Hi all. I've come here as a last resort to trying to help my virgo girlfriend (As in Bestfriend) She has been friends with a scorpio male who is just recently (5 months) out of a four year relationship, Also in engaged. Scorp male and ex are the type of couple who break up on and off. Last time it was 5 months. Virgo bestfriend to be quite honest is OBSESSED with this man. I'm supportive to a fault but i'm very nervous for her considering last time he went on a date with virgo, while broken up from the ex virgo female felt he wasn't physically attracted to her. She was also throwing herself at him (not in a trashy way but making it very obvious). Got back with ex fiance and totally blew virgo off. She was hurt and though tried to hide it from us secretly waiting for them to break up again. Well they did. It seems as though Mr scorp is only using her to get over his ex and make his ex jealous. They have been talking for a couple months and just made it official on "facebook" LOL she has said "I love you so much! xox" That is very cute only, he doesn't even respond!!! Virgo F 28, Scorpio M 31. Ex fiance around 26? I'm not to sure. On facebook she basically again throws herself at him, He has mentioned to her "slow down" on several occasions. I don't really know how to approach this situation with her, I am a pretty blunt person and know we will end up in a arguement.Any help would be much appreciated.
Please help virgos!
I would say to let her be and give her the freedom to be happy now with him on somewhat of a rebound with his ex while at the same time in a relationship with her. I know from firsthand experience as well as being a Virgo through and through that when we are head over heels in to someone that will not change no matter how difficult it can be with them because we don't just fall for anyone. When we do we fall hard and our idea of love is to stick it out no matter what because hard work with that person will pay off. Virgos know when something is wrong because we pick and pick at every situation from all angles. She will have to see for herself that the relationship is bad for her.
Thank you for your time and response. I suppose that is the best way to go.... Maybe all will turn out well... =)
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