Virgo men and friendship with scorpio women..help!

todays my first day on this forum and i hope it can help me in my quest in finding out more about the virgo male. i've posted this in a few forums... so apologies if your reading this 'varied' version more than once🙂

i hope someone can help! (the grammer and spellings a bit off, so please ignore)

i am or was seeing a virgo for about 2-3 months. although i dont know much about horescopes but from what i have read he your typical virgo.
he told me from the very begining that he wasnt looking for anything serious which i was ok with at the time. but i after a while i've developed more feelings for him. he talked alot about his previous girldfriends and opend up to me very quickly which iwas quite surprised with. but it felt good that he could trust me. it took me a little while longer to open up but i did tell him some personal stuff about myself. not much.i dont really open up to new people very quickly thats just the way i am. i find it hard to talk about my feelings and stuff espcially to new people.

anyways, he talked about previous girls and the ones he was chatting to at the time. he's a bit on a player. it was weird at first but he used to tell me everything about these girls and was very open with things. it did hurt me but i thought it was important to him to chat about them so i listened. (i think thats why he initially liked me becuase i listened to him) we went out a few times but that was it. i used to see him at his place for a meal or just hang out. he was chatting to another girl last year and started chatting to her again a few weeks ago.he was really into her. he said to me that he saw her as 'partner material' she had good values and qualities. she's blown him off a few times and said shes not interested in him which really pissed him off. i listened to him rant on about her. i feel like he wants to keep me and play with other girls at the same time.

what really bugs me is that he used to say stuff like 'you'll be a good wife, lover' or 'mother'. it was like he was ticking a check list in his head, and my 'profile' seem to fit whatever he is looking for. but then he started chatting about other girls and i would get confused as to what he wanted and more intrigued and why he acted like this. we get along well. although he talks more than i do.!

.... Also forgot to mention that having close friends is really impotatnt to him as he doesnt really have many and said from the begining that whatever happens he wants us to remain friends. despite him knowing how i feel about him, this morning he said he sees me as a friend. sometimes i feel like he's testing me which i dont like! (please note we have had an intimate relationship) the thing is i'm falling for this guy. i really want to keep seeing him becuasei think it turn into something real if he lets it. i want to be more than friends.

shed some light... part wisdom please😢

thank you all for your help.

VitasXisto: i understand the characteristics but we can sit and have a conversations for hours. the intellect thing aint a problem (i think). what i dont get is why does he chat about kids, family and how good of a mother i will be. he compliments me all the time on my looks so it aint that either (being a scorpio i find compliments hard to take!) thats sending me mixed messages. why? as for the other women ithought as he said he didnt want anything serious at the begining he was keepin his options open. when we first strted chatting he talked alot about his ex gf and exsiting girls and as i listend he was quite intrigued as to why i still stuck around. (not becase i'm a door mat) but because i think he just wanted someone to talk to.

p.s he's already said to me that i'm one of his close mates and whenever theres something up in his lif he calls or texts me first so i'm just confused. maybe its too fast or someting?

lovely scop: i'm going to confront him today... the thing is he's told me from the begining he wasnt serious so its not like he kept me in the dark. its just i thought he was then into me and i dont know what changed. it was the way we just connected and talked for ages. but your right he gets confused too easily espcially if he has too many options and i'm not going to be fwb🙂

DyTrin: i've already fallen for him

i just want to ask is he tryin to test me... to see if he' making the right choice. is that what virgos do? i still remain friends but it will be really hard not to have those kinds of feelings for him.

i posted this on another forum and this is what a virgo male replied:

I can tell you this. BE FRIENDS and WE ARE HARD TO DATE..lol
He's going through the phase where he wants to be 100% correct in his decision. If you can just maintain patience it sounds like he's leaning more towards you. When dating or showing interest in a Virgo we give subtle indicators like...wife..lover...mother. Those are all qualities we look for in a woman because in most cases, once we get involved its for the long haul. I can't stress enough remain friends..you find out soooooo much more about a person that way. He's a Virgo and the attraction to you is there...no doubt. You have just got to be patient. Virgo's always look close to home for lover's because we often feel we can trust the person....you being a Scorpio is icing on the cake..he just doesn't know it yet
VIRGO = PATIENC
your thoughts ?

lol... you guys are jokes. i dont mind anyones input. the more information i have about virgo men the better....

VitasXisto.. i'll be waiting

aquilascorpiusfemina... i hear you... but i have fallen for him. it just that he's just really open with me. he chats to me about pretty much everything. the extra 'loving' will definatley stop.

its like he gets too confused too easily. too many options for him. he has to go out test the 'field'(he just chats/flirts with other girls.... he hasnt slept with anyone else. he's been really open and honest to me and he hasnt lied to me..yet) and then he'll come back to me bitchin about them and me being the idiot i'm still there listening to him. i've told him that it hurts me when he chats about the other girls and he says he wants to be honest with me and open. wants to make a deep and strong friendship thats why he tells me about them:S he's so playin me right?

so fucking confused.... another virgo guys been saying be patient, he testing you, that he wants to be 100% sure about the person he's with.... give him space.

I'm engaged to one. He's a handful. We break up like every week, but they're usually fake breakups.

thanks all.. your comments have reassured my decision of just being friends with this guy.... but it will be really really hard🙂

but still quite interested to hear what vitas has to say...