Im with an older Virgo man about 45 yrs old...i guess im still trying to figure out how after only 3 months he says he loves me, meets my mother and my daughter, after 1 disagreement he just became distant....after i finally spoke to him, he still seemed distant...are Virgo men that "Cold" that they can just love you then leave you alone over one thing —?...i'm a virgo woman & can't see my self giving up that easily
Older Virgo Men ——?

Old virgo men are damn charming and dangerous..!
Stay away from me..!!
Stay away from me..!!
Dangerous ——?....what advice can you give me about my situation
I'm confused, because i really thought being that he was older he would have handled the situation better, especially since he has been hurt alot himself....why not just say what's going on —??, dont just walk away like that
After a week of being distant from me he finally explained how he felt about our disagreement & things still were not the same, he still would not call me or tet me....nothing...was he waiting for me to make it up to him...did he need attention because he felt like i was the one who messed up —?

Old virgo men are true masters of charming.. they care, but at the same time they don't give a shit (if things are getting complex).
See..??
I've said that some times ago in this very forum that (Virgos does not like dramas and love to live a simple life without complexes especially the one created by the others).
You want him? Then stay care free and don't create drama.
See..??
I've said that some times ago in this very forum that (Virgos does not like dramas and love to live a simple life without complexes especially the one created by the others).
You want him? Then stay care free and don't create drama.

Right up...
He had a lot of disappointments and there are no guaranties that makes you his (the one and the only).
Virgos are not a doormat and certainly not a gadget to be used..!
He had a lot of disappointments and there are no guaranties that makes you his (the one and the only).
Virgos are not a doormat and certainly not a gadget to be used..!
Qbone- Are you saying as soon as you disagree with someone you claim you love you look at that as drama and just walk away ?.....are relationships suppose to be happy and perfect at all times —...all i actually asked him was to be a little bit earlier when he picks me up because we had a show to go too, & he had a fit, he felt like i had no right to say that because he knows how to calculate his time correctly & also that he never made us late to anything before, and that was true, but that still does not mean that i wanted to test the waters everytime and then end up late just that one time.....i really feel like he blew it out of proportion, besides that anything i say if he doesnt like it we will discuss it and get over it "No drama"...that's why im so confused.
Oh yeah i forgot to add, that as soon as he started to get upset i naturally started getting upset as well & i told him dont worry about it i will take the train & then he got really furious, he felt like i was trying to say "F**k you, but i was just upset...my point is why would this bring upon weeks of anger towards me when we both were upset
With virgos it's never their fault!
Now imagine when two virgos are involved. Since it's never "their" fault, none will give in. I LOVE IT and LIKE IT! This is as dramatic as it can get not to mention entertaining for FREE.
Now imagine when two virgos are involved. Since it's never "their" fault, none will give in. I LOVE IT and LIKE IT! This is as dramatic as it can get not to mention entertaining for FREE.

You are Virgo too, so you should know what I am saying...
There are pre-plans of how to do it, when to do it and why to do it, if any things unexpectedly happen, then it'll make confusions and a ripple to the plans.
Confusions are the worst enemies of the organised Virgo's mind. The older the mind, the more anal about the shift and change of the pre planed directions ,so much that it could create not only arguments/disagreements but also distances.
Give him a time to cool down; this is what you can do at the moment.
There are pre-plans of how to do it, when to do it and why to do it, if any things unexpectedly happen, then it'll make confusions and a ripple to the plans.
Confusions are the worst enemies of the organised Virgo's mind. The older the mind, the more anal about the shift and change of the pre planed directions ,so much that it could create not only arguments/disagreements but also distances.
Give him a time to cool down; this is what you can do at the moment.

caprigirlwithvirgo
Stop trolling .....ok..??
Stop trolling .....ok..??

capwithvirgo r u hateing on us virgos?we admit when were wrong .
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