Virgo male (August 25) Libra female (october 8)

I started talking with this Virgo guy a little more than 2 months ago, he is the brother of a close friend, I was in a relationship for 4 years and he has seen me with my ex in the past, and he confessed he always had a crush on me, we started talking for a reason that was not romantic at all, but we never stopped talking every day (chat)all day long, asking questions about everything, he was very cautious, first it was friendly, then it turned flirty and then we met a month later. Sparks were flying, he is very shy but still made the effort to approach (really hard since it was a family party, I was invited by his sister)considering his whole family were just making comments and teasing (apparently everyone new he was interested)we kissed that night and never stopped talking since then EVERYDAY all day long always in contact.Spent New Year together met my sis (made a comment about them be nice and they would be good sister in law), he asked to go with him to a party with all his friends, I invited him to a wedding.Everything was going great, consistent, always in contact, we decided to take things slow but were both excited about each other, talked about the future, etc.
He is been single for the past 6 years, only casual he says bc he is very picky and never met anyone he cared enough to date seriously, confessed his only long term relationship (2 years) he was young and pretty much about sex nothing deep and meaningful, he was cheated on and took him a long time to get over it. He definitely has trust issues, a little posesive and needs a lot of reassuring about my feelings. Problem is since the beginning the relationship started kind of weird, I talked to him bc of a business and he was not into it so I said fine no problem, but he kept talking to me and then we started to like each other. I ended my relationship on March last year and ex moved to Florida but we were still friends and kept contact, then I started dating him and ex went crazy, coming after me trying to get me back, phone calls, Facebook posts, he is very insecure about that, he says how come I can get over him so fast after 4 years.In a nutshell he is insecure about my true feelings for him because of my ex, bc he thinks i am using him for the business thing, we havent had sex yet, then i put on my facebook "mixed feelings" (totally unrelated to us)since then he was cold at first now totally ignoring me.

Lol @ 25thdecan care to give your opinion since not only u were both born on the 25th but are also the same age!!!! What a coincidence!!!!

That's very honest.

Love the honesty 🙂 we have talked about the ex, i erase him from facebook and he know there is no contact at all. I would love to explain the post but he is ignoring me. This happened on the 11th that day he was his normal lving self and the bam he ignore me, next day he did not talk to me all day i saw him online and talk to him he was distant and cold we talked briefly and then he stopped talking, next day i text him good morning amor he responded hi, so i responded when u r ready to talk about what is bothering u let me know, he ignore me, i decided to leave him alone for a while but after not hearing from him on sunday i texted "feeling incredibly ignored 😢 i do not want to bother u and i think i have respected ur decision not to talk on these past few days but if there is something upstting up i want to talk about it, if u need time and space i understand it happens to me too, so i am not mad, i know is hard for me to express my feelings sometimes bc i have been hurt in the past but i miss u so much and i cant remember the last time i liked someone as much as i like u, so whenever u r ready to talk give me a call." he did not answer at all and he is been ignoring me all these time. The uncertainty is killing me, i know i should just wait for him to come back but then i think what if this is his way of ending things, that would really hurt and be completely our of character for him but I don't know what to think anymore. Should i try again—? I dont want to risk making him pull away even more or for him to lose the respect he has for me.... Ughhhh hate to feel like this and i miss him a lot 😢

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