I have been dating this Scorpio for about 6 months now and everything is great. He would do anything for me, he tells me he loves me everyday, and would never cheat on me. The only problem I have with our relationship is the fact that he has dated many girls before me, a couple who have been serious, and I can't get over that. It mostly stems from the fact that I am different than him and am extremely picky about who I date and my first bf was a Capricorn whom I dated for a short while last year. I don't understand how he can fall so deep with all these girls and wonder where I stand in all of this. For example, when a girl he dated in high school for 2 years broke up with him 3 years ago, he turned to alcohol to deal with the break up. I cant help but feel like he is still dealing with it today.
I may just be over analyzing or I may have major trust issues (parents got divorced because dad cheated on mom).
So to clarify.. did you cheat? And you seem to be compairing yourself to HIS past lovers alot. Each relationship is different thus so are the levles and progression of love and trust.
Work on your issue, because it is just yours. How can you complain of him loving deeply before you hit the scene when you are enjoying that he does now. He's with you now, yes? Apparently he's a faithful bugger during relationship due to the fact that this person was with him for 2 years, not 2 months. You cannot be 'the only one' pre-you. It's in the past. Leave it there and concentrate on *now* and *future*.
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I may just be over analyzing or I may have major trust issues (parents got divorced because dad cheated on mom).
What should I do?