minute make-out session, in her car. So a couple months go by, we're basically FWB at this point, having sex, smoking pot, and what not, just not drinking. Why? She's pregnant, not with my child. :O She was pregnant before we started talking, I didn't care. Sometime around August, we got a bit emotionally attached to one another, and there was no longer a need for FWB now. August 3rd was the day that we finally got together. Her son was born on Sept. 3 at 12:31. I remember this, because I told her on the 1st of September, that he was going to be born on our one month anniversary, and it'll be around 12:30. When she told me the time he was born, I basically went ape shit, got excited and what not, because I basically predicted when a child was going to be born. How awesome is that? Things are going pretty steady. Then out of nowhere, she shuns me for smoking pot(yet another hater...even though she used to do way worse things; acid, mushrooms, ecstacy, other types of pills. She even tried to kill herself multiple times, almost succeeded one time, she actually flat lined). She basically tells me out of nowhere that she wants me to quit smoking it or she was going to leave me. I actually quit smoking for about a month.
During that month, with my insomnia kicking in hardcore, my sleep schedule getting more and more out of control, she begins to suspect that I started smoking again, because of my constant blood shot eyes, eyes that are half way closed, always smiling. I told her that I have insomnia and that no matter how little the amount of sleep I get, I'm always going to be smiling around her, because she makes me happy. She doesn't believe me. I lose her trust. She loses some of mine, but not all of it, because I still have faith that something like that couldn't possibly end a relationship(it doesn't end this one). By this time, her son is starting to make sounds, he's more alert, as if a mini Virgo, training his senses to take in every detail that's around him. He considered me to be his father, I adored that(later I realized that the only reason I stayed with her was because of her son, I loved him, why? I don't know). So a couple months pass, I'm smoking pot again, because I can't stand not being able to sleep. I need it. She starts going nuts about it. So I ask her to reason with me, I inform her that I will not do it on days that I come see her, I will not bring it with me on days that I'm coming from school/work to see her. I would only smoke at my place. She broke up with me for about a day, then she starts begging me back. I take her back in, couple months pass again. I'm still smoking, and this time she actually reasons with me and smoked a bit with me for a couple weeks. Til I got some from a guy that she didn't like, and he was basically my best friend(I should have left her there, but I didn't, I'm stupid like that, and want a family....). August 2nd, 2012, by this time, I have basically disappeared from her. I stopped caring, I got tired of the excessive fighting, she started it all with her constant nagging at me for not giving her enough attention, not talking to her enough, not texting back after a certain amount of time(BUSY PLAYING CALL OF DUTY + TURTLE BEACHES... Uh, thinking and alone time wut?), smoking pot, etc. So I get this text message, "I feel like you don't care about me enough anymore, I think it's time we break up." "Okay." I was finished with her. First time I texted her in a week. The break up was mutual. A week later, she messages me on facebook, "You okay?" "Yup, pretty happy actually." "That's nice to hear, I've been doing okay too, but I still miss you a little."
"Mmkay, so what does you missing me have to do anything with this? You broke up with me."
"I felt as if you didn't care and you stopped being committed"
"Because I gave up on you, you tried to force me to change, you were always fighting with me, you never did anything for me, while I did everything for you, as in: Skip school just to see you, call out of work to babysit so you wouldn't get fired, helped you maintain your MS, I got you through rough times, gave you a shoulder to cry on, and the thing you did that hurt the most.... You never thanked me for any of it. So who's the one to say who was more committed? All you did was complain about everything and occasionally include me in stuff."
"Well, I've got something to tell you, I've been talking to somebody..."
"Nice..."
I'm going to end it there, but I can tell you this, a lot of foul language, and a lot of insulting were followed shortly after that. She even went so far as to say something like this, "...and if you try to talk to me through any of your friends, I'm going to give their names to the police station also..."
Needless to say, the only one that never really hurt me that bad was my first one(assuming Aries), and yeah, I've only been in three relationships, and have only had sex with four people. I don't seek quantity. I seek quality.
And lately, I've found myself attracted to 4 separate individuals, all of them being Aries. When I found this out, I basically went crazy, one of my happiest relationships was with one(still assuming). Maybe if I run into another one, I might find that happiness again.
I have often felt like I have been to blame for my relationships going sour, due to my sign. I've grown to live with it, and I've grown to love it. Being a Virgo is amazing. I've taken IQ tests, several of them so I could find the average, and surprisingly I came to find that I have an IQ of 123 on an average of maybe 6 tests. Some were higher, some were lower. I've been told I could be a MT(Massage Therapist) because of how good I can give back massages, I'm a quick learner. I like the quiet and alone time. Lets me be myself without anyone in here to criticize me. I enjoy this time a lot.
I'm just rambling now....I'm pushing post message..
"I felt as if you didn't care and you stopped being committed"
"Because I gave up on you, you tried to force me to change, you were always fighting with me, you never did anything for me, while I did everything for you, as in: Skip school just to see you, call out of work to babysit so you wouldn't get fired, helped you maintain your MS, I got you through rough times, gave you a shoulder to cry on, and the thing you did that hurt the most.... You never thanked me for any of it. So who's the one to say who was more committed? All you did was complain about everything and occasionally include me in stuff."
"Well, I've got something to tell you, I've been talking to somebody..."
"Nice..."
I'm going to end it there, but I can tell you this, a lot of foul language, and a lot of insulting were followed shortly after that. She even went so far as to say something like this, "...and if you try to talk to me through any of your friends, I'm going to give their names to the police station also..."
Needless to say, the only one that never really hurt me that bad was my first one(assuming Aries), and yeah, I've only been in three relationships, and have only had sex with four people. I don't seek quantity. I seek quality.
And lately, I've found myself attracted to 4 separate individuals, all of them being Aries. When I found this out, I basically went crazy, one of my happiest relationships was with one(still assuming). Maybe if I run into another one, I might find that happiness again.
I have often felt like I have been to blame for my relationships going sour, due to my sign. I've grown to live with it, and I've grown to love it. Being a Virgo is amazing. I've taken IQ tests, several of them so I could find the average, and surprisingly I came to find that I have an IQ of 123 on an average of maybe 6 tests. Some were higher, some were lower. I've been told I could be a MT(Massage Therapist) because of how good I can give back massages, I'm a quick learner. I like the quiet and alone time. Lets me be myself without anyone in here to criticize me. I enjoy this time a lot.
I'm just rambling now....I'm pushing post message..
You're baked brah, posting like a mofo, no one done goin' to read this. 😛
Yeah. I was, lmao.
I was pretty wasted to be honest. I don't want to read it myself, because I'm afraid of how bad my words are going to be. 😱
I was pretty wasted to be honest. I don't want to read it myself, because I'm afraid of how bad my words are going to be. 😱
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