
peo
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Posted by peo
I have two Virgo exes who were similar. A guy I dated back in high school, who would tell our friends how cold and mean I was. Behind closed doors he was physically abusive. I broke up with him because of the abuse, but I was very young and quiet about it. Over 10 years later I ran into his sister who gave me death stares. That's a long time to hold a grudge, so no clue what he said.
My recent ex used to tell me how manipulative and crazy her ex wife was and that she never wanted to marry her in the first place. And that she ended the marriage because of hot toxic her wife was. I recently found out that she actually ended the marriage over another woman that she had a crush on / affair with. And it seems like there may have been someone else involved in her breaking up with me too. I don't know what she says about me, but if the things she says to me are any indicator...
My Virgo bestie has done this after breakups as well. But to be fair, I don't think any of them would ever talk smack about friends or just for the sake of it. I can say that all three hate the idea of hurting people and they will go to great lengths to justify doing so. So in a way it's self-preservation.
Posted by AneemA08Posted by MaidemarilynI don't believe in leaving a person behind. That's the easiest thing any person to do. People cause them probs, then one leaves. Another cause problems, leave again.Posted by BellagirlVirgo are like that.
Hi there, I have been around Virgo men almost all my life, raised with 1, dated 2. I generally feel like I understand Virgos well but an ex boyfriend has me perplexed. Broke up 1 1/2 yrs ago, reconnected strictly as friends. He said some nasty things about me to my family, and makes no qualms explaining that's his nature, he trash talks everyone. I am very loyal to friends and those I care about and always defend them. I felt we were each others confidants, I don't get it, why so disloyal Virgo, can anyone give me perspective? In general I don't see this trait in Virgo men, does he feel superior to me, does he give a damn, he initiated friendship, but why?
The question you should be asking yourself is why on earth would you want to entertain him now. He may have a score to settle especially if you broke up with him. A Virgo moon is one of the ugliest moons I know.
Leave trash where it belongs in the rubbish bin.
So I don't get your view. I'm more curious to find out the reasons behind that and transform the negatives into positives.click to expand
Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by BellagirlI now understand your Virgo "friend".
Thanks for the comments, all but one, lol. Wonder what its like to be a greasy cartoon rat?click to expand
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My recent ex used to tell me how manipulative and crazy her ex wife was and that she never wanted to marry her in the first place. And that she ended the marriage because of how toxic her wife was, yet her ex-wife is her best friend now. I recently found out that she actually ended the marriage over another woman that she had a crush on / affair with. And it seems like there may have been someone else involved in her breaking up with me too. I don't know what she says about me, but if the things she says to me are any indicator...
My Virgo bestie has done this after breakups as well. But to be fair, I don't think any of them would ever talk smack about friends or just for the sake of it. I can say that all three hate the idea of hurting people and they will go to great lengths to justify doing so. So in a way it's self-preservation.