Virgo Females... H.E.L.P

Hi... Any help/insight (into this intricate Lady) will be appreciated :o)

I am currently a Lady Virgo. Man, this is tough! 🙂
We have been spending time together since Christmas - not as much as I would like, though (talk about busy!).
We seem to have hit it off, but she is quite reserved around me. OK, so I don't want mauling in public, I just meant at home, in relaxed surroundings. She runs hot and cold with me. Is this 'normal'— 🙂

She has done some sweet things for me; cooked for me; offered to help me with my french lessons, etc, etc.
I'm whining here, because she seems so emotionally unavailable. Do Virgo women like to just 'kiss and cuddle' with potential love-interests, and decide if they are worth it, at a later date? I ask this in particular as I have stayed over a few times, and she just wanted me to cuddle her. (I can't deny it wasn't nice, though).

I would really like a females perspective. I don't want to come on too strong, and scare her. But, I don't want her to think I'm not interested, either :o

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No surprised there. Most Gemini does that. 😄

























I Kid. 😛

I've been accused of being emotionally unavailable in the past by someone who I really liked. It's only been since December that you've known each other.
Before she opens up she probably wants to make sure that you feel the same way for her that she feels for you and that you are not just into the
"honeymoon" phase of being with someone new.
I think when she feels safe with you she will want to do more than kissing and cuddling.
Also the hot and cold thing might be because she needs space sometimes.
Leave her to her time alone so she can appreciate you.
During your time together make sure she knows you really care about her.

It's not that we are emotionally unavailable, we are emotionally cautious. Personally I don't like to cuddle with someone unless I truly love them and they love me. But I do think she has feelings for you.

Ladies,

Thank you for your comments - much appreciated 🙂

I hope she has feelings for me... even though we are not committed to each other.
I have recently discovered I may have a rival! Gulp! I am not too keen on competition 😢 I am trying to be as 'friendly' as I can... without it coming off all contrived. Uhhh.... But, fair play to her... she is totally honest with me; even if I don't particularly like it, I have to acknowledge the truth 🙂
I guess I will have to wait & see what unfolds... patience is not a Gemini virtue! 🙂

Is her aloofness used as a means to keep me at a 'safe' distance, until she is decided?