Being a divorced single mother, I can tell you, that there is less time to date than as a single person without a child/children. However, my ex hubby is still alive (sorry to hear about his wife) so, I get a couple days during the week and every other weekend to be without my daughter (as she is with her dad). This is the time I spend with people of interest. My weekends that I have her are for she and I. We do mommy and daughter things.
As a father (who lost a wife he clearly loved) things are probably overwhelming for him. He probably really needs the affection of another person and most of all friendship. However with any single parents, their children are/should be their primary concern. It is a package deal. If you want the man, the kids come along with the package.
The choice is yours. I was a step-mom to both of my ex hubby's daughters before we had ours. I loved it and they still love me although me and their dad isn't together anymore. I also make sure my daughter has contact with her older sisters.
v-lady, I just started seeing a virgo man whom I adore. He has a 12 year old daughter who lives in another state, who he travels to visit frequently. He is also a very giving person and loves to help any of his friends. He is sweet as he can be and I am really beginning to like him. I have only had one other relationship with a virgo, years ago. I find them to be wonderful men and from what I can see good fathers.
OMG!!! Now that I look back at the calendar. It was Sat. Nov 10th! Wow!!! We have just met really. We have only been on 2 dates, but it is ironic he isn't involved as fine as he is. He is very busy and so am I. However, we are planning to squeeze some time in this weekend (although I have my daughter, I am sure I can get a sitter for a few hours 🙂)
I so sorry for deciding to hide my post, but after looking at it again, it just seems far, far too personal for public consumption. Schizophrenic, I know, but I hope everyone understands.
Virgo Rising and Virgo Sun, do these two go hand in hand with each other? I understand that rising signs have to do with how others percieve you at first glance. So are they basically the same both sun and rising or is it split up between the two?
As a father (who lost a wife he clearly loved) things are probably overwhelming for him. He probably really needs the affection of another person and most of all friendship. However with any single parents, their children are/should be their primary concern. It is a package deal. If you want the man, the kids come along with the package.
The choice is yours. I was a step-mom to both of my ex hubby's daughters before we had ours. I loved it and they still love me although me and their dad isn't together anymore. I also make sure my daughter has contact with her older sisters.