Are virgo's antisocial?

I feel like my boyfriend never wants to go out and socialize/go to events with me and my friends nor with his friends.
He likes to go out alone together and doesn't see why we have to include others when it's suppose to be "our" time.

Is this common amongst Virgo males?

Both of our friends know we've been in a relationship for 2+ years and it's just pissing me off that im the odd one out who comes alone to events. Frankly i think he's being selfish and should compromise once in awhile to do something I want regardless of his antisocial behavior.Do i sound immature lol?

Nope. At least not me. Maybe he just doesn't want to meet your friends & doesn't want you to meet his.

It depends on how much you actually interact when you do go out together. If you're the more extroverted one, you may need to actively include him back into your conversations so that he doesn't feel left behind. Of course, that might be a lot of extra effort on your part. Do you want him there because you value his company, or do you want him there because you're expected to have a date on your arm?

Granted, I've seen some couples who happily ditch each other during social functions. Everyone has different attachment style s.

*asocial

My father and my cousin's girlfriend, both Virgos, are both pretty outgoing. But, when they're in one of their moods, they do tend to withdraw until it passes. You don't sound immature at all.

I know this is a dumb question but have you asked him about it?

Agreed. Ask him. I, for one, prefer to be alone rather than in a large group, unless it's work related. My quiet time is very precious to me. Is that antisocial? If it is, it is, that's who I am and if my S/O was bugged that I didn't hang out with their friends I'd understand and just say, "Have a nice time!" or if the mood was right, go along. But, I honestly feel no overwhelming desire to be with a group of people unless I know them very well. On the other hand, I travel a great deal and love to make new acquaintances probably because they're fleeting.

Ok, that does make me somewhat antisocial, but so what? Whatever group I'm with has got to be worth the time and interesting or it just zaps my energy too much. My very close friends are highly valued and I spend time with them when it works for everybody. Maybe that's how he feels. Only he knows, though.

It's very common.
I'm the original virgo hermit, I very rarely go out for anything other than the bare necessities. That's why aries+virgo never work out - aries are way too outgoing for virgos.

I don't have any friends

We aren't anti-social, we shy away from new/unknown situations. Doesn't mean we don't like them, we're just shy about them until we feel comfortable n then it becomes an ordinary everyday thing.

Just tell him you'd really like to spend time w/ him n his friends, together. With the peeps you most appreciate n love n then after you guys can have your own "us" time.

Perhaps he just needs some convincing 😉. Talk it over w/ him, bring it up from a neutral standpoint, not an upset one n u should see him open up.

Now, if he's just an ass n doesn't even put in a bit of effort... Then you'll have to decide whether you can keep your love life n social life separate or not... Good luck!

Posted by ariesbabie
I feel like my boyfriend never wants to go out and socialize/go to events with me and my friends nor with his friends.
He likes to go out alone together and doesn't see why we have to include others when it's suppose to be "our" time.

Is this common amongst Virgo males?

Both of our friends know we've been in a relationship for 2+ years and it's just pissing me off that im the odd one out who comes alone to events. Frankly i think he's being selfish and should compromise once in awhile to do something I want regardless of his antisocial behavior.Do i sound immature lol?

I wonder what his "rising" is because mine is in Aqua (which I relate better to...than my Sun sign: Virgo) and I often get that way. I am a woman however. Some days/ Weeks I want to be around EVERYONE. Party, hang out. Drink festive. But then some days/weeks I just want to be alone. In my room. Doing nothing. Not sure if thats what you're experiencing though. Most of my Virgo male friends are like your boyfriend oddly enough. They like hanging out SOMETIMES but mostly they're loners...

My rising in Leo, I am very anti-social. I don't go out really at all. If I do I don't like to be out long and I never really ever have gone out with a boyfriend unless its together just him and I. It's not because I am ashamed to be out with him or anything like that, I just like to do my own thing. if I am out with him I like to give him my undivided attention. Even now, I am single -- I get invited to things all the time but I RARELY go unless its a birthday or a special occasion.

As a Virgo male, some of us our antisocial & I agree with you it isn't fair that he's not willing to participate in social activities you enjoy. You're not being immature & its perfectly natural to want to go out socializing to clubs, parties, events, etc. We greatly enjoy going out with our mates & adding personal touches to our time spent with them. However, if he's unwilling to participate go out alone or with friends. Usually, us Virgos can't stand feeling like there's something out there that we aren't able to supplement. lol He'll come around if he loves you or at least comprimise. Just tell him exactly what you want & why. He'll understand because he loves.

Depends. I can be anti social when there is a disruption of harmony. I think when im quiet its cause im absorbing negative energy.

I have no idea of these hermits you people speak of, but the Virgos that I know are all social & go out including myself. I mean I'm not a jack rabbit every weekend (well...maybe during the Summer 😛), because it gets pretty expensive, but most of the time I get cabin fever & I have to go.

I'm shy not antisocial. I love goin out, goin to parties n meeting new people. It's fun... But then again my social traits may be due to my Leo moon or Libra placements (im on the V/L cusp)

i think he either ,not comfortable with u yet/
feels you might lose interest in him/ perhaps not consolidated enough with you yet etc...
could be the result of low self esteem

Posted by Peanutbutter
I'm shy not antisocial. I love goin out, goin to parties n meeting new people. It's fun... But then again my social traits may be due to my Leo moon or Libra placements (im on the V/L cusp)

Lol, prob the Libra placements. 😉 Leeb cusper here. I actually enjoy plenty of air...pun intended. 😄

Not to mention that sag rising...