Told Virgo guy I liked him, obviously a mistake...

I've been talking to this virgo guy now for over 2 months over fb, we get along
really well and have awesome chemistry, we have also meet briefly three
times on social gatherings and have this amazing eye contact.
We talk about everything and anything and I noticed that he is opening
up more and more all the time to me, even though I know I need to be
patient with him..In the beginning I had to start most of our
conversations since he is not the best with communication, and also
I had to ask him all the questions. Sometimes when I wrote him a message
he wouldn't answer at all or reply days later. So I was really happy
that he started to open up more and more.
I noticed that he like it the best when I am straight and honest to him,
and I really wanted to tell him that I like him as a person, that he is
so nice and funny, so I wrote him a message on his birthday saying this,
and after that...nothing....he has pulled away from me a few times before,
but now I am afraid I made this huge mistake...I don't want him to think
that pressuring him to do anything, just wanted him to know that I like him.
Many of friends have been trapped in the friendzone without wanting that,
and that's why I wanted him to know where I stand.

So dear Virgo people, what to do know? Just wait? or continue writing to him
like I never said anything? I am happy that I was brave enough to tell him
but still pissed at myself for possible scaring him away forever...

Cappy girl

Posted by Impulsv
Boy if a man can't handle being told he's liked . Run
Either way win for u.

+1

As the saying goes, he's just not that into you. Better luck next time.

Posted by TMV
As the saying goes, he's just not that into you. Better luck next time.

+1 Not to mention if you have sex with someone and accuse the guy of putting you in a friend zone, it typically means you jumped past the friend zone, didn't get to know the guy enough, and screwed him first. Not the guys fault at all. Sex doesn't buy you a relationship..

Posted by Gemini530
Same thing just happened to me with a virgo. He said he liked me last week and wanted to see where it went. He made an event on Facebook for his birthday and didn't invite me and i asked about it. All of a sudden he's saying all this nasty shit to me like how I'm just the girl he met online and I need to handle being rejected.

Terribly rude of him to do that.

But honestly, I wouldn't invite you to my birthday either if I had only known you through chat. Virgos are private people and they wouldn't ever be okay with random strangers attending a private occasion. Unfortunately, you expecting an invitation turned him off as that is surely perceived as "demanding and presumptuous" to a Virgo. I would react the same way.

All in all, the good news is "rejection" is a silver lining so don't ever look at it negatively. It is a cue for you to move onto the next, perhaps better, things.

+2

Thanks for the help everyone, it's been 3 weeks now since I wrote and told I like him, and still he ignores me...*sigh* I went from being really sad and confused to now still more confused but also pissed, like wtf! I care for him a lot, I don't understand how anyone can change from talking to you everyday, having amazing chemistry and then totally ignore you the next day and not care anymore.
I'm trying to look from his perspective and understands that he might have pulled away because I said I like him, but for how long do I have to wait for him to make up his mind? I won't contact him now, if he want's to text/talk to me he knows how to find me, but am seriously getting tired of this childish behaviour...does not make it easier that I do like him so much...