TaurusLady63
@TaurusLady63
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Salutations! Might I introduce myself)
*chuckles* Oh so true Kaleidscorp... He definitely has me in a quandry nearly all the time and to add insult to injury unfortunately he's 8 years younger than I am and 12 hours away. I truly love this man, but he is so confounding. It's such a long long story but anyway, thank you so much for the welcome!! =)
oh great, more taurses....
please tell me your not as crazy and *stubborn* as the others 😛
please tell me your not as crazy and *stubborn* as the others 😛
*grins mischeviously* Well I suppose that depends on one's perspective Zen. However, I AM a Taurus. =P
Welcome to the boards 😄
Welcome TaurusLady! As you can see (and as you may have read) I am a Pisces that really seems to like the Virgos! I seem to be attracting them as of late...lol. I would love to hear your story as well. They are so elusive and hard to pinpoint at times for sure! My intuition seems to not work as well with the Virguys. 😢
It's so neat to find all of you into social work/psychology that believe in astrology! I am very interested in psychology and am contemplating becoming a psych nurse even. I have a new girlfriend that is a psychologist and she believes in astrology as well. She is a Leo and we get along so fantastically and we are always comparing notes on men we meet and their astrological signs.
I will look forward to reading your posts and views on things! :-)
I have actually just met an intense and sexy Taurus man recently and we are going to go out again! I really like the Taurus women on DXP so I am sure I will like you as well! :-)
It's so neat to find all of you into social work/psychology that believe in astrology! I am very interested in psychology and am contemplating becoming a psych nurse even. I have a new girlfriend that is a psychologist and she believes in astrology as well. She is a Leo and we get along so fantastically and we are always comparing notes on men we meet and their astrological signs.
I will look forward to reading your posts and views on things! :-)
I have actually just met an intense and sexy Taurus man recently and we are going to go out again! I really like the Taurus women on DXP so I am sure I will like you as well! :-)
*smiles* Thank you all so much for the warm welcome. =) Kaleidescorp I certainly understand where your coming from. My Virguy is very sweet and is always doing nice things for me, but it's a bit confusing when there is so little emotion.
Okay, let me give a bit of the story. This may be long winded but I'll do my best to keep it concise and to the point. LOL
I met my virguy through work. There was an INSTANT attraction, which totally blew me away, I pride myself on being no nonsense, I analyze everything and NEVER jump in to anything without extensively running through all the variables and making sure there is a possibility of success. This guy just bowled me over.
Now, I was already in a relationship with a Pisces and was in the process of extricating myself from this relationship before Virguy ever came along, but you know us bulls, we tend to take our time and do things slowly and methodically to assure the best results. I cared deeply for this Pisces but he was very flighty, totally ungrounded and had no plan of any sort for the future. As cold as it may seem, that was unacceptable to me.
I was completely upfront with Virguy and explained that until I finished the current relationship all we could do was be friends. He was fine with that. We met, became friends and just learned about each other. Now, during my breakup with Pisces, Virguy had some problems with his family and actually ended up having to move back home to help take care of his mom. I found this very endearing because I to, not to long ago, moved to take care of a terminally ill parent. She has since passed, *sigh* I miss her horribly every day.
Anyway, I digress, I broke up with Pisces and Virguy then moved ahead full steam, at this point it was from a distance. He pursued me relentlessly. We talked on the phone every night for 3-4 hours, emailed, and met each other when we could. We see each other about once a month, usually for a long weekend. It was a good 6 months before we actually were intimate with each other. But when we finally did....OMG...it was....phenomenal...I mean...phenomenal...WOW...(*chuckles* He has the obsession with my back end for some reason,seems to think it is absolute perfection, guess that's a virgo thing?)
We have talked about living together, planned our lives together, he told me he loved me (this was about 8 months ago, we have been in each others life about a year and a half now.)We have learned each other well, at least I thought we
Okay, let me give a bit of the story. This may be long winded but I'll do my best to keep it concise and to the point. LOL
I met my virguy through work. There was an INSTANT attraction, which totally blew me away, I pride myself on being no nonsense, I analyze everything and NEVER jump in to anything without extensively running through all the variables and making sure there is a possibility of success. This guy just bowled me over.
