Why can't they just take it—

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Deeptruesea on Wednesday, August 28, 2013 and has 9 replies.

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@Deeptruesea
13 YearsCancer

I find that my virguy has a hard time receiving compliments. Does he think I'm not being genuine or does he even notice that I'm giving him one? Is this a trait of Virgos?? Please help!!!

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@VirgoMerlot
13 YearsVirgo

I cant take compliments either. I'd rather just a simple thank you or something like that. When someone compliments me, I rarely know what to say back other than a thank you. lol

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@Deeptruesea
13 YearsCancer

Posted by VirgoMerlot
I cant take compliments either. I'd rather just a simple thank you or something like that. When someone compliments me, I rarely know what to say back other than a thank you. lol

Why though—

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@sorcha
13 YearsVirgo

I think it's a virgo thing. I like compliments personally. But when I get them I feel like the spotlight is just suddenly on me. And it kinda freaks me out so I get all quiet and distant.

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@Deeptruesea
13 YearsCancer

Posted by sorcha
I think it's a virgo thing. I like compliments personally. But when I get them I feel like the spotlight is just suddenly on me. And it kinda freaks me out so I get all quiet and distant.

it doesn't help to fuel your ego??

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@scorpio24
13 Years500+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Deeptruesea

Posted by sorcha
I think it's a virgo thing. I like compliments personally. But when I get them I feel like the spotlight is just suddenly on me. And it kinda freaks me out so I get all quiet and distant.

it doesn't help to fuel your ego??

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it fuels their ego but they just get sortof shy and dont know how to respond. theres nothing more to it. lol

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@virgodog58
14 Years1,000+ Posts

I think we might think that you are trying to manipulate us ("butter us up") by laying on the compliments! Like you are after something!

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@VirgoMerlot
13 YearsVirgo

Posted by scorpio24

Posted by Deeptruesea

Posted by sorcha
I think it's a virgo thing. I like compliments personally. But when I get them I feel like the spotlight is just suddenly on me. And it kinda freaks me out so I get all quiet and distant.

it doesn't help to fuel your ego??

it fuels their ego but they just get sortof shy and dont know how to respond. theres nothing more to it. lol

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