Now, I was already in a relationship with a Pisces and was in the process of extricating myself from this relationship before Virguy ever came along, but you know us bulls, we tend to take our time and do things slowly and methodically to assure the best results. I cared deeply for this Pisces but he was very flighty, totally ungrounded and had no plan of any sort for the future. As cold as it may seem, that was unacceptable to me.
I was completely upfront with Virguy and explained that until I finished the current relationship all we could do was be friends. He was fine with that. We met, became friends and just learned about each other. Now, during my breakup with Pisces, Virguy had some problems with his family and actually ended up having to move back home to help take care of his mom. I found this very endearing because I to, not to long ago, moved to take care of a terminally ill parent. She has since passed, *sigh* I miss her horribly every day.
Anyway, I digress, I broke up with Pisces and Virguy then moved ahead full steam, at this point it was from a distance. He pursued me relentlessly. We talked on the phone every night for 3-4 hours, emailed, and met each other when we could. We see each other about once a month, usually for a long weekend. It was a good 6 months before we actually were intimate with each other. But when we finally did....OMG...it was....phenomenal...I mean...phenomenal...WOW...(*chuckles* He has the obsession with my back end for some reason,seems to think it is absolute perfection, guess that's a virgo thing?)
We have talked about living together, planned our lives together, he told me he loved me (this was about 8 months ago, we have been in each others life about a year and a half now.)We have learned each other well, at least I thought we
We have talked about living together, planned our lives together, he told me he loved me (this was about 8 months ago, we have been in each others life about a year and a half now.)We have learned each other well, at least I thought we had. Depending on the job situation we were both willing to relocate for the other when the time was right.
Well, all of a sudden, over the last several months he withdrew. At one point I did not have any contact from him for nearly 4 weeks, I called several times the first week and got no answer. After the 4th week of no contact I sent him a letter stating he must have decided to move on, wished him the best of luck, and told him I would always be his friend. He called within days of receiving that letter. The story he gave me was plausible I suppose but he insisted if he wanted to end things he would tell me. At that point I told him that kind of blantant disrespect is not something I'll tolerate. He's never done it again. However we don't talk as we use too, he calls every few days, the calls are quick, often silent like we are struggling for conversation. He just seems to have completely withdrawn. He was so outgoing when he was pursuing me and now he seems so shy and reserved, undemonstrative.
I'm going to stop here, there is more and I"ll answer any questions that might come up. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this rather long diatribe, I do appreciate any input you may have. =)
Well, all of a sudden, over the last several months he withdrew. At one point I did not have any contact from him for nearly 4 weeks, I called several times the first week and got no answer. After the 4th week of no contact I sent him a letter stating he must have decided to move on, wished him the best of luck, and told him I would always be his friend. He called within days of receiving that letter. The story he gave me was plausible I suppose but he insisted if he wanted to end things he would tell me. At that point I told him that kind of blantant disrespect is not something I'll tolerate. He's never done it again. However we don't talk as we use too, he calls every few days, the calls are quick, often silent like we are struggling for conversation. He just seems to have completely withdrawn. He was so outgoing when he was pursuing me and now he seems so shy and reserved, undemonstrative.
I'm going to stop here, there is more and I"ll answer any questions that might come up. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this rather long diatribe, I do appreciate any input you may have. =)
Thanks all for the lovely responses! Guess we'll see how things go. =) Heading up today to see my Virguy for the weekend. He got tickets to the yankees game in Chicago. I LOVE baseball, especially the Yankees! We both spent some considerable time in New York. =) Let ya all know how it goes when I get back. Have a wonderful exciting weekend!
Debora =)
Debora =)
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Thanks all for the lovely responses! Guess we'll see how things go. =) Heading up today to see my Virguy for the weekend. He got tickets to the yankees game in Chicago. I LOVE baseball, especially the Yankees! We both spent some considerable time in New York. =) Let ya all know how it goes when I get back. Have a wonderful exciting weekend!
Debora =)
Ooooohhhh..sounds like a lot of fun!!! Can't wait to hear! Hope it's fantastic for you both! :-)
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